Show S io V V S BETTY V Letters and questions for this department should be toe e addressed to tol Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram only on V cin fl one side of the paper It is is to append your name and address but these are arB held in confidence and will not be published Dear S. S B. B Woman WomanS S 1 have your last letter and a as usual enjoyed hearing from yo you Vh What t you rou said of your grandparents V. V and pd mother Is quite true but dont don't don't'S S 'S you agree that their early life am and V conditions under which they lived live were very very different from th the V usual city woman of today espe espe- daily cally the college-bred college girl of th V last few years ears Dr East of Harv Harr Har liar r v 3 re ree recent ent t article in Worlds World V Work Vork explained In the last fe few sentences that only only when we be be- be me egme somewhat unnatural can w we become thoroughly civilized Possibly Pos Pos- sibly that is not the happiest thought but it will account for a the complications modern people peo peo- have to face and the seemingly seeming seeming- V ly unending conflict of past Inand in In- In and conventions with new habits and customs even thought though proc processes Dont Don't you think you might h have ve had both the intellectual intellectualS S V thrill of accomplishment and the V happiness of or a home children ant and husband If your husband had been t l lIttle Ittle less selfish in bf Ills hIs attitude V V anda ancl nd a little more modern in hisS his S t I rv of womans place I hope you ou will write again from time to time V I have been intensely interested interested inter- inter V ested in your letters and I am sure that they have been a great addi addition V V tion to Hearts Heart's Haven tear Dear Miss Blair We have three darling little kittens kit kit- kittens tens two months old and very well wel trained b but t we cannot keep them so would like to get good homes for them Please have your readers call Hyland R. R. R A LOVER OF CATS Heres Here's hoping for the best rest o oS of ot S homes homes' for these kittens V D Dear ar Miss Blair This is the second time I have come to you for help but I know you dont don't mind Will you tell me methe methe methe the names of the finishing schools I l dont don't want universities or colleges but just the regular finishing schools and where they are located What courses What courses are required and what is' is the tuition What courses are needed to enter or does it matter A. A AD A.D. D. D Goodness that's a big order V There are Innumerable finishing A. A D. D Df located In numerous and various portions of or the country and their Individual al requirements are almost as complicated each I V having 1 Its own Some of them permit permit permit per per- mit girls In Iri high school to enter and come fome are only for high school grad grad- Tuition Is la a matter of Institution institution some a great deal more and some ome less I have a suggestion suggestion- get a Vogue Vanity Fair Cosmopolitan Cosmopolitan Cosmopolitan Cosmo Cosmo- politan Good Housekeeping or Red Book these are only a few of the ones printing lists and descriptions of schools but they will suffice suffice- get any anyone one of these and read through the pages at the front of the magazine There you will vIll find findall findall all aU the principal and most popular schools listed according to location end and type Then choose the few fel that interest you most and write for th their ir catalogues or requirements I etc Then If you OU still sWI wish more help come to tome me again and w well we'll ll ll be more specific These These-de descriptive de- de advertisements will wIlI give you rou a very good idea of the interests interests inter inter- ests and nd courses included In the schools and you can weigh their merits in your mind and imagination tion before segregating the few that prove the most likely I IDear Dear Betty Blair This is my first attempt to write to you but I feel that I 1 am wel wel- come I always take a peek into Hearts Heart's Haven and enjoy it very much Now for my difficulties difficulties- I cant can't dance Miss Blair and you youcan youcan can in imagine how I feel I should love to dance butI have never been allowed to go go goto to o a public dance and that that's s about the only place one can learn le-arn isn't it What would you advise me to do Should I take dancing lessons MARIPOSA CHIQUITA Every girl yes es and every boy too should know how to dance am an and should do It regularly even if they only dance In their own home o or out on the back porch Dancing an ing is isone isone isone one of the best exercises there Is and it is one of mankind's s 's earliest means of expression It has also tIo been responsible for a great grea deal dea of our cultural development A great many people never have to LEARN to dance It Just comes as asa asa asa a natural expression to music or ora ora ora a sense of rhythm In your case it might be bevIse wise vIse to tal take taka a a few dancing lessons until you pick up the general Idea of some of ot the modern steps but after that tat Just dance and dance all the fine tunc You dont don't need a partner to get a 3 great grea deal of fun out of it How about school dances Dont Don't ont you OU ever attend any of them And little group dances In tho the homes of or your friends friends I I cant can't un understand how you OU can be growing up without with out some of these opportunities for dancing The public dance dancs hall is ia really no place for girls and boys of high school age and Indeed it is not the only place to learn There are any number of or g good od teachers In Salt Lake and If you will telephone tele tele- phone to me me Ill I'll give you their names but I believe your yur own friends could give all the assistance you need Dear Miss Blair I am a girl of 13 and have blackheads blackheads black- black heads leads in my nose and chin I h have ve tried ried washing my face in warm Water water wa wa- ter and then cold but it doesn't seem to help Could you please tell me what I could use to rid my face of these horrible things B BLACKHEADS LACK H EA DS Blackheads usually are the trial of girls with oily olly skins Is this p part rt of your difficulty If so y you U must begin your correction by watching your diet Rich greasy foods such sucha a as pork fried meats or vegetables ma mayonnaise mayonnaise- dressing etc cause an oversupply of oil in the tissues and the he result Is seen in the texture of the skin Too much cream and rich pastry are also bad ba l I Make ke a I practice practice tice of eating fruits of all kinds green vegetables vegetables vegetables-oh oh yes I know lenow you get sick to death of my harping harping harp ing ng oh ot GREEN VEGETABLES all the he time but if you only knew what they hey m mean an to health and beauty you wouldn't mind so much Your teeth your hair and your skin are all nil ab absolutely absolutely absolutely ab- ab dependent upon them for their attractive qualities leaving aside the point of health As for the skin itself try cleansing it t with warm water and almond meal massaging it Into the face faCe face- always with an upward and outward outward outward out out- ward movement of the finger tips tips tips- until it Is almost dry then wash it of off thoroughly You can usually Hy posItIvely see the dirt rub out of or the he pores al along ng with the almond meal After you have rinsed your our face ace In as cold water as you can an get then hen dry it and use a it witch hazel or cucumber lotion to keep the skin from rom chapping Id I'd advise against any ny cold cream until you rid your skin kin of blackheads and furthermore a girl as young as you are should not ot use creams of any kind yet If you dont don't get results with this method of procedure procedure procedure-oh oh dont don't expect cx- cx to to Improve in a day It will take ake two weeks or a month write month write me again and well we'll see what mat we wean can an do V Dear Miss Blair I am very m much ch interested in Jn a song sung by Burt Chadwick at the Pantages during the we week k of June 10 to 16 The Tho be begins with these words Hes in the jailhouse now now now- Couldn't you get the words for me S. S Now I am sorry but Mr Chadwick Chadwick Chadwick Chad Chad- wick says that he has been asked for foi the words to that song hundreds of times but while he is using it as his specialty hit he prefers that no one else sing it As Mr Chadwick had to pay a big price for the words and music to be used exclusively by him he is more or orless orless orless less Justified in wishing to l keep it for himself This song is what Is known In vaudeville as a restricted song and it will not be published until Mr ChadwicK the owner re releases releases releases re- re leases the rights Dear Miss Blair Will you tell me through your department department department de de- de- de please the age of PrIscilla Priscilia Priscilla Pris- Pris cilla cilia Dean the movie star Is she married R. R A. A H. H As to her definite birth date ItIs Itis it itIs Is a it deep dark secret as far as Miss Dean has been able to keep it but she is around 30 20 Isn't that close enough What does a year on I either side of the line amount to after all Yes Miss Dean is married married mar mar- I ried ned to Wheeler Oakman a well known leading man They are re reported reported reported re- re ported to be he very happy and have havea a beautiful home In Beverly Hills just down the the drive ve from Gloria Swanson almost next door to Dustin Dustin Dus- Dus tin Farnum and only a block or so sofrom sofrom sofrom from Charles Ray and others Dear Miss Betty Blair I have a good dog to give away t to somebody who will give him a good home He is 6 months old Phone Hyland 2623 R R or call at 68 East Stratford avenue J. J J.E. V E. E L. L Heres Here's another chance for some of you dog lovers who missed out outon outon outon on a pet the last time Thank you J J. J E. E L. L Dear Somebody Did your little daughter go off Tuesday and leave a pretty little bonnet lying on a bench in Liberty Libert park to be picked up b by another youngster He couldn't find the owner so he brought it to me hopIng hopIng hopIng hop- hop Ing Id I'd use Hearts Heart's Haven as a medium medium medium me me- for returning the lost hatWill hat Will WUl you please call me and then we can see about returning it I feel that some little girlie Is broken brokenhearted hearted at losing such an attractive bit it of wearing apparel |