Show I BETTY BLAIR I Letters and questions for fop this department should be addressed to I Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram only I on one side of the tho paper It is necessary to append yoUr name and andI I address but these are held in confidence and will not be published v Dear Miss Blair Just a little question please If due to circumstances a young J I couple are ate to be married marred unexpectedly edly within abo about t one to two weeks' weeks time is it very improper to send out invitations then If so then how ones one's friends be invited to the ceremony at the church or should they be invited at all Also AIso when should the engagement and wedding be bo announced in tn papers the engagement taking place one one to two weeks before the wed wed- d ng Please tell me all you can bout about this and give what other suggestions I you you might thing helpful j t I A X Y Y Z v i J. J It If your your w wedding Is to be within ti a short time I 1 should say that Ii you ou should h ha e e the parents of the to bride-to-be give the tho announcement of the eng engagement gement to the papers a at once and at the same time they may give the date of the w J nS' nS If It the Invitations can be engraved and ad mailed within the time aU it Is quite correct to maP mal them to your our friends and this wl win will 1 save savo tho the necessity of mailing mere announcements announcements announce announce- ments of the wedding weddin after th the cero cero- many mony has taken place Whether you OU should invite your friends to the ceremony at the church depends entirely upon your v vown own and the brides bride's wishes Some people like all their friends present at the ceremony mony and others like Just the members of the two families fam- fam lies Ues and anda a very few close friends and relatives If there Is a to be a r reception at atthe atthe the brides bride's home following the church ceremony this may be In Included Included In- In eluded In the Invitation to the wed wed- ding If you OU wish only a few to tobe tobe tobe be present at the ceremony and then want others of your friends to come cometo cometo cometo to the wedding reception your invitation in invitation invitation in- in must read as aa r requesting the pleasure of their company at ai atthe atthe the wedding reception and for those few who are to be at the ceremony a special little card to that effect must be Included in la the Invitation I All announcements and invitations invitations must come from the parents parente of tl the tle e bride and the reception must be held at her born home e. e If the wedding is to be so small that no Invitations are engraved the notes of Invitation should be personally written by the bride The wedding may be announced both before before before-as as to take place during the week or tomorrow or this evening eve eve- ning and ning-and and after which after which will include the details of the ceremony or re re reception ra- ra and brief plans of th the bridal couple If It you do not Invite your friends to the ceremony and reception reception reception recep recep- tion you will probably wish to send engraved announcements to all the friends of both parties These of course are sent by the parents of ol the bride If there are any other questions question 1 just let me know and I 1 shall be glad to clear things up Dear Miss Blair Will wiil you ou please tell me what color hair and eyes Jobyna Ralston has D. D DV V. V Dark D. D V. V y Dear Miss Blair Here I am com cOmine in again to you for help I have a very bad habit of biting my fingernails I only bite them when I am very nervous or worrying about something Co Could ld you please tell me what to do Or is is there something I I. I could put on them to keep from biting them I was very much pleased with the answer You ou gave to last my question question question ques ques- tion and thank you WAITING Idaho Why not take lake such beautiful care of ot them that tha t you would be more anxious not to spoil the oval Contours contOUrs contours con Con- tours of the natis or the glistening pink surface Pride In your fIngertips fingertips finger fInger- fingertips tips would keep you from doing anything that would destroy etroy a thing of beauty Will power Is your best ally so develop It If It you feel that you must have a reminder you youcan youcan youcan can paint your nails nalls with a mixture of bitter aloes and quinine which your druggist will make for you but I should say that this was only for tor children and that If you only bite your your nails occasionally it would be much more effective to cure the cause rather than to hunt hun for a remedy for the result I am glad If I 1 was able to help before and hope that You you soon soon break yourself of ot this pres present nt annoying habit Dear Miss Blair I have come to you before and my answer was fine but now can you YOL tell me how much I should weigh gh 1 I am 14 years old and am 5 feet 3 inches in height H. H R. R Your weight should be between and pounds Dont Don't let It gO so over that will you Dearest Betty Pardon my calling you that but by reading Hearts Heart's Haven every night ight It seems I have known you for or years On August 19 I read in in iA e Hearts Heart's t Haven ven circle a letter signed WORRIED about being troubled with goiter If Worried will get a twenty five bottle of white iodine odine and a little brush and paint the he goiter for three days then stop for or three days and continue this treatment the iodine will kill ill it I have ave seen remarkable results from this his treatment so so thought I would tell elI Hearts Heart's Haven it NITA Thank you for telling us Us' about this his treatment and I am sure WorrIed Wor Wor- ried will be Interested However if f her goiter is of a serious nature Id I'd suggest that she se see see a physician phy phy- phy about It wouldn't you I am glad that you feel teel that you know now me so well I shall answer your tour question In tomorrows tomorrow's Hearts Heart's Ha Haven ven Dear Miss Blair Will you help me by running this little ittle note in m Hearts Heart's Haven I 11 wish to Lo R Jef get in ln in touch with w h a Mr Anton Antonin Riegel who said said he had b in in Salt i Lake only been bein n for a short time I too am a stranger here so do not know how to go about locating him i I I talked with him about three weeks ago t but was unable to keep an appointment and have changed address so meantime have lost my track irack of him hm If he telephones to I you telephone will you number please give giva him my mx H. H S. S Switzerland Ill I'll be glad to give him the de desIred desired de- de sired Information and I feel teel sure that If he sees this request he ho will call immediately Dear Miss Blair Could you please tell me the ad address ad- ad address dress and name of the author 0 or Moon Mullins A MOTHER Moon Mullins Mulling Is given publicity through the medium of Willards pen Address him In care of ot the Chicago Tribune Chicago Ill Dear Miss Blair Will you please let me mo know through Hearts Heart's Haven If bay rum Is a good tonic for the hair LUZETTE Yes bay i rum Is an an excellent tonic for the hair I Dear Miss Blair On August 15 while at Lagoon I lost a sliver silver vanity case caso about 4 41 2 2 1 Inches wide with a II sliver silver chain and andon andon andon on the front of ot the case cue were en engraved engraved engraved en- en graved two black line about one- one fourth of an nn Inch wide It con rouge powder perfume etc eto also a few cents In change W Would ul you be bo willing to help me find It f E. E 8 didn't Why you write te to us soon soon- er But well we'll hope that th the finder will read this and then thea Ill I'll Il give him himor or her your address Dear Miss MIas Has Mary pickford appeared In a picture since Dorothy Vernon of Haddon Haddo Hall Hallf MURIEL No but her admirers are hoping that she will complete her plans for fora a a. new one within the vet very near 1 future Ji- Ji t l' l c. f Tr t 4 f I t |