Show Imp tient for Release of Lenten Restraint Teas Dinners and Dances r 1 r Galore Come After Afler Easter Easte If By BARON rt the thc social strata there has been a steady undercurrent mII U UNDER of discussion lately latel the smart on ones s and those not 80 BO so sm smart rt 1 but h having some ideas s on the wider aspects of life been being J. J sled ossed ed in the theme as to who is the arbiter of local society an anere and there ere is not one who should be he 1 This is a serious matter even en lt Jit 1 it does not sound d so for or it is is easy to pick a leader in a R. R small td tD or a a I large r e eit city but in in the he tr transitory ns tory R stage age through w which l h we cit of this tIns size sire with its various cliques it is IS e- e ut ie going in iu a city Size various pr ill an impossibility to meet on a common ground and decide Jio o the thc leader should be i And nd if it were possible to choose it would be equally difficult the queen or of for a king for that matter to reign because it l take brains brams and money culture and assur assured d position and feti diplomacy as would be he necessary to hold a job at the court St St James Tames not nott to mention a courage unfaltering and the fac- fac fey of being quite calm under a nervous strain t. t Who can name the one with all of these attributes either rein m among those esoteric souls who put the bars up against all l kt bit their own or the other oilier coteries who are not so particular font t the bars ars just so the they are the right kind 1 r I I believe it was Wilde AVilde who said To liTo To get into the best society nowadays one has either to feed people amuse people or shock people To be bc in it is merely Here to be out of it simply a tragedy Society is a necessary No man has 1188 any real success in this world unless he has hast pt t women romen to back him and women rule society If you JOU have jut got women on your our side you arc are quite over You might just justell dwell ell be a law lawyer er or a stockbroker or a journalist at onto once If that covered the case in London in another day it is js even at present in the cities big and little in this country and ipes ipe's the rub The men might get along all right in figuring i leader but it would be hard work amon among the women But e eM to think of it it I will take back hack what I said Raid about the men lith ere are arc so man many whose interests interlock in a growing community that it would mean almost a tragedy if one y F started to dictate to another While some are exalted b by Y tails others by money and more by a family tree so much at- at is not paid in the V West cst to the latter and many who would Ile ile to mca measure ure their trees have lost their I There are arc not many people who vho are not susceptible to the i of exclusive ve invitations and there are ore more who vho whoM M and know that they have the right to be asked to lots of looes mes they have never set foot in To fo get the different factions k together i and agree on the real arbiter please arbiter please excuse it cant can't be be ae 1 aeNo No amount of could be used to palliate the wrongs and fueled I. I wrongs between certain factions and so we woe will probably ne to get along as DR best we we can in a human and natural sort of ii lay without bowing to the scepter I The impatience of or society is manifesting sting itself in the anro an- an ro of plans for great doings preceding the post Lenten Peon wion on There are arc teas dinners and little dances galore scheduled nhe next week or two and the dining and dancing sets are Wring boking ki g forward to the opening of the Newhouse hotel on Satur- Satur i next when a hundred dinner parties will be given and dane dane- eg will he the feature of the night following the banqueting feeing Aging from front the reservations and the lists of guests already ted to special pe al parties it is going to be a real Mi Mi-Careme Mi Careme carni carni- id though com coming a little late jK For the week after society's interest is centered in the wed wed- g of Miss Hiss 1 ss Mar Marguerite Richmond and Dr Walton Valton Newton Pugh ilich c w will ll be he a fashionable event taking place in the evening at 4 1 First Presbyterian S church to be followed by bJ a n large reception the home of the to bride I On the Thursday after Easter the alumni of the Greek letter here will give a dinner dance anee which is to be the most affair ever attempted by the Pan Hellenic society and the list of those in charge who with their ladies are arc making the theis pt s is an any criterion the affair will be smart enough t to attract in high society ft In hl retrospective the past week has been anything but slow lough sh the men hu have been een left out cut of practically all of the enter enter- 0 ut t. t A dozen ozen little di dinners users ers dances theatre and supper fJ IC have han made up to them for their enforced absence from lager affairs affaire and so the they managed to worry through without trouble |