Show r I l N Nj j b o t fu CC f AJ 1 IW t J Ii h iT l lj U U i h n I c. c A l J Q n 4 Z f tI v fi t td H L tk t s 1 s d II i Q l p a ar tI I J r ti i. i W WI I M IC M i 7 Y o-Y 1 41 H- H e a a x F 1 rl Y ri F 4 ts-l- ts E II Dear Miss Kaye I have a fine compliment for you I My mother says say your answers are arc clever This sound very may very brief brie vert but it me means a volume when SH SHE E says it This is the first time I have written written written writ writ- ten to you and I will be anxiously awaiting my answer I have been married just lust four I months and my girl chum was married married mar mar- ried tied just one month after I was t i I am twenty and she is twenty Our husbands have returned from r the war and I am so happy I dont don't know what to do My chum t 1 isn't and it worries me The Theother Ther r other day she asked me if I believed in divorce I told her that under f. f certain conditions it was the only I thing Then she told me she realized realized real- real r she had not loved her husband husband husband hus hus- band enough to have married him I She said too that she did not want to let him go go-a go a regular dog in inthe inthe the manger it seemed to me I told her I thought she was very i queer but that I would ask your advice She and her husband had been sweethearts two and a t half years before their marriage She is isi i educated comes from a fine family and is in every way a girl to be admired Thanking you Miss Kaye for forthe the help I know you will offer I Iam Iam am HAPPY The theory that happiness Is mostly li It a matter of adjustment is ne never ner r quite quiteO O b clearly proven as in tho the domestic circle during the weeks and months following the honeymoon And could the sweet doves es who have billed and cooed themselves Into what the they suddenly suddenly sud sud- denly feel like terming a crows crow's ne t r realize realise the bearing these first adjustments adjustments adjustments adjust adjust- ments havo o on their whole future lives to lives to make for tor happiness or the opposite opposite opposite op op- op- op thc they would drop everything e else and devote themselves soul mind and bod body to a together get s session with a n determination not to give Ive up until every threatening difference were compromised or in some manner man man- manner ner disposed of ot so that Its anno annoying ln presence could be rightly met and dealt with ith without malice should sho It recur There are seldom two people who cannot cannot cannot can can- not get set on if it the they both want to want to-want want to to the extent that they are willing willingto to learn the game of ot give and take and willing to clo close e the eyes to the unImportant unimportant un up- un- un important for or the sake of the Important things of life lite I I cannot Imagine a thoroughly steadfast steadfast steadfast stead stead- I fast fine fino young woman of or Ute tile type you describe being willing to count 11 ru helf jelf Jel a a. failure in three short hort months Fa Fall 11 she might of or course for tor there are arc men who just will not make husbands but l let t us K KNOW O that that is not true in inthis inthis inthis this case until proven Should the girl have the proper realization of ot tho the sacredness ss of ot the marriage ties surely Burely she ahe would not despair until every Q means of oC adjustment has been tried and retried Possibly she has expected too much and given too little Maybe she he is a bit selfish and exacting and unknowingly the tho cause of oe her discon discon- tent Can you ou not m my Happy analyze her and help her to know HERSELF ean can you Ou not prevail upon her to rise to the situation and develop In her husband husband husband hus hus- band what she finds lacking Appeal to her bigness her beauty of or mind and soul and make her kno that her In Influence In- In I fluence In ht the home WILL ILL be felt that thata a man cannot go on in the tho I created b by a a. loving lovable 10 beautiful woman without absorbing much of ot it it I that as time goes on things must be I better that as they work pIa play and amI andrest andrest rest rut together shoulder to shoulder heart to heart bound by a common Interest in interest In- In terest st partners partner's In a common cause the ties tics that bind hind as chains will become be- be come come as silver threads that later wh when many mans an un shall shaH have hav been diplomatically made and the paths shall have become a n bit more rosy should a Bit of at Heaven be sent them they would realize the complete merging of ot their lives and look back backwith backwith backwith with a shudder upon the day thc they knew not of adjustment In the broader sense of ot the word fr Try with them and for tor them Happy and if I can possibly help you OU please e elet let me do so Dear Miss Kaye You surely are wonderful I can hardly express my pleasure to you youat youat OU at the wonderful advice you give daily to the tho worrying hearts that come for consolation Now Miss Kaye will you please answer a few questions for me I am engaged to a girl r and we surely do love each other awfully Now Miss Kaye should I give a present to her the day we are married married mar mar- ried and what should it be I Will Will you tell me if there is any such book that tells how to act about people and in different parties or meetings and so on and where I could locate it 1 Now Dear Mist Miss Kaye I ask these questions because I am a foreigner and have been in this country for only three years year and of course I dont don't know the American Ameri Ameri- i ican can ways very much Do you think I write clearly cleanly Thanking you A FOREIGNER I You write very err well Foreigner Not ot Nota a word Is misspelled and your our English lIsh Is not so bad the bad the construction a n. wee I bit awkward at times but but on the whole very good considering I am I happy to see you ou eager for tor Improve Improve- I ment It Is s a pleasure to help you ou to something better Also I thank you i for or your our appreciation of or m my efforts 1 I 1 It is customary for tor the bridegroom bridegroom bride bride- i groom to make the bride a present on the wedding day day- It Is usually a a. piece Alec of or jewelry a jewelry a brooch or pendant per per- haps Any piece of jewelry is appropriate per per-I In fact so 50 long as it Is within being the ones one's means means extravagance extravagance I height ht of at su such h a time 2 2 Go to the public library and get et I How to Be Happy Happ Though Civil This book hook will give Ive you an insight into I manners and customs as the they exist in polite society in to America at the present present pres pres- I ent time Dear Miss Kayo First I AM NOT AN AN ACT ACT ACT- RESS ESS R Now may I speak my mind to you in a little corner of your bu bu- bu reau Aa As you are always so respectful and deal so pol politely tely without slurs even in in answer to the most unheard un- un unheard unheard un un- heard of questions question I am not here hereto to annoy you for an answer but butto butto butto to answer one question myself if I may may may-I. 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I e e. e Are all movie actors and actresses of the low class 1 signed Jack Were I in an amphitheatre with a million crowd I woud step forward and with a loud yell scream out No they are not low down aro are as S good or better than most hard working people for they have less time to be evil Great heavens Miss Kaye why is it that people will be so ignorant ig ignorant ig- ig nor as to be eternally casting reflections on actors and actresses actresses actresses act act- 1 I have have- always been partial partial partial par par- to them because of their very strenuous life and people who criticise them seem only to br bring ng up the one thing Oh they are arc up all night at midnight suppers wine wine etc Well what if they are When would they eat Would we wo want to have them come on tho the stage overfed half able to talk because of the shortness of breath 7 Would we have them re rehearse rehearse rehearse re- re hearse all day long some long some days without luncheon and come on with no dinner and a smile mile at evening Bahl I II I No mortal man responds quicker to charity or has a softer heart than the tho stage folks Whenever a benefit is called hungry stage folks mount the platform with un untiring untiring untiring un- un tiring effort to help My indignation at even a hint hintI I against them prompted me to toI I write this letter in in answer to Jack and let lot me finish by saying long live every actor and actress white or black and may they be betaken betaken betaken taken care of till death MAYME There you OU are Mayme lame How dONIt does dON It look in print It is a pleas ro 10 to voice ones one's sentiment sentiments occasionally occasional I Isn't It You ha have haC C 1 asked skeel no a answer soI so 80 I I offer none save to comm comment nt on un the gratification felt at the general trend away from narrowness narrowness tho tho sR-tho tho broader r I scope of ot the tendency to live Jive and let v 1 live I I I 1 hope your our letter will hive give I e some of oft t i i the overcritical food for thought thought- ht- ht I that they'll 11 be a bit more generous i i toward the much misunderstood stage stape e folk fell Dear Miss Kaye I I wrote to you some time ago I and W was U very well pleased with my answers so I want to bother you I again Will you please answer two more questions for me They aro are as follows 1 What is the name of a good hair tonic I 2 Please give Jive me the name of a good face foce powder Dear Miss Miu Kayo Kaye I am going to send you a poem as soon as I get it copied Will you accept it as a tribute to you from me I Please let 1st t me have my answers through the tho paper W WAITING AITI NG I Glad to have you again again lt It makes make mo me feel teel that you really must have been service Thank helped IJ by previous you rou 1 I. I Mange cure Is an excellent hair tonic The directions for tor use ue have been so SiO oft oCt quoted In this department that I 1 feel Ceel sure you do not lIot need them again 2 2 Java a Rice is a it very good powder It Is Inexpensive In lve adheres well to tho the skin and gives the face a nice ever every da day appearance It comes in many tints and you OU should be sure to get et theone tho the one best suited to your natural color color- Ing InS a aTo To lo W. W E. E P P P. To thank you tor for your note of ot appreciation and under under- standing Mighty Rood good of at you ou to tal take e etho tho the time and trouble to voice yourself so 80 sweetly W 1 E E. P P. and your missive is surely appreciated I thank you an and hope I 1 may have IHl the the opportunity to serve frYe vou von at nt another r timo I |