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Show TOO YOUNG TO MARRY' SAY PARENTS OF GIRL WHO-ARGUES OTHERWISE. By BETTY BLAIR Capability thould ba )udg ed by other (landerd than mar year, thoug h year ara important until adolescence la passed and emotions! atablllty haa barn achieved. Deer Mkaa BlaJr: ' Please help ma with a problem that la giving me greet grief al Breeertt- 1 here just tamed -St -aaa am engaged ta ba married la a boy af M. My parents ak)act vary much, aa tbay tklnk I am ta young ta marry. Tbay have nothing against I ha boy. la fart. fntalllgaat paranta wba know yoa wall ara a good gulda. but aama-tlmas aama-tlmas sran paranta raa ba mkv 1 tojfcoov-ojoooo thalr sklldraa. Tkair lora for tbam aamrtlmsa bllada tbam ta renditions that might ba fcaot for thair awa walfara. Oiraa a Uttla mora time, and acting with raaaon, parhapa you and your paranta par-anta raa arrlra at a commoa aadar-ataadlng aadar-ataadlng af year prohlaia. NOTE TO Bl EX Writs ths supartataadaat af doca-mants. doca-mants. Washing ton, D. C asadlng santa aarh far th raa kullatlna, farm ara kullatla IkU. "IUI ControT f farmafs kulkua lU. 'Rat Paaof Ing Buildings and Pramlsaa." aad circular 42J, "Tba Houaa Rat" METAL BUrPEBB Ooar Mias Blair; Is thara any way af haaplng gold and sllrar avanlng allppars not la praaant aaa from hatng tamlshad? Thank yau for any surgasUona. "MAE." Kaap your gilt aad sllrar allppara la black wrapping whaa not la aa and thry will aot taraish. PIA.IO KX1B Doar Miss Blair: May I csma again? My plana kaya bara bacama dlscolorad. la thara anything 1 aaa do ta Improve Im-prove this conditlaa T Thank yoa. Always walcom ta tba column. "R." To dona your plana kaya as a soft rsg motstsaod with Ismoa Junca aad dippad la MJrtr whiting. DOfNO AS ONE IXEABES From M ta Yau: rrora poa Qulsota. wrltua la tha aavahtaaath century, I road: "I would da what t (loosed, and doing what I pleased I should bare my will, aad baring my will, I should be contented; aad whoa one Is contented, thara la aa mara ta be desired; aad when there la a more la be desired, there if aa and of It." True, th end af perfect aaa tentment Is death. ARE YOU A HOlllEVYUTf Erory weowna should bo takir kid la tha pukliim of wagos far boawswtvoa baoaaoa every woman I a paeratlol kouarwtfa. In aad IIMfl tfcaTial aWmtaaV WFttaV JffoWu eplmoa af tha ualloa "Wkiuld Meuaowlvaa Rorrlva Balartee aad Shaald Tbrlr Warkmc Pay Ro IJrnrtrd to Eight Hearer The brot bMe will roroiva aa award af as The null baa win raaalra It Lretora -meat ba addraeard ta Brtty Rlalr aad malkul not wear than midnlgkl Sunday, May It Real name wta not he puk-Itehod. puk-Itehod. they think aa I da, that be I th worlds boat I bsve always beea very aid for my age. Whea I was II I wss ss aid as most girls are at It That was something neither I nor my parents could help or do anything about Now I aeem aa aid a the girls of 10 and It with whom I go. But I think bspplnes la marring never did begla ar end with age, and that the stumbling block I selfishness mors than age. It la selfishness that mskae people careless of what they aay ta each ether. Whea feelings bars once beea deeply hurt It Is bard ta forgive. Whea they bare beea deeply hurt aa many aceaslona ths rift become wider and wider. My mother married whea aha was Just my age and aha now tells ms she doaeat want me ta repeat her mlstaks. I don't think ths mistake bed anything la da with bar ag. but with th fact that my father aad mother some time quarrel aad then feel hurt toward eacb for a good many day at a time. Please help me to daclde thla msttsr. "WORRIED." It la quit true that there are people wba are biologically older than their chronological yeare mske thsra appear to be. You write a Utter with aa adult style aad point of view, "Worried." and I should Judge you were one of those "old beyond your yeers." However, this Is a difficult matter mat-ter to Judge from one bitter alone. You yourself know whether or not you ara prepared for marrlsga. Whether or not In crises that arise, a you knew they da from observing observ-ing marriage as It affect your father fa-ther and mother, you have developed devel-oped sufficient emotional control to act aa aa adult smotlonslly aa well as in lb mere matter af years. Kmetlenal Balance Narasaary Everyone know there ara girls wba mad better wives at ths sgs of II thsn soms ef their sisters msds at 21 Amiability, emotional stsbility, Intelligence, a aenss af humor, ths ability ta maks boms a eomfortebls place la which to live ell thess quelittsa go Inta lbs making of a good wife, regardless ef her yeara after her early adores-j csncs has barn peeped. Some gtrlo have passed this etage at It Boms, have fixation that keep them ado-1 leecenU all their Uvea. I |