Show UNSUSPECTING BOYS BOY'S REAL FEELINGS GIRL THROWS BOOMERANG Maid in Same Boat as Unemployed Man JIan Attempts to St S Smooth moot 1 1 Waters waters f C Counterfeit f elt W r Love Detected I By BETTY BLAIR The assumption that it Is woman as another is that no one person can ean compi person has depth and width to emotion which makes two pec complete unless the other Is shared by more than two in a aDear Dear Deal Miss Blair I am just about having havin a 1 nervous nervous nerv- nerv ous breakdown over somethIng the boy I have b been n going oln with for a year said to me mc just lately He Hc was engaged t to a girl irl and the engagement was broken off by her b before ore he started going with me For along time I felt he was just killing time with wilh me inc to help et ct the other girl off his mind But I didn't say anything about this until lately I did so then only because the other girl is isnow isnow now married and I thought he hew w s wen over having any love left for her Ma be I was too flippant or too cocksure when I laughingly broached the subject I said ens en's hearts dont don't suffer an any Its It's as easy for n a man to love lo one woman as mother another Take your own n case for example That's as far as I got when he completely boiled over He told me there would never be another woman who could take the place of the one he had lost That he liked other women needed them in his life but that compared to the one and only they didn't touch his life me lie He had the good grace to tell me he was very fond of me He has told be this many times before and I suppose I read more Into his words than he really really real real- ly meant He left almost immediately immediately immedi- immedi but I was too stunned to speak peak or act He has tried to get in touch with me several times since but I am in no mood to talk to him and he receives the word over the telephone that I Iam Iam am not at home I didn't realize that I 1 had come cometo cometo to love Jove him so completely and loving lo him as I do ray my pride will vill not let me go back to him and fill a place that any woman meeting his tastes and requirements could fill Tell me dont don't you think I am right WHITE JADE Pride in your our case must surely sureh work two ways The man evidently has never really told you he loved you or made love to you You have judged the degree of his feelings b by your own Isn't your refusal to speak with him or see him an ment that you had exp expected cled from him more than he gave and that now you ou are disappointed Do you ou wish him to know you have loved him so completely com com- How can he think otherwise other other- wise with your our sudden change of con con- duct If you OU were to continue to see him himon himon on the old fondness basis with an Inner strength cleverness and astuteness astute astute- ness that would deceive him as to your our real feelings and then gradually gradual gradual- ly y if you wished break off of the regularity regu- regu laxity larity of his visits dont don't you think he would be less aware of how you ou really feel If he had deceived you as to his state of mind and emption you OU would have a real case against him in your heart But I am quite convinced if you wish to keep your own sped you must be a good sport about this situation Your false pride connected with your first impulse that you have ha been done badly by will not suffer so much as will your real pride when your own actions lead hIm to suspect the state of your heart No woman likes it known that the man she adores thinks indifferently of her or would it if she he press pressed d her case look upon her as a plain dose or of orpo po poison iron A little indifference on your our part a continuance of your manner of charm and gaiety will do more for lor your cause than will your our l to lec him FOR DON Dear Miss Blair I would like to sa say to Don Keep Ke a stiff upper lIp and remember reo re- member you and your friends are not the only ones in the same boat As for lor feeling cheated we wc all do at times but we must all snap out of it and be game These are are indeed trying times but things cant can't go on like this forever Those who think the unemployed lazy lazy-I find the they haven't met Old Man Depression are yet the ones who have continued working or receiving an Income But why should hould we wc bother about they say or think so long as our conscience conscience- is clear As for lor the yo young ng girls who give unemployed young men only a passing glance most of them ate ae gold dIggers But there arc in inS S Salt lt Lake and elsewhere here many fine girls who are looking for character in young Joung men regardless regardless regard regard- less of their income Many o of these it is true are arc in the same boat as the thc young man t I have been discouraged and disgusted more than once because of my unemployment and th that t of ray my father and brother but I make as easy for a man to love one It may nevertheless be true fill another's life if that Ills his soul Even so the abiding feel that neither is quite somewhere around is seldom lifetime Letters questions and requests requests re- re quests for advice should be ad to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LA LAKE K E. E Write lc legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append ep- ep pend the rIght name and address ad- ad dress but these will be strIct confidence and will nit appear in print Questions In In- advertising information annot be answered myself snap out of It ft and try to tobe tobe be thankful that we at least have havea a roof over oer our heads and something something some some- thing to eat cat I am 20 years ears old a single girl md and not in the least afraid of being an old maid Sl THROUGH That's Thal's the old spirit And it may not come amiss here to remind you young as well as the ged that opportunities o of enriching themselves them them- selves are open at nIght school and andin andin in Civic Center projects at the Lion house and y W V. C. C A A. I feel leel fairly sure arrangements can be made for anyone bent on taking courses to take them The mind working deli on interesting objectives hasn't time to become subjective FOR MONEY Dear Miss Blair My ty husband and I have been married five years ears It seems our troubles began gan with the depression depres- depres sion and haven't ended yet When my husband first started courting me he was working in m my fathers father's bu business iness and md before we were mar mar- ned m my father promised to take him into the business But things went from bad to worse and the business failed altogether Since then life with us has been plain h hell ll Now ray my husband tells me mc he only married me because he hoped to better his own business connections and that he never ne really loved me He displeased my father during the beginning of the hard times by writing checks he had no business to write and my m- father tather just canceled them Do you ou think I should go goon goon on living with him under these conditions UNHAPPY No An Any man who could offer olier il a girl counter counterfeit eit love loe because her father fa ther had som something thing he wanted deserves de serves not only to have every cheek check he wrote against the family exchequer ex chequer come bouncing back at him but to lose the girl herself With his admission that he never did love you oU comes complete to you of oC any blame for the manner In which your marriage has turned out |