Show VE VB FOR TWO MEN DIFFERS IN VALUE 1 T AS NEED REQUIRES f fc- fc ed Seeks ks Secret Divorce of cf f Married Marred larr Se Sc Return Favor Handicapped Use 1 of 1 of of Slad Salad Knife 4 By BETTY BLAIR some ie wo women en marry the men who need them most for for- that there co comes cs a time when their own need if juS i Ur out our for lor recompense The he woman whose mother Get than Her er for tor b being loved should than a man whose need of this quality of love is great an and eW sl 0 Blair rear ier 1 I was Was engaged cd to agn a atho tho at that time I dearly clearly A Then that I I. I couldn't I forget forlet we we ri broke off our bur our cn en- en g q e n ng g a I III thought it was las all all' allor I II IJ or lor the best and everything I If could to forget s f him I l' thought tl I IJ A Ii had a d succeeded J pretty well An Jn in fact thought I 1 I. I had fallen In love with another last week k when rny orn fota for or n a r I sweetheart etheart was in an auto- auto J 7 r accident o bUe went nt wild oft of e t when I learned how badly it I op VP ha was was and that his in- in itt rici might prove serious It I It tut t fo 10 his hla side and have hovd hov- hov td d ver him as much as the ne jw uld let me ever since J that he is out of danger I I. I 1 tn down and nd trying to Letters questions and requests re re- quests for advice e should be addressed ad I dressed to MISS BET BETTY ETTY S T Y BLAIR BLAB HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K E. E Write 1 legibly upon only one ODe L side of ot the paper It 1 Is necessary you ap- ap apr r I pend the right name and sad address ad address ad dress but these thes will be beheld held J. J la In strict and will nut ln aia ln print Questions Questions' Involving Involving In In- advertising information I cannot annot diagnose my real feelings again I am sure beyond a doubt now that I still love him out lut ut I think mine Is more the kind kind- of ot love a her would have for her child chUd I also love tove the other man but that thatIs Is U love Jove of ot an IDl entirely different quality With this second man manI I want vant ant to be the one who is coddled cod dIed and md petted and taken care of He is the sort of ot man whose judgment is good who will aIwa always always al aI- wa ways do the right thing who can stand on on his own lee feet and take care cara of ot ethers as well as WI himself The rhe first man first man will always need a a loving Joving and strong woman to take care of him I dont don't mean finan c daIly b but t in morally rally and ethically With him lying ill it is hard for tor forme forme tormo me mo to decide dedde between the two men but now that he s out of ot i danger I must do so as my strong strongman strongman man man thinks r T should cut loose from him entirely Can you OU help me to make up my mind as s Is to which man I shall take kc UNDECIDED The Thc answer t to your your ur problem depends de dc entirely upon which of ot two I women predominate in you Are you essentially the mothering kind who must have her arms and her love entwined entwined en vin t twined d about a man for tor his guidance or arc re you the needy woman who must have a mans man's arms and love entwined entwined en en- twined about lt her When you u are married to your strong man will your mothering instinct in stin t for tor the rejected one flare up as it has now done and call you ba back k to him both in fri thought and nd deed athis at athis his first great need If It so o for the sake of tho the strong man whose strength could n not t endure that tes test it were better that you stayed by him once all now t r But if other r. r woman cries o out t fora great greaF a substantial outlook a of trw sound Judgment n un unerring guid guidance n yo you should be Je Jed by that d determining force torce orce now now and do as the strong I would rather rather be unhappy with you ou than happy with any other man was the answer one woman gave wh whose t could not offer I ness could offer after only an undying ad adoration n. n S 'S S Such ch ch- as th that t w woman man l Had ad did not happiness Ss As into account ac count count- Life without th the man she truly loved w uld have been death weaknesses w ing r fv m But most ot ofus u. u arc area arca a little self selfish We look for comforts and ea ease e and a alife alife a alife life m mapped p ed out ut for us that relieves us w of the burden of thinking and planning plan ning for ourselves And so I repeat The kind of ot woman that is essentially essential ly 1 you Ou will answer your problem for tor you e of MARRIAGE Dear ear Miss Blair BaIr ar II I was married se secretly and am m now t planning on getting a divorce di di- vorce 1 I dont don't want anyone to know kriv v bOul ray my in marriage gei Is it possible for me me to keep my ray divorce di vorce out of ot the papers anc and ln is thee there any extra charge BLUE Air AU public rec records ts are ire required by law IM to to i inspection and news reporters are the best st Inspectors 1 know If TI your attorn attorney y can outsmart outsmart outsmart out smart th them m and keep your divorce a ats t he will vill be bea a bright brightman manThe man The matter must be left In his hands I and the charges will cill be determined lit by him bim Talk the matter over with him t I RETURN OF FA FAVOR VOlt Dear Dae MisS Mi Blair I Re Recently I went to a school dance with one fellow and since then I L h have ve started to go ste steady dy with another The custom is to b boy y whom y ju at at- the first dance e to the girls girls' dance W would be be the correct thing for me mc to do under the circumstances Shall I explain matters to my I. I steady or just say say- no nothing ing about the matter or or oram am am I supposed sup sup posed to to y steady t adf to ta this particular dance Thank you I M. M 11 W. W Did your our steady take lano another r girl eli to this first dan dante dance If It so 50 cant can't you rou you by mutual arrangement between the he girl the boy who accompanied you and y your r steady make a date b between tween the girl your steady took and nd the boy y who took you If It there w was s rio no ro other girl girt find one for tor or the boy who was your escort if it ithe he wants you to do so Or It if it is nil all right with your your steady return the he favor yourself There is nothing like ike talking these matters over with he parties purties concerned in ord order to to mutual understanding SALAD KNIFE Dear Miss Blair When attending large banquets banqueL nt Rt hot hoi hotels ls there is a knife smaller than th tho meat knife placed next tJ to it iL Will wm you please tell me what whal this smaller knife is used for tor Thank you MRS T T. If the smaller smaller- knife is ls placed on fhe he outside of the dinn dinner r knit knife it is probably placed there to b be used with the luncheon sized fork tork for the entree entree en tree or fish course If It on the inside pf the dinner knife it is intended to tobe tobe tobe be used a a salad knife which is coming more increasingly into use NOTE TO ro GENE Kindly send a stamped self self-ad dressed envelope for tor our circular Treatment of ot Blackheads and nin Fi pIes nies |