Show 2 BACHELORS WOOING I DOESN'T REGISTER WITH MERRY WIDOW t irr Fate Fate w Will ir Lend cirI in Love tr With Married Man fan lopes 1 r Hand DISturbIng i l I By BETTY BLAIR Itis the widow who positively refuses to wed again who usually does so in the thelong long run That may be because most men are hunters hunte s and refuse to give up until the quarry has been caught Or again i it may be a subtle womans woman's way o of capturing a second husband Dear Miss Blair I am a bachelor o oL 37 in love with a widow oZ of 35 I have d dc dared m flY love or her and she tells me she is iser er very fond of me She has been a wIdow for two years and I should think it she loved me she would to get married but I cant can't talk marriage head I began to suspect that her first marriage had been beena a failure but bu on the contrary she he tells me inc she was very happy with her husband Do you suppose she was so happy that she wouldn't risk belag be be- lag Jm unhappy with another man I cant can't even get her to talk serf serl- about the matter W What at atwould would you co consIder sider her attitude to be judging from the follow ing remarks she has made when I broach the subject of marriaGe She has a good sob job which seems to be permanent Marry agaIn Who rae me Not while I can stIll read and write I know other things to do than spend pend my time waiting for some t man to get home trying to think up conversations to entertain him keeping my hair waved just so 0 and sitting up to the table to regular dinner every night when I want to put up the card table and have tea and toast and a nibble nibble nib nib- ble of cheese or a salad Or Ci- she will say Not inc me Ive I've reached the kimono stage of life where I find it pleasant to slump a little and andI I dont don't want to have that jumpy feeling every time the telephone rings for fear it is friend husband calling up to sa say that two old old friends just called in the office and hes he's bringing them up for dinner If there are areno areno no flowers for the table and no dessert planned and me with a toothache and a brand new book to read No thanks Its ns pretty lonesome of course and its it's grand to have a nice goose gooselike gooselike like you to drop in Only you mustn't get the habit of too often and you must always give me time to slick up Do you think there is really my any hope for me or any chance that she will change her attitude toward remarrying SINGLE CUSSEDNESS r f Im I'm afraid not for the present at least S C. C When a woman has tasted the of freedom regardless re re- of the tact fact that she may have loved dearly when she is a resourceful woman who doesn't depend on another for her immediate happiness she may not willingly give up that freedom for ome iome time to come But there are wIdows whose conS con runs runs like this Well Im I'm not going to live alone for forthe forthe the rest of my me life Not i it I can help it I hate worrying about taxes and how much longer the tires are going to last I hate putting washers on taps and sowing the lawn with new grass seed And the house echoes so sol You know what I mean Then nothing ever tastes right when you cat alone and I miss the company Joe used to bring home for dinner It was such a pleasure to fix up those nice little snacks and have haveth havethe th the men at praise you for your good cooking M My dear if you know a man who is s handsome free and forty I just die sitting at home alone S Why not look one of them up But you wont won't You'll rag the ent woman into marrying you She's always the kind who does remarry So what's the theIre use Ire of my my sayIng a 3 word BARRIER TO LOVE OVE Dear Miss Blair I have loved a man for nearly three years There is q qUite ite a dif ference in our ages but b besides that there is another barrIer that for the present makes things miserable for us I know you will guess what it itIs Is is so I had just as well tell you He HeIs Heis is a married man He and his wife are separated but not dIvorced and so 10 far she has refused to divorce him I am sure he is very much in love with me and I know my love for tor him Js Is real Do you think that fate ever steps in to lend a hand toward mak ing people happy I could wait forever for for- ever j If only I could believe that some day we could have each other Thank you ou UNHAPPY Never trust to luck or to fate The i- i ilaw law v ot of c cause u e and effect is the safest bank And because to on ot this thing why not make the attempt to turn your thoughts from this m n to one who is free to love you and to offer you ou marriage You cant can't do it all at once of course but ou can make mak a big effort It will help you to throw yourself Into new activities and interests All these will count to your credit to tomake make life livable now and to return with interest to your happiness happiness- scheme later on You are only feeding the fire that disintegrates yourself when you continue con con- to see a man who holds out no hope for your future happiness It Itis itIs is a holocaust you can ill afford Put Putout Putout out the dangerous flame by such de dc grees as you best can RIVAL WORRIES Dear Miss Blair I There is a young man 22 years of age who comes to see rae me once or or wice a w week k I am deeply in love with him but happen to know there i. i ts is another girl w whom om he also goes c q I am 20 and the other girl js just 16 16 but is cute and frivolous He never mentions this girl t to me And I of course course dont don't say a word either He tells me he loves rae me but I 1 am afraid he loves the other girl too I dont don't want to take another girls girl's boy friend away from her even it iii 1 can but it hurts rae me so much to W he be goes to Q see her a u regu 4 a ai i I PRESIDENT t 5 t 4 Mrs Charles Allcott president of the Reviewers Reviewers' club which will hold its annual breakfast Monda Monday Letters questions and reQUests requests re re- QUests for advice should be ba ad dressed to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one ona sIde of the paper It is necessary that you ape ap pend the right name and address address ad- ad dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will wUl lt D appear in prInt Questions invOlving Involving in- in advertising Information annot be answered I its s he does me Please advise me do NOT JEALOUS The with some people can mean any degree of affection from luke warmness to white heat the boy too seriously when he tells you he loves you ou He is probably trying to make u his mind which of the two of you he likes the better Or it is possible ife Hc isn't seriously seriously seri seri- considering either of you He may like you as friends and pleas ant companions without feeling at aU all atla attached hed to either Hold on to yourself Not Jealous Be the agreeable person he expects of you You demand no less of your your- self Keep him interested in you but it you value his friendship let no thought escape you that you are arc trying to tie strings to him With a aman a aman man who is not the one woman only kind such procedure usually has the effect of driving him away |