Show I ji t ETTY Letters and qu questions for this department sh should Id be addressed I Ito to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram ram Write only none anyone side of the paper pape It is necessary to append your you name and l address but these are held in confidence and will b be yu published I s 's v Dear Deal Miss Blair It will be a a. a great geat help if you will answer a question for me concernIng concernIng concerning concern concern- ing the California law A few years ago I divorced my first fist husband and neglected at the time to have havethe havethe havethe the court cout decide as as' as to which of us was to have the furniture Now my divorced husband has died dred without leaving leaSing a will I believe believe be be- lieve that the furniture goes to me me- me am I right right instead instead of to my children childen who are all mari married d and comfortably fixed The furniture is is f my house The ho house se is not community community commUnity com com- property F I hope this letter is not too long but I tried to make it all clear I GOLDEN GATE You Tou people dont don't help us out a 3 great deal with the amount of or in information Information information in- in formation you ou give us sometimes Ind Indeed ed your letter isn't too long G. 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G in fact I 1 wish you had made It longer and included the statement as as' as to where this house and furniture furniture furniture furni furni- ture are ie and a few other items that would help untangle your lem If It the house and the furniture in dispute are here i in Id Salt Lake or in Utah and your husband died in California if you are wise you wont won't worry about it until someone comes conies and tries to take It away from you Then if necessary see an attorney ney as you may need his services However it ma may be that your furniture furniture furniture fur fur- would be classed as community community property even I if the house were riot not and as such would revert to you you- upon your husbands husband's death I 1 should imagine though that no matter what its status is if your children are well cared for surely they would not dispute your right I to this furniture Im I'm afraid that youre you're inclined to borrow trouble i How about it De Deir r Betty Blair This is my first fist time to write you but I J have received lots of help from some of your answers to other writers Now Miss Blair my question is is this Would you please budget an Income of 20 a month for a family family fam fam- ily of three three three-a a mother and two children children chil chil- dren about 14 years of f age There is no rent to pay Thank hank you a alot alot alot lot for your trouble H HELEN ElEN We e are very glad that you have found our corner helpful and you are very welcome in it You Tou surely surel have a difficult problem prO prO-b- lem Iem on your hands in fact I I believe that most pe people would say that it t wis was impossible but then you may be a very verv won wonderful erful manager manager manager man man- ager ager and ran make 1 do the work vork of 2 or 3 According to the budget given Iven food should be he 25 per pel cent of the thet t total lal ial rent 20 per cent operating expenses of th the ho house hose se 15 per cent clothing 20 per cent other expenses Including savings 20 per cent In Iny y your ur case cap however r yo you could notI not I possibly buy huy food for the three of you on 5 a month you ou may mav be beI I able able io io do it- it iton on 10 If you have havea I a 9 garden and raise a great deal deai of I your own wJ fruit and vegetables That leav leaves leaves' s' s 4 f for t clothing about 3 for fuel and light under operating ex expenses expenses ex- ex and 3 for other expenses such as s books car car fare Jare savings 1 etc Can you ou do it 11 Couldn't your children earn a lit little lit lit- i tip tie ev even 1 while going to school to ir in increase crease crease tIle the f income ome a a. a few dollars a month Their expenses will will be greater as they pet get et older and you not have to be elope close e to the edge of actual want They are old enough to be helping I 1 know of at lea leat t one young boy who Is I ma mak making ing 18 12 per week which which- is not ex exceptional exceptional ex- ex in any way find and man many many Trany any little hittle girls make 2 or or 3 33 a week in helping helpin care for children Jl odd and ends 1 14 qS 0 of housework running errands answering rin th the telephone tele- tele phone h n and so soon on C CO Couldn't you vou talk things o of oe er f Wt with 1 yo jour children and work workout out a a. a aplan plan A Dear M Miss air Wilf yo you u please pleas pr print nt for me me the words s to In Jn Jn Old Old Madrid and Carmen Also Alse will you tell me me when Sen Ben be at the Salt Lake theatre theatre the the- atre And what studio does Edward Ed Ed- ward Hearn work at t Thanking you you u BROWN EYES EVES IrY BE tWE c cant can't ee In the column for reprinting r e songs songs' or l poems oems that may mrY be be had elsewhere else T tentative arrangements forthe for forthe forthe the i showing of Ben H Hur r locally give the date i as us November 8 S with wilh wilha six day a run r- r F-B. 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O studio Gower Hollywood od Cal Car for or Mr lr Dear Dea Miss Blair I received such a pleasing reply to my my last letter that I am coming to you again May I ask the following following follow follow- ing questions Does hair tonic tonii affect the eyes ey-es or any other part f the body cody in an any way Is it ita ita a adye dy dye A Ar what what d c can n. n be done for moles Ion th the neck Thanking you l WAITING We Ware are are glad that you were satisfied sat sat- Hast time and hope you Join cur our corner whenever you have lIa a queStion We Ve cant can't help you ou much on t tie e question of that tonic however how- how ever ever because we dont don't know anything anything anything any any- thing about it l If it contains sugar of f lead or silver nitrate or or any ot the numerous minerals rals that are poiS poison l to skins that are susceptible you may have troubles but not otherwise What does It claim on e. bottle ottle Of course there are I many ways of avoiding direct statements statements statements state state- ments but usually you can can cantelI tell telI pt pretty tty well what the dye or tonic i is imade made from If not have it analyzed analyzed analyzed ana ana- and b be sure aUle Moles loles may be removed without pIn cr 1 r trouble if f handled handed Dy ny a u. as s skin specialist ann and you I dt I IIi it Ii T should go and let lot him hIm do It II It Itou you ou wish the name o of one locally telephone to me ale and Ill I'll be glad to give you his name and location The rhe treatment is ver very simple but hut there is nothing that you u could do ao aj if home hom to remove remove the ut danger danger danger dan dan- ger of Infection or 01 worse Dear Miss BI Blair ir Can you please give me the fol following fol- fol lowing addresses Mary Pickford Mae Murray Virginia Valli Margaret Margaret Mar Mar- garet Livingston Rod La Rocque Arthur Lake Hoot Gibson and John Bowers Thank you T. T M. M Address Mary Iary Pickford at her own studio in Holl Hollywood wood Mae MAC Murday Murday Mur- Mur day in care of the Metro Goldwyn Mayer r company at Culver City Cal Virginia Vall Arthur Lake and Hoot Gibson at Universal City Cal Margaret Livingston in care of the Fox studio Hollywood Rod Hoa La Rocque In care of of- Paramount Pictures Hollywood and John Bowers in care edre of Metro Mayer Culver City or 01 try S. S Manhattan place Hollywood Dear Deaf Miss Blair I have been been having haying a D. dispute with witha witha a a young man friend of mine He claims that it is all right for a girl to write love ove letters to a fellow whether she is engaged to him or not I say th that t it isn't but Id I'd like your opinion on the subject Thanking Thanking Thanking Thank Thank- ing you for bothering MILLIE Id I'd say that if she did shed she'd be extremely indiscreet to say the very very least Millie Letters are dangerous dangerous dangerous dan dan- for any any any- number of reasons find no matter how much the girl thinks of the fellow concerned it itU U ix wise vise not to put it all down In black and white and not i liy Iy for or the most obvious reason that comes to mind but for many nany subtle ones that will come cometo to you you-If you it you think things over For one thing one never knows how row ow the written word may be taken taken it can always be se misunderstood or misconstrued There are few of oJ us so clever with the tools of language that our exact meaning can be put on paper Then to too tod you may write something in inore one ore mood that you OU would never dream of doing in al another other and you'll regret t having sent it off If 1 you simply MUST write love Jetters letters Jet Jet- write one ne night and TEAR THEM THE C UP UP next morning That will keep them put out of mis mIS- chief As for being engaged to the man and writing such letters suppose we use the old bit of advice Let Let your conscience e be your guide Sorn Som Some men like to to receive letters of the ardent type others would be much amused But if you are not engaged what 11 possible excuse could you yoi o offer yourself for concoctIng concocting concoct concoct- Ing ng sentimental epistles epistles- 1 And how could you explain it to It t the young the young man Dont Don't |