Show I I V Voiceless ess Rita Hayworth Men Girls Conflict on How to Get a Husband By Hal Boyle Bovle NEW YORK Millions of lovelorn single girls are moping moping mop mop- ing this leap year because they arent aren't among s- s the harried married What hat does docs it really take taketo to win a hus hand they wonder The answer tj lo to this has t stumped sooths sooth sooth- s sayers a y e r s and psychiatrists flat Boyle Scientists have been unable to conic come up with a test tube solution tion I have at hand the results of a little research carch into the I matrimonial field Lever Brothers polled about I guys and gals cals on this I question What are the five most mot important weapons weapons weapons' in a it girls girl's arsenal needed to get et her herman herman herman man and make 1952 a successful successful successful success success- ful leap year The returns are in and I must say ay very distressing The rhe disturbing truth is that there are dramatic and fundamental differences of opinion between the sexes on just what qualities qualities qualities a man looks for in a mate Different Emphasis Even where there were areas of agreement the emphasis differed Both sexes agreed the girl ought to be he well groomed and attractive in appearance But the girls the themselves m s e 1 v e s sI stressed neatness while the I bachelors voted heavily for more moie definite feminine allure Pleasing personality was high on the mens men's list the women voted for charm and just what that covers remains a mystery The ability to cook rated near the top with the lads but the lassies hardly even mentioned mentioned mentioned men men- the kitchen art perhaps because of or a growing womanly Conviction that cooking is something something some sonic thing done only in the back backrooms backrooms backrooms rooms of restaurants Humor or Humor Many men put down a sense of humor The girls worded it more often the tire ability and willingness to humor him In general the bachelor girls pictured the prospective bride as a nice clean girl girl it it was amazing how many mentioned cleanliness in in love with hearth and home conversationally gifted and so informed about her husbands husband's business affairs she could even help him figure out his income tax I i This Thus ideal bride seen through h the mens men's eyes however could best be portrayed as Rita nita Hayworth Hayworth Hay Hay- worth with her vocal cords removed removed removed re re- re- re moved standing in a it boudoir with a frying Crying pan in her hand To Talk or Not The difference between the sexes showed up most clearly in the matter of conversation Most l women were dreamily sure men yearn for a wife wiCe to tobe he be able to discuss many subjects subjects subjects sub sub- intelligently be a good conversationalist or a lively ta talker I ker The fellows themselves on the other hand showed a morbid morbid mor mor- bid hid dread of oC wifely loquacity or as they put it naJ nagging On One said aid flatly She should remember that the less she has bos to say the less she will have to explain Many lany many girls in the survey survey survey sur sur- vey wrote down common commonsense sense bense as ns a n winning husband I trail trait The men were unanimously unanimously unanimously silent on this subject either through sheer male gal gal- or because o of the feeling feel feel- in inc ing that after all a girl irl cant can't have everything I t |