Show THE liRI Wj t 9 Kathleen 7 A Queries addressed to this department should be addressed to M Miss MI is Kathleen Kaye Kave Kaye Department Salt Lake Telegram Salt Lake Laki City Utah Uth Queries are limited to ono one question each eCh written on only one side aide of the with full namo name and address addre of writer appended also allo name namo or Initials to tote tote te used for Identification In column All Mi names and addresses aro are held In strictest confidence t of t Do not write In pencil Do hot uk ask for private reply R special service phone Wasatch 1St between 11 and 12 S When phone for tho the location of any commodity y mentioned In In this di FD M Miss I. I Kayet Kayer At last lut I come to you a stranger but I havo found great comfort Inmany inmany in inmany many fo your articles For two years past I have ben been engaged to a young man Lately I have noticed that ho acted rather Indifferent and found that he had been taking out other girls girl while I stayed home I asked him about it and nd nd told him that if he ho had ceased to love me we Would part pat and forget for for- get get each other He said that he loved loyed me and could never hover forget me but that that- h ho he could never be content with one girl I told him if he ho realI really real real- I ly loved me mo h. h would not care to go with other girls so 80 I said it w wa was s best we did not go together until he changed Now Miss Kaye Kayo that has been two months ago and I see him every everyday everyday everyday day and when I see him with another another an an- other girl I can hardly stand it He Ho always speaks to me mo very nice and acts very friendly but rather re- re My friends and family have noticed that he ho does not take takema takemo ma mo out any more and question mo me What can I tell them I dont don't w want nt them m to fe feel l sorry for fop me so o I go out with other men and act very gay pay but he is usually at the tho dances Raving haying a good time timo and it is more than I can stand I cannot keep up I this bravo brave front any longer If I would get got away and not see ceo him perhaps per I could forget easier easler but I j have havo a good position here and I am r d I could not do so well wall some else He knows that I love him more than anyone in tho the world and I am afraid he ho will ace ICO how unhappy n i n- n happy I am I cannot get interested in anything more and overy time the tho phone rings I thing it may bo he And that is JS a the tho way I continue day after day Can you help me Miss Mi Kayo Kaye It seems as if I can no longer longe y e Yours respectfully UNHAPPY Idaho c O Ot course cO you ou cannot endure It Unhappy You Unhappy you are not called upon to do so 80 4 An engagement should be the sweetest tie that can bind and when it ceases censes to be so It Is NOTHING Either the man love loves you enough Jo 0 o devote himself exclusively exclusively to you and your happiness or he loves you not at nt all not all not enough to be entitled to any place whatsoever whatsoever whatsoever what what- lii your our life lite There can be beno beno beno no way half measure in this kind of love You have been subjected elI elIto to humiliation and embarrassment which no man has a right to let be befall befall be- be fall tall his fiancee If he unfortunately unfortunate unfortunate- ly had n a change of heart then the least he could do do and and keep within the bonds of honor would have hare been to have a frank trank conversation with you on the subject acquainting acquaint acquaint- ing you perfectly with his changed feelings and ascertaining what you would then have him do before he I made the change Apparent to I friends friend and family To have a change of heart and mind Is unfortunate unfortunate but to meet the situation sItuation- or rail fall to meet It It-as It as this chap has Is nothing short of cowardly and caddish That he loves you Is cheap subterfuge and you should turn your back upon him once and andor for tor or all leaving no doubt In his hla mind as to your our disapproval of ot his con con- duct It will be a trial an trial anyway anyway way we face it of course but what you have already endured Is much worse than an anything thing that can now come The strain of the situation has been en enough ugh to fair drive drie Y you U mad But once you ou refuse to go on under false colors once you mako malco your our position clear to social ob observers ob- ob servers take servers take your our stand and make It apparent you'll find the battle mostly won You Tou do not need to go away dear You have done no wrong and have nothing from which to flee You are not In any disfavor just disfavor Just In an unfortunate uncomfortable position one position one which merits only s sympathy and only onh passing curiosity because It Is the sort of ot thing that befalls or mav mar befall any or all of us So Just perk right up little dear Know that you OU are right and that Is enough know that you CaI can cai adjust and all others can In an unbelievably unbelievably unbelievably ably short period of time once vou you I make a cle clean n breast of the the matter matter I cease to fly false colors And I dear let the thankfulness for foJ this I timely escape from a a. man so spineless spineless spine spine- I less outweigh your embarrassment over your awkward situation Tilt Tnt up your chin and dwell on th the thought that you ou are fortunate to tobe tobe tobe be able to replace him with ith one who doesn't brand himself with such statements as I love you ou but cannot cannot cannot can can- not be content with Just one orie girl to his fiancee of two years YourS Is truly only an occasion for tor re rejoicing rejoicing re- re dear and even though you have been sincere In your belief of love lo for him I think you'll discover er that perhaps a very large part of ot the devotion was purely loyalty and anda a matter of thought habit Replace the old thought with a a anew new one Kaye Kayo I Will you please give me mothe the address address ad ad- dress of Mr Alexander II With lots los of love and good wishes R. R E. E P. P Kanosh C. C Alexander South Oxford avenue Los Angeles Cal Cat Thank you ou Dear Miss Kaye Will you please explain the height ago and and weight table for school children i in Utah Thanking you in advance I am 1 Sincerely yours I TEACHER Salt Snit Lake If you'll examine carefully the table to which you OU refer I believe you'll find it self explanatory j If not I sh shall ll be glad to Interpret It for you yow If It you'll step Into my of ot- ot fice It would be he Impossible to do it Inhere here for or It Is already as un under under- er- er as I could make It In I print t. t You welcome are II I Dear Miss Kaye You have helped so many others I know you will help holp me toll me if is good for forthe forthe forthe the skin ski I This is the first time I have written written writ- writ ten ton to you and I hope I am wel wel- come My motto after this will be I When in trouble ask Miss Kaye Thanking you kindly RUTH Salt Lake Thank you Miss 1 Ruth you are areas areas areas as welcome as can be I do not advocate the use of Dear Miss Kaye Kayo Do you happen nappe to have the poem A Rosary of Joys and would you kindly publish it for fOI me Thank you BILLY DILLY Salt Lake Sorry Billy but I haven't ft nor It-nor nor nordo do I find It In any available cata cata- logs loge Perhaps some kindl kindly reader will be able to lend us a hand In this I I Sorry |