Show NOW YOURE YOU'RE TALKING By th the Ih INQUIRING CAMERA GiRl GIRt The Telegram will ill pay you SI 1 1 for tor er e every question used In Inthe Inthe Inthe the N Now ow 1 Youre You're Talking column Send your question to the Inquiring Camera Salt Lake Trl Telegram ram Salt Lal Lake c City 10 o. o If It It Is u used ed you will receive 1 SI l Ir Mrs MM Ti M. M G. G Thorne Thome 23 M l st. st receives 1 toda today for the following question ques ques- I tion THE QUESTION If a child is adopted should h he hebe hebe be told If so o when 7 THE TilE ANSWERS S Mr Ir Mrs Geneva Gene Barratt 17 W. W Is 1st South Definitely South Definitely not Ive I've seen too oo many cases where adopted adoptee children have been told tod and afterwards refused to be cor cor- Mi reeled when they q did wrong saying Youre not my rea real 1 mother You haven't SI any right to tell me what to do When hen children ask questions ques ques- ions foster mothers can answer You are arc mine Do you know any other mother When they reach read their teens they can be told explaining ex ex- ex that they are as dear to you as your own would have been that that people would have to love children deeply to adopt them Mrs Olga Forsman bookkeeper 2560 S S. S State State State-He He should be told hes he's adopted when he first begins to o ask que questions s t ion s sa a about b 0 u t where he came from from from-at at 3 or 4 years of age If IC he hc isn't told his faith in his parents will vill be destroyed Hell He'll figure if it they lie ie to him once they'll do it again Mother will vilI always be mother to him ilm if hes he's told at an early age and he wont won't build up the resentment resent ment against adoption that older Children acquire in Alvin F. F Cronman store office manager 1565 Logan ave The The Theoster foster oster parents should tell em cm before before be be- fore the they y 8 start tar t school Children can cant be very cruel to one t another and if the parents dont don't reveal the secret they're bound to find out inS In p. p S 5 some 0 Tn m e disagreeable way I Kids ids J I learn a ear a r n 0 pretty fast these days ays anyhow If their guardians explaIned that they saw and loved them hem and wanted them for their own wn the feel secure n belonging belonging be longing Ellen 1 18 75 East East East- Just got engaged and hope I wont won't have ave to worry about adopting children but Id I'd say that lat the children should hould be bc instilled at t a very early eary age with ith the idea that they icy were adopted because they w were cre c r e i. loved oved They must be be made to understand S St i t 1 hat a t adoption is rood good with no stigma sUg-ma attached If It th they icy get used to ac accepting epting the fact during tender years |