Show Lamour and Colbert Give Advice About Love at First Fi Sight By Burdette Jay HOLLYWOOD INS Some Sometime Sometime Sometime time ago a dispatch from Ithaca N. N Y stated The old idea of love at first sight followed by a passionate passionate passionate pas pas- courtship and a whirlwind marriage has gone out of style in inthe inthe inthe the opinion of Cornell coeds enrolled enrolled enrolled en en- rolled in the course of marriage Hollywood we thought probably would want to know where these coeds have been ben these many years for picture players generally have had that idea for a long long time Some have tried falling in love at sight much to their sorrow Others have learned in various ways that it just doesn't work out Well we finally got around to talking to some of the better known film people about this grave lem First was Claudette Colbert now working in Arise My Love at Paramount a picture incidentally in which she tumbles into romance right off the bat Love at first sight she told us usually ends in a lot of grief The only way to build toward a firm and lasting marriage is to get acquainted with the object of ones one's affections first A little in investigating investigating investigating in- in may save a trip rip to the divorce court Ive never let myself myself myself my my- self fall in love quickly It isn't sane You can fall out just as fast Dorothy Lamour confessed that she once fell in love at first sight But she didn't marry the man She said Im glad I I spent a alot alot alot lot of time getting netting acquainted with him and discovered in time that we wouldn't be happy So did he We saved a lot of time by waiting and not being silly about it The things that a successful marriage are based on cant can't be discovered at first glance Ray Milland expressing the males male's side of the problem declared declared de de- de- de dared You should build a marriage marriage mar mar- on frankness on knowing the person youre you're going oin to marry You cant can't rush into marria marriage e and hope to find out the things you ought to know about a person of the opposite sex What is the old saying Marry in haste repent at leisure Fred MacMurray then spoke up It was love at first sight in my case But my wife didn't feel that way She spent a lot of time figuring figuring figuring fig fig- me out Im I'm glad she did Because she might have made a mistake I might have too Luckily Luckily Luckily Luck Luck- ily I found out that my first impression impression impression im im- im- im was correct But it happens happens happens hap hap- pens once in a lifetime |