Show 1 i TROUBLE BREWS WHEN WIFE PAYS ALL THE BILLS I Hearts Haven By BETTY BLAIR Here is the story of a. a husband and wife who all in n good faith continued continued con con- to work after marriage each doing his share to p ply y the expenses of their living At first firt they lived with his parents then they decided to build their own home His father gave them a building lot lot husband husband to build the house wife to furnish it This they did and all went well weIl well for a time Now trouble is brewing The wife keeps the house clean gets breakfast puts up lunches for both comes home at night prepares a a cooked vegetable dinner invites husband to eat Without a word he gets up puts on his hat and goes home to mothers mother's for forbis his bis dinner Furthermore the wife writes he expects me to pay all the bills from my check while he turns his over to his father who has hasa hasa a a home and a way of making his own living I am an expectant mother nother and will have to give up my job soon What can I do to tomake tomake tomake make him see that he must help hep provide for the home for our childs child's birth and expenses thereafter Doesn't it just beat t all out get how the best laid hopes and plans even the best of beginnings can somehow v alt all go awry How the willing horse is made to do all the pulling How one of the team turns balky and so prevents the other from doing her share of the work with good grace Yet there they are harnessed together with the whole field left to plow and the sun already well wellon wellon on its way across the sky ky Now even the plow is upset so if the balky one does make up his mind to pull there will be time wasted getting the plow in position again If If there there- were only a competent driver somewhere around to help them get started again as there is in in- actual plowing What's that What did I hear you say Hearts Heart's Haven That's what you brought the hc problem to Hearts Heart's Haven for What Goes Goes' On Here Exactly If It we only knew what h t happened to make the one partner balky Did his wife nag because she shet felt t she was doing more than her part and and so the husband just left lefther lefther lefther her to do with the whole thing her nice cooked vegetable vegetable vegetable vege vege- table dinners did she fail fall to add a apiece apiece apiece piece of meat now and then Was there too much sameness Had there been an understanding that they pay the father for the lot and the husband is anxious to tomake tomake make malte all payments so they may maybe maybe maybe be free from debt Oh why wont won't married people talk all these things over between themselves and after careful planning planning plan plan- ning and scheming try a a. way that seems best to them then if that doesn't work out try some other way Who Slammed That Door Why do they start bickering and quarreling and slamming the door to their own happiness right in their own faces Some of those doors are so hard to open Some of them seem to be cemented shut once they are banged that way Wife cant can't you now ow say ay to your husband Life can still hold happiness happiness happi happi- ness for us if we will work together Lets Let's make a new beginning Lets Let's not put the blame on each other but accept it mutually and wipe out all old scores and really start over Discuss everything with each other as grownups do not as childen childen chil- chil den having tantrums Dont Don't you think you owe it to the fine hopes you had before marriage to do this Dont Don't you think you owe it to all your future happiness and to that of the little one coming I do Lets Let's hear from other working husbands and wives How did you come nearer to a fulfillment of your hopes and dreams Did you Improve Improve improve im Im- Im- Im prove your financial condition by continuing to hold your jobs and at atthe atthe th the same time keep the home fires burning and love in your hearts TIlE THE Dear Miss Blair I would like you to tell me the date of Colonel Lindbergh's flight to Paris Par s also the date of his his' marriage to Anne Morrow Thank you Plain Ann Colonel Lindbergh made his nonstop nonstop nonstop non non- stop stop trip to Paris on May 20 1927 His marriage to Anne Spencer Morrow Morrow Morrow Mor Mor- row was May 27 1929 BIRTHDAYS Dear Miss Blair Will you please name the days dayson on which the following dates fell November 21 1921 May 17 1921 August 19 1920 November 26 1920 Thank you Rae I Sunday Tuesday Thursday and Thursday are the days fitting the dates in the order in which you have asked them |