Show GIRL FOUND TROUBLE DOUBLED AFTER DIVORCE Hearts Haven By BETTY BLAIR Temper is a wild horse which none nohe e of us should ever ride for it is giving the reins over to havoc havo and destruction Every man must ride his own experience therefore he must manage manag and control it Dear Miss Blair I had an experience similar to that of or Dancing Fool Foo Married when I was too young to know my own mind Was divorced and looked at by my old associates as though I had committed the unpardonable unpardonable unpardonable un- un pardonable sin for not staying by my husband and trying to work things out At the time divorce seemed a away away away way out but I now know if I had had any sense I would have stuck and tried to overcome our personal difficulties There have been many worse difficulties than my husbands husband's personality to overcome overcome overcome over over- come since Rage Repeats Young people who get married too often are thinking only of their own personal happiness If one of them does or says something something something some some- thing that goes against the grain of the other they are too apt to fly into a rage and say things they are sorry for afterwards But once they have done this ItIs it itIs itis is that much easier to do it the second time Girls think when they get married mar mar- lied ried they are going to live an al altogether altogether altogether al- al together different life from that they have lived at home If they have been cranky at home and disagreeable they will be that way to their husbands as soon as the of married life has vanished So my advice is to prepare themselves by sweetenIng sweetenIng sweetening sweeten sweeten- ing their dispositions at home and by learning to do the things that will wUl make real homes after they are married ONE WHO KNOWS Thank you One Who Knows for the sincerity of ot your letter It takes courage to acknowledge acknowledgeS an error in judgment But Im I'm sure once you you discovered it you did not go on a sit-down sit strike with life and its other possibilities You kept right on trying to make the grade against all difficulties That is exactly what Dancing Fool is trying to do too And we wish her the best of luck in whatever whatever whatever what what- ever course ourse she adopts to bring joy into her life We hope she distinguishes distinguishes distinguishes dis dis- dis- dis between the activities that bring joy and those that bring mere pleasure And we do wish she would change her name from Dancing Fool to something more suggestive of what she is really trying to do Im I'm sure a name like Creative Dancing would bring more sympathetic response Good luck to you u One Who Knows there is much gain in your having discovered your mistake acknowledged it il and nd in building on onIt onit onit it to better belter things Restore Old Books Dear Miss Blair Sometime ago you told in your column how to restore old books that had lain Iain in storage for some sometime time tAme and become musty damp and yellow Will you please publish publish publish pub pub- lish it again Also do you have havea a remedy for mildew in leather Even though I live out here in Hollywood I still take The Tele Tele- gram Hope you can help me and nd Ill I'll be ever grateful to you Even pins and needles get rusty in this damp country BELL Expose your books to the bright sunlight Put trays of lime or charcoal in the cellar or room books are stored Place blocks of ot camphor on shelves and andIn andin andin in corners of receptacles where books are k kept pt Replace as it evaporates Sponge mildew and musty covers of books with carbon tetrachloride and leave exposed to the sun I know of nothing that will restore the yellowed pages of books Whitewashing the walls wails of ofa a storage cellar helps to do away I with mustiness Be sure the whitewash whitewash white white- wash is made of lime and water only Note To Mrs L. L O. O G. G Yours is an advertis advertising ng problem and may not be answered in this column Ask to see stamp magazines magazines magazines maga maga- at library or book shops and scan the advertising columns for forthe forthe forthe the information you require Or send a stamped self-addressed self envelop envelop en en- and I will send you addresses of stamp collectors To Proof Fire Cover cr Dear Mis Blair Will WUl you please tell me how to fireproof an ironing board cover Thank you LYNN lie The following makes a fireproof solution into which you may dip not wash any fabric that is not too heavily sized to absorb it Boric acid 6 3 2 ounces crystallized sodium sodium sod sod- ium iuni borate 8 ounces one gallon of water After the fabric is well saturated hang it up until it is completely dry before using |