Show IS CHILD CRIMINAL MOTHER INQUIRES By BETTY BLAIR Children are not born with moral ideals or responsibilities It takes the combined forces o. o of th the patient intelligence of parents teachers church hurch all society to to inculcate L in them the proper pro pro- expected ted by by- society Dear Miss Blair My little son Is only 2 years old but already I am terribly worried about him He seems to want to tear or wreck everything h he puts Hearts Heart's Haven bis his hands on Once I read that all aU babies were perfect criminals Do you believe this Please help me rue on this problem as I am quite worried for fear my baby will never learn to mind WORRIED MOTHER Psychologists tell us we all aU start out as criminals By that they mean that every Infant is a supreme egoist ego ego- Lt He wants what he lie wants when he be wants it He recognizes only his bis own desires and everything else must be subordinate to them As the baby grows older he ho passes through a civilizing process Those Ideals of behavior which it has taken humanity thousands of years to acquire are instilled into him by his family his teachers his church and andall andall andall all with whom he comes in contact Patience Required Parents and teachers must have Infinite patience to t teach ach over and andover andover andover over again the right behavior It Itis is in this growth from babyhood to maturity that he comes to be a useful citizen As the child is taught to to adjust himself to the family to his playmates and teachers so will willbe he be react to society in general when he grows up Psychological studies of some habitual criminals have revealed that their constant warring with society was in reality a symbol of the hate they once felt for a harsh parent Children need a great deal of loVe re understanding and patience mixed with the firmness in their training So dont don't be discouraged Mother Nearly every mother has felt just justas as you do with her first born She wants him to absorb all aU that is good with the first telling It is the mother who has had more mor morE than one chick who knows what infinite patience it takes and the slow degrees degrees degrees de de- de- de grees of development by which her child arrives at the point of moral responsibility ON MAKING WILLS Dear Miss Blair I IDo Do you think it t is necessary for both husband and wife to make wills In case the husband died leaving the property deeded to the wife should she in turn make a will leaving the property to her children Or suppose the wife died first would a will leaving property to her children after her husbands husband's nd's death protect those children in case the husband married married mar mar- fl ried ned again Thank you you MOTHER e In every case where there is property prop property prop drop erty to be left a will should be made designating to whom that property should go In this case it is as important important important im im- im- im for a wife to make a willas will willas willas as for her husband to do so See an attorney for further information on this question since we may not give legal advice in this column WEARING GJ JEWELRY Dear Miss Blair Quoting from an article in The Telegram for May 18 entitled Jewelry Is Best in the Eye of the Beholder I find the following Jewelry should be worn for the enjoyment of others not yourself Cameo emblem and crest jewelry and other pieces having havinga a top and bottom worn so co that the tops are up when others look at them A cameo ring fo for ins instance an e sho should d be e wo worn n so co the face looks upside down to o the owner I An inquiry by letter etter to Tiffany Co the worlds world's leading style creators of jewelry brought me methis methis methis this reply A ring should be worn so that the cameo or engraving engraving engraving en en- graving or whatever the ornament orna- orna ment may be is right side up to the person looking at the ring on the finger By that we mean the person who Is wearing it Which of these two opposing opinions are we to believe CONFUSED A cameo ring on your finger upside up- up l side eide ide down to you with your hand at aty y your ur side will be right side up with your you hand band at repose on your knee or with your hand uplifted fingers pointed toward the ceiling When showing your ring to a friend the natural way would be to turn the back of your hand fingers pointed toward the ceiling toward your friend which also gives the right side aide up or head up view to the ob ob- ob- ob server erver Upside down with hand hanging down is right side u up for the observer observer ob ob- ob- ob server and for the person wearing the ring when the hand is in the position for observation I consulted one of our best known local jewelers to learn this simple truth to which he added A cameo pin is of course worn right side up to the observer Which observation makes both Tiffany and our Telegram syndicate writer correct depending on the point of view that makes upside down right side up HAND LOTION Dear Miss Bl Blair ir Warm weather or cold my hands bands are always damp with per per- This is very embarrassing embar rassing as I work and have to keep continually washing my hands bands Is there anything I can buy or r a formula I can make myself myself my my- self to keep my hands from perspiring perspiring per per- g Thank you R fl H. H 4 An excellent hand lotion for the business woman to keep her hands coo cool and free from perspiration durf during dur dur- ing office hours is u S1 made a by tom corn f t r 4 1 t. t r t 1 bining the following ingredients Tannic acid 2 drams drains glycerine 1 ounce toilet alcohol 2 ounces r rose rosewater rosewater water 3 ounces f 11 f i. i |