Show HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN SPONSORS SP CONTEST FOR LETTER ON MARRIAGE j 1 J MAJOR FACTORS REASONS TO RECEIVE CASH PRIZE ON LETTER PUBLICATION I t i Three dollars will be given for the best letter on the subject subject subject sub- sub WHAT DO YOU EXPECT OF MARRIAGE In the order of what you consider to be their importance select five of the thep theten p ten expectancies listed below and in not more than words write your reasons why they are the most important elements i to expect of marriage k 1 Security 2 Devotion 3 Absolute loy loyalty and fidelity 4 Companionship I t 5 Col Collaboration in work r on your l S lk 6 Social position 7 Intimacy 8 Recreation 9 9 Wealth or large earning capacity i- i 10 Children S J S SS f S Write on only one side of the paper No manuscripts will willbe willbe be returned All letters must bear names and addresses o of writers though the name of the prize winner will not be pub pub- I. I Write as you honestly feel and not as you think you should write Letters must be postmarked not later than midnight midnight mid mid- night Saturday December 12 Winning letter will be published i Wednesday December 16 Address all letters to Betty Blair r S' S Salt Lake Telegram S By BETTY BLAIR I T It will probably take centuries of economic ic independence dence of women to make men feel right about it It will take longer for forS S I them to accustom themselves to the thought th that t a woman C cb could ld quite casually pay not only her own way but his too S Dear Miss Blair Is it right for a girl to help elp pay the way when she and her boy boyfriend boyfriend friend go out I am a working girl and have enough that I can pay part of our expenses very easily He also works but what he has to spend on me mc keeps him I so low in funds that he cannot save any of his money Several times I have offered to h help lp him but h he will not accept any of my money an and I feel badly because S I know he L i. is a very industrious fellow and I often feel like I I. ama amSo am a a. sort of a burden on him Thank you JOYCE Tet your friend pay the way when yu y-u go out together There Is an element clement of self-respect self in his ability to do so regardless as to how bow low his funds become that he should not be deprived of You can help the situation however however how how- ever by limiting the nature of your good times together to such things that cost little money Accept invitations invitations invitations in in- for the more expensive treats for rare occasions only Arrange to have an appetizing snack mack of food at home after th the snow show instead of letting him take takey y you u to commercial places for sandwiches sand sandwiches or whatever it ht is you eat Plan also to vary the nature pf of the entertainment to frequent evenings evenings evenings eve eve- eve eve- at home with such a wealth of Interests to choose from that life will never ever become boring ReS Research Re Re- S search earch work in radio photography science literature art authorship and the thousand and one interests there are These can help to make mak evenings go on wings I recommend to all young people Chance reprinted from the Forum in the December issue of Readers Reader's Digest It gives much stimulation for thought on the present ever-present p problem of how to make dollars cover the essentials of livIng Jiving Good Gooc common horse sense sometimes with greater VU Uy covers overs CAP o. o an H V emergency V vj i o VU Uy covers overs CAP o. o an H V emergency V vj i o i skill than mere silver cents or dollars dollars dollars dol dol- lars either for that matter can do CHRISTMAS GIFT SOLUTION Dear Miss Blair In a large family of brothers and sisters we have usually managed managed man man- aged to buy each other some small gift for Christmas even though the gifts all came from the five and ten This year some of us are more grown up and we weS weare weare S are debating whether or not we should continue the practice of brothers and sisters giving each other gifts We dont don't think any the less of each ach other for having become more adult in our years and our ourS tastes but we dont don't have an S amount of money to satisfy those tastes One member of the family fam fam- S ily Y happily suggested we bring our problem to you So here hereit it is We hope for some suggestion that will fit our circumstances Is f M Many ny thanks THE FAMILY Your story recalls to my mind on onI one 1 I heard concerning a family who wh last Christmas were in a predIcament meat ment similar to yours With a rather joyful feeling that the proper prope solution had been found they decided decided decided de de- de- de to put all the names of th the family members in a a. hat The Th name drawn was to receive th the c gift which was to be bought b by bythe the sum of all the money of each member of the family We couldn't buy a gift worth worth- i while for all the members but we could get something very substantially substantially lally worthwhile for one member The he rest of us just figu figured ed ede we we e ewo wo would Jd haye have our pleasure in seeing the he enjoyment one member had hac from rom a really good gift And And- Andt t the plan worked This is was the report report retort re- re port tort I received Maybe some such plan lan would also work in your family amily providing the others in in- turn had lad a chance of having their names drawn on succeeding Christmases This was the he plan the family from whom the s sory came contemplated follow following ng The person whose name had lad once been drawn could not nol ag again in put in in the h hat t un- un II all had received gifts 1 IL J JS J'S S 'S 45 I HUGS HUSBAND FOR JOY JOY No No wonder she's he happy She I just juit discovered Felt Naptha Soap Chips the Chips the new golden chips chip I that are full chock of dirt loosening naptha And how how- they do doI I put new pep Into the washing machine J Get a a. box at your yourL L grocers grocer today 1 |