Show GIRL FEARS LOVEMAKING MAY LEAD TO MONOTONY 4 S By BETTY BLAIR i i Enthusiasm is s s' s contagious and can be transferred from one interest in- in terest to another as well as from one person to another according to the decree of personality attached to it whether it be love mak i ing g or rain raIn-maki g. g Dear Miss Blair I am 19 years old and have haye been going with a boy of 20 for almost four years yearn First we were just hood good friends and thought nothing of love or anything else except having gay times with our friends Our p parents rents were friends too and so naturally encouraged our comradeship But after tho the first two and a half halt years we became seriously interested in each other and amid quite devoted The old crowd has separated and we two are th the only ones still going together Because of this we seem have ha dropped our our old carefree fun fun- time and spend our S going Ing dancing talking of our future and I am sorry to say making love I am nm am so afraid that our too serious thoughts will lead to monotony and that eventually S vc we will grow bored with each other an and break up If I could only find some way wy to just be begay gay and be a a good pal and tind if I could just cut down on our display of affection to a goodnight kiss rm Im sure romance would last much longer I cant can't explain this to my sweetheart for fear he would interpret it as as' coldness due to lack Jack of love Will Vill you help me solve my problem BETTY You are facing the problem every couple I inevitably must face lace after aeter they have havo gone together over a along along along long period of time and their r rela relations l tio ns have developed from the friendship to the love and romance r 1 v stage tage Couples who marry after a ft whirlwind courtship have it to tofa fa face e some time after the honeymoon has bas expired Best to Face Issue I That is if they are wise the they face It Those who ignore that such a problem exists are as a a. rule faced with loss o of on one or the other with probable separation with an office wife or a golf widow problem or probably with the divorce court You are therefore to be congratulated congratulated J ted that your our intelligence has led you to seize upon your problem with witha a desire to ferret out its liabilities S Nature abhors a vacuum therefore therefore there there- f fore re to stop the lovemaking and do nothing would be intolerable Also you must make the change normally Make new with friends and with whom you must plan to do definite things If the tho evening seems to be turning into the theold theold theold old routine call catlIn in the tho friends have havea a a game of monopoly of bridge of discussion Read current magazines so EO your thoughts and speech may maybe maybe maybe be clear on the interesting subjects from who will be the next world heavyweight champion to where the best places may be to hunt for for- fossils fossils fossils fos fos- fos- fos sils in Utah And incidentally why not get a lively interest for the two of you like fossil hunting t. t Teems With Interests I wish I had ad space hero here to tell you about a very wonderful girl I know who besides filling mUng a professional professional career encourages her friends to accompany her on her fossil hunting trips Her life is one one filled with interests and people And you should see heS ber her collection of fossils There are so many things people c could uld do of interest Say for example you applied yourself to the study of etchings to know knowing who the past great masters were and who the present great artists are In that line Say yo you talked etchings etch etch- a ings to your friends that you atI attended at at- I tended all al the exhibits of etchings that you saw those collected by bj people whom your interest would make you aware existed and that you rou saved your nickels and dimes for a collection of your own 5 5 Dont Don't think but that your friend would be searching art magazines to give o you items concerning your hobby that he woud be encouraged encouraged encouraged aged to take up one of his bis own that your interests in each others other's choice would create a a. very lively pastime to detract from l ing And tho the possibilities for hobS hob'S hob- hob S 'S hies bles Ies are aro legion 1 I merely mention etchings because its it's a aho hobby by I hope to do more about some day clay myself The solution of your whole problem I lem Jem lies Iles in a nutshell Supply new interests to take the place of the old bId ld Add to them a contagious en en- f and you'll b be surprised at t y the tho th e number of pleasant hours that J. can be spent L. L I SELF MADE MaN fAN S Dear Miss Blair S I I I. have havo decided t to fo give up the thought of having an education as I cant can't afford atford one anyway and be bo a self made de man Instead I 3 know there is ili much I have to learn as I am ain only a a n high school graduate May I 1 I come in to see 1 you ou some time just to talk about p a a. few things things' I have on my mind and see if it you like tho the outline I 1 have made for myself and l what hat you think of the self made man plan You have helped mo me before belore and I I Iam am grateful H B. B S Shall be glad to have you call can for foran foran foran an appointment some morning when I am in Am interested in your lH made self man project One can do much to help himself You ml might ht also be De interested in the youth administration project designed designed designed de de- de- de signed to help those needing it for or furthering their edu education atlon If 4 I so make Inquiry at the sity Literally speaking there thore Is no such thing as a self made man The majority of things wo we want most In this world we cannot get except with the permission or aid of other persons Our social heritage is the greatest greatest greatest great great- est wealth we receive The background background background back back- ground of this is pretty well established established for us We Ve do well velI if f we follow it Marvelously well if we weare weare weare are are able to add even a wee wee- bitto bitto bit bitto to Its betterment To do so we must be supplied with tools These are mostly made by others and are I of oC great variety from books to mowing machines k |