Show I 10 O r I X Youth Mtr Mistrusts Loyalty V f t ur Girl iri I During r Cl bummer Summers Summer's s Interval of Separation By BETTY BETTt BLAIR BLAm He is a a fool who cheats another he is twice a fool who cheats himself The best g guarantee that one will win remain true to a trust is to place the the full tull responsibility A of trustfulness on him De Der r Miss Blair iii I have been going with a girl for three years ears and am madly In inlove love Jove with her I ani a sophomore and she is a at the uni nfl I dont don't know whether she likes me as much as I do her or not She says she likes me and nd doesn't want to go with any other boy but me For the past year and anda a half we have been going steady but but- now this summer I am going out of the state to work on my grandfathers grandfather's randt th rs r's farm No Prize Brain DraIn BrainI I wont won't be able to see her all aU summer Bummer in fact not until school starts I dont don't want to be the kind of selfish brute to ask her hernot hernot hernot not to go out with other boys during the summer yet I cant can't bear to think of f her doing so I dont don't want anybody elso aLso to horn in If I were sure she loved me meas meas meas as much as I do h her r I guess gues I. I could take it ft It but even though sho ho says she does docs I cant can't be sure she feels feels' all aU that I feel Im I'm not the worlds world's prize brain or beauty winner vinner though I manage manage manage man man- age to get along The thing that worries me inc Is that some fresh guy will try to get around her herand herand herand and I 1 dont don't want her falling for that kind of guy She's t too o fine and good for tor that I cant ant ask her to marry me yet for far a n few years but she's the only girl Til ever want to marry and I hope shell she'll wait for me mo until I am Ina Ina in ina a position to ask her to marry me mc Please tell me what to say to her so she wont won't think I 1 am a a dog in hi the manger but so she will want to be absolutely true to me SUFFERING PETE Youve You've laid your case case cas before me meso meso me so that I cant can't mistake either your love for lor the girl or your generously I guarded attitude in wanting her to have a good time during the summer sum sum- sum sum-I mer yet not to have her love for for you lessened by the exp experiences she may have I think you should lay the whole matter before her just as you have to me Tell her you dont don't want to be bea bea bea a dog in the manger and neither do you want to let her escape you And then leave the matter up to her Be generous enough that you let h her r know you trust her to be true to you yet that your trust is bordered with caution against letting any vandal trespass on the territory of your love lo for lor her Trust Aids Trust There is is' nothing that so much encourages one to be trustful as the knowledge that one is trusted Then one is placed on his own re responsIbility responsibility responsibility re- re and has the feeling that he is cheating himself if he breaks that trust People may have the cheat others and that t temptation is aggravated by the theother's theother's oth others other's rS r.'S exp expectancy that he is going to be cheated and by his own suspicious suspicious sus sue mind but the person is certainly another r kind of fool who deliberately cheats himself So Suffering Pete do the girl the honor and do yourself the honor hon hon- or to trust her And if your love cant can't hold her then be man enough to realize that her love was not the equivalent of yours ours and that it is just as w well ll you found Jt it out before the day arrives that you ask her to marry you I I. sincerely hope hoje the girl appreciates appreciates dates your true values as you do hers and that your fondest hopes concerning her will vill be re realized MISSING l THRILL Dear Miss Blair I i have been going with a boy for about three months We are aregood aregood aregood good friends friends' and have wonderful times together He has asked me meto meto meto to kiss him bim good night and I 1 would like to please him but when it comes to doing so I 1 just cant Somehow I feel that if I kissed him I 1 would be doing so under false pretenses and that it would spoil our fine line friendship I am truly very fond of this boy and I dont don't want to lose him as asa asa asa a friend In fact there is no other boy I wo would ld rather go with than him but butI I dont don't know con convince convince vince vines him of this nor let him know that my not waiting to kiss him doesn't mean that I 1 am not very fond of him Maybe there is some lack in me but I 1 dont don't know what it is 18 I have perfectly wonderful wonderful wonderful won won- times with this friend and should be sorry to lose him Please tell me what to do ELLAMAY Y When the time comes that you want to kiss kiss- the boy you'll know about it Sometimes the kind of friendship you are building up between between be be- tween each other is the basis basis' forthe for forthe forthe the finest and most most enduring kind of love But the boy is s wrong to insist on the kiss iss when you dont don't want to give it In fact fact to to give it as asa a duty rather than with your whole heart would do something to spoil your fine friendship and make you dread to have hav him put in an appearance because because because be be- cause of ot the toll to be expected Tell him you think too much of him to have your your friendship at this stage of the game spoiled by cheap gestures that as yet would have no meaning Tell TeU him also there is no other boy whom you would rather go with that him that you think love should have a natural development development develop develop- ment mont and not be spoiled in the be be- ginning Hell He'll like Jike you the better for it |