| Show frE EACH CHI i DIFFER DI FROM ACTUAL LIFE LIrE Jf j I IS READERS READER'S VIEW 1 4 J By BETTY BETrY BLAIR J Itis an excellent practice to examine sources before U wini ving una unauthenticated statements whole Many a person has t nd a false pearl in in what See seemed ed on the surface to be a good fJ 6 rt i I Dear flear Miss Blair Bair I t appreciate your replies to the rany lI serious and perplexing i lems It i Is la not flOt my fly desire to flatter flatter flat flat- j I- I ter but I do think II you ou offer values alues that f II f bring brine women andL and nei L J- J A men onto onta common v A LI f ground where they tI belong and andI which f e theY they would never ne IlL till 1 I I reach rench for far themselves I I One reply I have 1 i Il RI In mind WM was rei relative rela rela- a- a II ill f l the tive to marriage with I nothing but compan companionship to tob recommend b r HIlt I. I i mend It Remember 1111 il ti It It was a blessing 4 of blessings blessing for the tho simple re reason son that TOU OU pl placed e d marriage on a basis be beyond beyond be- be yond the possessive angle That bat you In spoke poke of at It as a medium to create Initiative and a feeling for responsibilities re rc re- re beauty morality and enjoyment And that these could not not- be bo had without financial se security lIe lIe- or backbone to support themI them I I The Tho reply of which I write brings to my mind the assertions of two prominent men In national f affairs fairs one a writer and political analyst I K jot and mcl the other a psychologist Their statements are that people should plunge Into Inta marriage with little or orno orno orno no thought of fin financial an stability Their arguments are that If two people love each other sufficiently nUy the end will be bo favorable ble for them This Idea has 1253 been tried and found in error uror and It always will bes be Life XU Opposite to Views lews I. I s t 11 I have havo made a ft thorough study ef of the philosophies of ot these two men to learn that such statements fas tu these represent the best knowledge knowledge knowl knowl- edge edre they have and that their point I of ot view comes from trying to conceal con con- ceal misery failure want and degradation on a 1 lar large e scale cale They want to make leadership d despotic environment unchangeable and to place religious social and economic t r-t Ufe under a cloak of Christianity and Justice when In reality the op op effect would be produced Truly we shall reap that which JF r we sow so why place vanity misery I false expectation Insincerity In the thet t of attraction Many successful success success- 1 rut ful marriages havo hare been and wilt will I continue to be one The he problem j f tern lem Is Is what Whit to pursue as loa a sub sub- j when beauty and compan compan- j fall ail It Is my opinion that 1 at at this Juncture of life lovers and andI I friends should put forth their 1 greatest activity Instead of turnIng turn turn- C Ing away and becoming vagabonds exploiters and offenders they should j f work all 1111 the harder to produce pod pod- i I effects JIM Well Well Jim you have certainly enough about about this of ot marriage to be the tho near- near husband providing you can Into Into action all aU that you think DJ it Certainly it is Is' Is a question de deserving our dee deepest eat thought hought and preparation L ru we we e lived on a planet where our food grew on trees tree and we needled need need- led no clothing other than that which n t had re ready made dy made for 1 us a and d natural shelters were provided and Ar r. r main efforts were concerned not with the problem of mere existence ex ex- lit It nce then we might advise marriage marriage mar mar- nags lacking financial stability But u until we find that Utopia and so sol l long ng still must fill our larders with bread and bacon and tomato j. j juice why ignore the f fact ct that we e emust must have some definite means of f securing it i l- l lOkay Okay Jim Come again I MARRIAGE RECORDS Dear Miss Blair r What steps mustS must mustI I take to determine determine deter deter- mine whether or not a certain per per- S iSon IOn has been married or not Thank you for tor the tho Information QUIZ Write wrIte to the clerk of the county eat in which you think the person w was vas s. s married ed Give the tho time as nearly nea-ly as possible the name and any other circumstances you have havel l knowledge of ot connected with the possible marriage There may be a charge for checking on back records and nd you should inquire about this i EXPERIENCES Dear Miss Mw Blair 1 Will vm you ou kindly inform me as to toj j how I can eRn obtain a copy of ot Byrds Byrd's experiences and adventures to to the north pole Thanking banking you t ANXIOUS Consult the assistants in any book hop lop or library concerning your jr problem r blem If it is Byrds Byrd's autobiographical graphical book concer concerning his experiences experiences ex ex- this may be had by y or ordering or- or dering from the book shops or from the public libraries t Y TEMPER TANTRUMS Dear Deat Mies Liu Blair l' l T I am very of at a certain Kid girt and I would like to go KO with her I i but another boy who has gone with 1 her t her has his discouraged me He says say i aha ahe Is 11 a good sport and anet helps a felI fellow fel- fel I low to have hivo a swell Aswell time for a little I while but after atter th that t she gets geta such luch lucha l J ft a a crush on that all 1111 she ahe wants Is III forI for I him to make mike love to her Naturally I. I a a fellow doesn't want to get serious He He lie likes to have havo a good time with 1 I a d L girl who Is I. a ft knockout and of I course he be wants a normal amount t I of petting If It It It'll Is someone he really fIlkes but he ha doesn't want to talk about marriage or settling down I l This girl has hILS lo lost t several leveral fellows I i because she got so 10 various serIous so SQ 0 Im I'm afraid to start going with her for shell she'll get serious with me and andl l I wont won't have the Intestinal fortitude I ito to quit her I hate bate to get myself I V. V Involved What shall I 1 do eto UNDECIDED if f you dont don't want to become in- in f the safest thing is for you to f lay Way away from th the girls altogether the pr Or Til rn tell ten you what you OU might do Ideally eaIly tew nw aw it work vork once nce Tell the girl at Bt the outset that you are not tl o serious kind Give her fair warning riling that you arc rc not the kind to be led into the tolls toils Tho outcome of the case to which 1 prefer efe waa Wal that the boy fell very seriously in love with the girl who heC because of Qt f the warning made herself her her- self leU lf ln Inaccessible to love or or its dem dem- And the upshot of it was wu that he had to Jay ay siege for f. a avery very long time before she could b be bewon bewon e ewon won over to the belief bellet that he ho re really w was l serious and to c her consent But pt lt after all aU tha that's t the e way the themen like them them Inaccessible the men to that t they ey havo hav av to th be beWon beon won |
