Show t y 1 Hospitality y S C Called a II e d D Duty u t y r. r S Of OJ Citizens c. c S By BETTY BLAIR BLAIRs s j Xo O city can be l said ld to h have vc a alios- alios hos- hos t pliable bl atmosphere that that lacks lack hOt hospitable hos hos- t pliable civic consciousness in hi the theT T S Individual Tho Timo chamber of com commerce coni- coni merce mcree men's mens and women's service serviceS S r rind and nd civic clubs c cant can't nt do all ail that is j necessary to make the stranger I S within our gates welcome and hap hap- py He o or she is every good citizens citizen's S-S S responsibility S. S Dear Miss Blair S I x will be 22 years year old oki this this' Bummer summer T I live Un here hero with my parents who do doall all aU they eJ can to make nuke me happy and andI nd I do appreciate all they do We moved rt hero here September and I con can very cry cry truthA truthfully truth truth- A k tully fully sa say ay I do not like likeL L I I Salt Lake cst City f b III 1 Ive I've e spent three I i years MS In a university I I and I I. I had a ra grand 10 N time I spent eight eightS S Nf months months' in California Californi and had an even better better bet bet- 1 ter time ume I certainly never felt Zelt then as asS I Ido S do n now w Here Bere It is S. I. I another tory story I Would enjoy going out once hi In A while hUe Not Not a date data ever every night but I love lovo to dance danee and do all the things young people do I Im am reserved re te re served and It If Is hard for tor people t to become acquainted d with me and yet I x try not cot to beIm be S Im Im I'm attending a business college now but I dont don't like it St There ar are plenty of or fellows fellow there but Just tho the same came none of them go o out of or their theirS S 5 way to be friendly though X I always a peak uk and smile I dress as sa nice as s possible am particular about bout neatness neat neAt- ness hess and personal cleanliness My y S home Is SI open to my friends any time S and my parents parents' enjoy having young youn youngS S people come DISCOURAGED S 5 I r guess you can Imagine how lonesome lonesome lone lone- some lome and discouraged I Iam am Not one onel i l date since rye Ive been here I wont won't go KO f. f with th Just anyone I am particular S but dont don't you think It pays to be e Tm rm very much dissatisfied With my tny 1 S life RIfe Id I'd give anything to get away war I f but I want to fInish my business I course tint fret Shorthand Is very hard I for lor me inc and 1 I recently flunked a a. I test despite the fact that I studied I II I j and studied That was wea enough to I thoroughly discourage me Right now I Ir I r would quit If Sf my folks would let Jet I IS S Inc me ne Mother is i always telling me mo sha ehe I wishes I X would find myself I Just seem eem to be floating around I Ive I've always wanted a business course but now now Im I'm not so co sure I X don dont don't t mind I IS working hard bard and studying hard but X I I IS S get tet so 10 down in the dumps If ii I 1 had I IS S S Jew few e evenings s out X I think Td rd feel teel better However the thing I 1 want more narIS than anything I else CISt Is 15 to get Ket away from here where Ill I'll have hove ft a chance to meet someone In the meantime how can ean I I keep my nose the to-the grindstone and at the tho S m time keep my chin up Ill I'll certainly welcome anY advice you otter offer DISCOURAGED Uie lne The Th lives of beings seem Lets Let's ch change the e to run in cycles ge 5 word cycle t to hurdle and say its it's the Way way you take tho the hurdles that still to for others prepares you S prepares come Most people ca can look back backon 5 on their lives to peri periods when hen the their tides seemed to Jo be wholly out It ItIs itS S Is in the retrospective view view only that they realize if they had d let th their r the circum- circum morale morale slip out out with S stances of their lives ves that pl placed'S placed ced S 'S th them thim m at such low ebb they might never have come back with the theS S full tun tide again You need to change your point of view and to do something very definite deft def 1 nite abo about t makl making g friends H Ha He Hey e eyou y you church or club affiliations from fromi i J. J S other places place that you up phere here to form new acquaintances Meeting mothers at church and arid club dUD might help you to meet sons for forS S dancing Then too as soon as g comes had you thought of getting out onto the municipal golf gol links or or te tennis courts couts to relieve your your sedentary life Ufe in the classroom Excellent Ex Ex- Ex- Ex opportunities are offered here for m meeting eti g people S SELF-EFFORT SELF At t t your business busIness' school have you made acquaintance with girls of your your own type who might might know know boys 1 1 i whose f friendship they would be 5 willing to share Invite certain of i these thes girls with whom you have common common interests to yo your r. r home horne T Take F ke the firs fIr first steps even though you oil are a stranger in the city These girls girls' at the b business sine s school chool may be I strangers to too Force orce yourself yourself- out outS S of yo your rda dreaming day into an activity S. S jt ity t that at will make you acquainted d with people Not especially with young oung men but with those through whom you might meet young ment men t i And a. a last suggestion is that you remove your nose from the grindS grind S sto put it among the flowers S of ot f fond hope with all ali their fragrance fra tra- gr grance guiding you ina inka n not t tso so so distant dis tai tant future to o a job t to Independence independence ence to th surety of friendships and the go goal l of marriage marriage of Your chin chinS S will then tako take care of df itself There a ere are e certain features of your being here I should like to talk over with you JP space apace forbidding here if you care care re to tomake make an appointment to 1 i see e e. e nl me DITCU DITCH DIGGER DIGGERS D Dear ar Miss Blair S ThI This Is Sa the first time I X have come cometo cometo to you for tor help and I X do hope you youcan can help me solve my problem The trouble Is ii between my father and me We never agree aile on my schoolwork or any other subject When I X want a change chanie In any anTof of my subjects In school he disagrees and tells me roe I 1 will wm never amount to anything and will be nothing noth noth- ing but ft a Then there thera la 18 ft tiff stiff fight of wordS wards 5 If you could tell me mc a way to get Dad to see my side and to agree with BIB once In a while and give me ft bit of af encouragement I X would be hippy happy lOIN IN fl A PINCH INCH very next time your father t tells you you will be a digger Will o t tell ll Il him the surest t. t way to tomake F r. r make 1 one out of you I is 13 to call you one and set that pattern b before ore yo your r eyes yes for you to emulate Will wm yo yoay you say ay that if fathers wo would ld take the positive attitude toward sons ot of f telling them what they might be- be come ome if Jf they lived up to 10 their best possibilities instead of always em- em the picture of ot what will wUl happen lappen if jf they live down to o their Vors vorst that boys w would uld try ha harder der to o reach the desired go goal l Now about this matter matter- of changIng chang- chang Jug Ing ng cour courses es h in school You don't dont try tryo to o change courses just because they are re hard do yo you 1 Or Isit because after after fter you stat start a a subject you have haven an n idea th that t it will it-will wUl be wholly unfit fort tor or any use you ever make ot of f it I X suggest that before you yoli talk about c changing subjects to 10 yo your r father that you go to your principal and rand tal talk La Ii the m matter ov over r with him SCULPTORS RS OF LIFE Tell him you dont don't want t to be a misfit in life you that you haven't aven t hada had a a. gre great t deal of experience with life Ute or r what it can can do to to- toa a feller eIler and that that hat you w want n t to have hav the best tools tool l possible put into your hands to help you ou chisel out th the statue of ot your future So much depends on oit n the first tools tool you begin this carving job of your own future You d ont nt want to make a lot of outs cuts a and d gashes ga in the llie beautiful piece of marble out of ot which futures are carved arved S so that it looks aU all out of proportion and patchy and that therefore you need help in ln t the proper selection of tools in other words subjects ts But you you might also add that tha ups grownups axe are very apt to forget that hat boys have any 1 feelings at all aU Not f of that boys need to be sissies and their heir feelings feeling hurt at af every little JitU that is said or do done e but they do JUke dike iko to be talked to as l they had ideas right or W wrong ng and they do need to have preserved that very essential sen lal human quality of ot self self- est esteem em When parents kill kiJI that quality in hi their children they may be be- bevery ve very y sure the they will all ail U be ditch diggers digger fI A t. t i j V 1 |