Show FRIENDSHIP LIMITS TS t BY GIRLS L 1 WHO DO THE HONORS It 1 By BETTY BLAIR 1 l c True friendship can have in it a minimum of selfishness The person who selects his friends for wh what t he may take from ih them mJ rather than for values that may be mutually exchanged soon goon finds himself himsel friendless Dear Miss Blair We Vc are two girls 16 and 17 years ears old fair lair looking nice dressers and have bave just been graduated from 4 hi high g h school We Ve VeI I I h have a v e 0 entertained I I. I quite a few boys in homes but they t I our oui never make dates or ori f i take us an any place I- I i They trust to luck that we will be home 1 lilt 1111 p iI f 1 when they call to toA o V I I take us for a ride or orI ora r A a walk Sometimes I they talk just sit and We Ve have invited them theta to our homes and played cards danced and nd served refresh refresh- ments We Ve enjoy sitting at home riding or going for lor walks part of oC the time but we would like to go places laces once in a while A few lew times when these boys have called Ve we ve have have- not been home but they till come without making ap- ap Why dont don't they take us places They They- seem to like liko us and are arc not ashamed of f us How can we make them tell us when they will come again so we will know when wh-en to be home bome Thank you BOTHERED These boys boys' need some sonie competition t to quicken their interest Go to the tho I tennis courts or the summer school playgrounds where you will find youth of all ages playing and makIng makIng making mak mak- ing friendly contacts You will find also that these young people are making most Interesting craft work Join them in their work and in their play Invite some of them to your homes homes for an evening Enlarge your Interests and you may be sure others will be more interested In you When these boys or others call callon callon callon on you in your homes talk talkS about your interests Let them know there are well liked movies favorite stars preferences in resorts as well as Ideas in books and in other peoples people's minds that interest you It is time you ou began to be interested in other phases of life than the entertainment entertainment entertain entertain- ment side Boys like girls who have depths as well as shallows to them They like the the- girl who can dance who Is musical who has tendencies in other artistic directions who can cook ook keep house house in in other words words words- a awell well balanced girl This balancing of f the activities indicates a mind Blind Furthermore I 1 think Its It's a good Ign aign for girls to be the kind of C hostesses hostesses host host- esses eases who have the t on Ir all the time Ume It is on 01 ch wholesome hospitality that th the 1 most enduring friendships are built The young people who build for tomorrow for next year for or ten years ahead are In the long longrun longrun longrun run the happiest and have the most friends Of OC course every girl likes to have havea a good time now but there are areman areman areman man good times to be had Independent independent inde inde- pendent of boys so far tar as going places are concerned So why not In your friendship making scheme keep the friendly attitude free tree of the thought of how much your friends may do for you OU in the joy of oC feeling feel- feel ing that you have something worth worthWhile worthwhile worthwhile While to offer them There Is no lurer way of at having hosts of friends Who ho are at your side in time of need MEETS ONLY Ol ONE TYPE Dear t-Dear Miss Blair Are boys all alike If It not I have never come In contact with any who were different They all think that every girl is head over heels In love with them while they tell every girl the same line in which there is not a word of truth I wonder if it other girls girL feel as asI I do about the stronger sex or J F Letters questions and requests for lor advice should be addressed to MISS 1 BETTY BETTi BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S DA HAVEN VEN THE TELEGRAM SALT LAKE CITY Write legibly upon only one side aide of ot the paper It Is IS necessary that you appe append d the right name and address but these will be held In strict confidence dence and will not appear In print Questions involving advertising In formation cannot be answered V I It If I am the only one whose experience experience ence is so limited If It anyone meets meet another kind I wish they would let me know D There are certain ages when boys dress alike think alike talk alike and act alike The samo thing is true of girls E Each ch must be like the others In the crowd or the gang or orlace face lace the awful curse of ot being un un- popular No girl of early adolescence dares dress to suit her type her features or her complexion She must dress to be the other gIrls It If a certain crowd crow of ot boys thinks it sissy to wear a tie or look clean be sure no boy dare break the rule They even have the same phrases phrases- the same slang even the same same preferences from food to fish- fish Ing ng No wonder they grow up to tobe tobe tobe be much alike in th their ir taste for or girls and their ideas concerning them The same is no less true of girls in their attitude toward boys But for tor those who have brains and ambition the differences differences differ differ- begin to assert themselves as manhood and womanhood approach and the they begin to plan for tor the days ahead So I suppose girls and boys bos will vIll just have to endure each other until that time time of individual budding comes But wouldn't it be nice if they sometimes tried to find the good points hidden beneath this crass surface instead of oC all the flaws NOTE TO A J. J The formula for rose jar was s pun liMbed in Hearts Heart's Haven Hayen June Jime 13 I shall hall be bo pleased to give you OU the tho directions for makin making over the telephone telephone tele- tele phone or you OU ma may come in and copy COP them hem from our files Jf Jt you oU haven't that hat copy COP of the paper saved Ins HIS IDEA Dear Miss Blair I liked what you OU said about the different ideas people have as to what constitutes a sense of humor and I sympathized with the young girl who ho was thought to have no sense of oC humor by her friends simply simply simply sim sim- ply because she didn't laugh when a boys boy's hat blew ble off oft his head Into a mud puddle or someone else stepped on a banana peel for Ive I've been in the same boat all my life liCe Now heres here's an example of what to mo seems funny Cunny Will Rogers i in a recent show said the can opener rather than the eagle should have been Americas America's national national national na na- na- na emblem and that any foreign foreign for for- eign nation could quickly exterminate exterminate exterminate nate our entire nation by destroying destroy destroy- ing all the can openers I chuckled over that as I do over much of this sages sage's humor This particular lar whimsy reminded me rue of at the Chinese attempt to protect their railways during the Boxer rebellion rebellion rebel rebel- li lion n by tearing up all the tickets with the explanation No have no can lide THE WORLDS WORLD'S BEST CAN OPENER No wonder you laughed And I think hink many others chuckle too at athis this his westerners westerner's homely philosophy that hat hits so directly at our Individual Indi- Indi vidual and national shortcomings Thanks hanks for your contribution Can Opener and heres here's hoping you may mayome come ome again PJ PERSIAN MALTESE S' S Half grown rown Persian-Maltese Persian kit kit- t rn n needs a first class clas home Call 1897 or see it at South Twelfth East street |