| Show 1 OBJECTION OF YOUTH I I v TO GIRLS GIRL'S HABIT OF r f HARASSING DIALOGUE V BETTY BLAIR r By By Br The circus is lovely and gives a thrill viewed from a re- re served d seat scat but many a person has been disillusioned about his secret passion for a certain way of living of dressing or playing even even for certain people when once he has been backstage and t seen what goes on there t I 1 love to feel fed that in the heavens above above it The Thc angels whispering to one another an other t Can SCan find among their burning words f of love loveNo ove 1 4 No name so beautiful as that of Mother Poet Poc I Dear Miss Bl Blair I t I know a girl who is driving her mother to distraction I doubt if it itI the she will even cven give her mother any I peace on Mothers Mother's l I I day I am one of her herboy herr r I boy boyfriends friends and take takeI I r Ill this girl out once in ina I B a while I can only I f afford the once in ina I. I I a while for this girls girl's tastes are too ill III extravagant for a f Iv Nf I frequent repetition of the kind of time she demands But I Igo Igo go to her home quite often and once or twice I r have heard the razzing I the girl gave her mother about never never having anything to wear I and always alwa'S being so hard up for everything As a ma matter of fact I this girl is considered one of ot the dressed best dressed girls at school It sure burns me mc up to hear her talk to her mother the way she sheI I c does I wonder sometimes i if bosI boys bos I arent aren't more polite to their mothers than girls This same girl talks a alot alot alot lot to other boys about the clothes she he has and hasn't got At least she does to m me who am mostly considered considered con con- an old pal al Gosh how I 1 hate to hear her get on that subject subject subject sub sub- She likes to go to expensive night clubs where the cover charges are plenty and she raves on bout the girls that are the most elaborately or the most gaudily dressed and bemoans her lot that she he cant can't dress as they do and can cant can't t go to night clubs as often as she he thinks these ritzy looking lookin girls girls go This girl is a hummer for tor looks end she hs it in her to manufacture c- c ture brains too Why cant can't girls see what it is fellows like and dislike dis like about them Id I'd a heap help sight rather see any girl plainly dressed so my attention wouldn't be distracted distracted dis dis- dis tr from her real beauty than have her fussing so much muth about bout her glad rags It makes a fellow wish sometimes the gals all had to wear uniforms for all occasions How about it fellas lellas ellas Do you OU agree or not CINCH J t. t 1 It would be an eye opener for lor the little girl friend if H she could see sec b backstage back back- ck- ck I stage into the lives of some ome o of the girls who are arc regular frequenters of night clubs and learn how they had to to scheme and plan to get those clothes how tired of it all they really were and how little else life lile holds lor br them other than the kind of thrill they have ha there I If she could see sec some of these girls at 20 when they hey cant can't squeeze another anther an an- I an-I other ther single thrill out of life and andare andare andl are bored with their very existence perhaps she would think up something something something some some- thing of real worth with which to regale your cars Some girLs have nothing else in their lives to take the place of the night club and the things that offer renewed interests to others all through life lie seem to them dull and stupid But your friend doesn't know this or knowing fails ails ailsto to realize its significance But after all aU this is her problem So far she is aware of only one side of or it Cant Can't you OU laugh her out of her attitude It would have so much more effect than the lectures her mother doubtless s gives her Let her know what a 1 boys boy's point of view ason is as ison I on this question before the time comes that the poor child will wake up to find out what a lot of real livIng living liv liVe ing she is missing while she is fussing fussing fuss fuss- I ing around about clothes and night L clubs bear Dear Miss Blair Our mother makes it very hard for lor us children to do anything nice nicefor for tor her on Mothers Mother's day She always always always al al- al- al ways says Oh dont don't buy flowers lowers they are too expensive Or Dont buy gifts gUts they ire are too much Of course we always go SO ahead and do it anyway but even though we do so and md she seems pleased she reminds us of the expense ex cx- pense Mothers Mother's day has been I wish she would take a different attitude attitude at at- and just enjoy this one day without worrying about expense Goodness knows she has enough to worry about as it is What can we do or say Lay to her that will make male her forget that the things we ie do for her cost money and make male her hel feel that for this one day sh she lives in a world of plenty with love and honor to supply all h hr r needs and banish all her worries t DAUGHTER Its It's sad to think there are mothers who have become so habituated to worry they cant can't for this one da day drop the mantle of their burdens from their wear weary shoulders a and d wear in its ils place the robe of ot contentment adorned with the many colored scar scarf of hope and md peaceful retrospection We know v there are mothers who I 1 Just cant can't he be happy unless they are areu u fretting retting about something but if it they must do so let them for this one da day at nt least have to fret about too much love and honor rather than too little Perhaps if the children were to start star the custom of writing prose or jingle I the many reasons why v they are glad glac to ob observe erve Mothers Mother's day she could I I be Induced to list the reasons wh why she was glad there was such a day This would be a more positive way I of inducing her to look on Mother I 3 day as something om thIng to be wholly enjoyed en cn joyed rather than as a day of ex cx pense pease and trouble AGE AND STATURE t Dear Miss Blair I have been going with a boy lately late late late- ly who is smaller than I and a few lew I months younger He is still growing grow grow- I l in ing and I 1 think in a few months months' i J I b 1 I i time he will be taller than I. I He acts older than he is and is consid consid- to be one of the best look ing boys in high school He is also very popular My problem Is this I like him very much and he seems to think thinka a great deal of me Do you think I should let his height and a little difference of age hinder our close friendship I should like to continue continue con con- going with him but if it isn't all ri right ht from this point of view it would be bc better to stop now before before before be be- fore it is too loo late IN DOUBT There is a time in every girls girl's life me when she agonizes over the problem of a boy being beng shorter or a little younger than she When she gets a little older she simply ignores these lesser problems in the light of real values such as character ambition background tastes and common In bests After all what difference can a afew few v e inches or a few weeks or months month make nake in the real qualities of a real boy Try to grow ahead of your our years right now In this one matter matterand matterand matterand and realize that the friendship of a aboy aboy aboy boy whom you really admire must be gauged by a truer measurement than that of inches or months KITTENS FOR GIFTS Two playful kittens seeking good homes may be had at lOOt 1001 Princeton Princeton Princeton Prince Prince- ton avenue Hy lIy R U. 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