Show c B BOY Y SUSPECTS GIRL OF LOVING HERSELF MORE THAN OTHERS ff I By BETTY BLAIR f j Some call love a gift of the gods and so it may be re regarded regarded re- re but even the gods cant can't give it to everybody for everybody for some cant take it Love thrives on truth and warmth and some hearts lack these essential invitations to love J Dear Miss Blair I have been very much in love with a girl but I am om just waking Up lip to the fact fad that she is very much in love with herself 11 II i and nd with no one else elseI III I in the world I have A known this girl for forI I A over years and M I f I have ve had dates dot with I I- I 1 her whenever pos pos pos- I 11 sible ible I have never i I tir Nf asked her to stop going go go- 0 Au I big ing n out with other h boys to go o with me mepH pH alone as I thou thought ht if she cared enough for forme me she would just top Stop op of her own accord I have asked for fOt dat dates date quite regu regularly and always ahva's mu much h in advance She has broken one or two dates with me meto to go 0 with a boy who comes of a very wealthy family I am sure lure she likes me rae better be than she docs doc him but she dearly loves the show shaw she can put on with the theother other bay blY in th the bi big car he drives drive and in intha th tha swell places he can afford to talc take her to I haven't ent even cven objected openly to that as I think most every girls girl's vanity leads her to want to put on this kind of show when the opportunity opportunity opportunity is there to do da so But what I 1 do object to tois is that the other boy boyhas boyhas boyhas has now asked her to go steady and she has accepted the bid She has told me she likes me better betler than any boy she has ever er gone with It has always hurt her when I Have I taken other girls out but she is the fort Eort of ot girl who would throw love into the di discard card if Ii it stood in the way of ol her pride or of ot material possessions I know she doesn't like this boy She has said very uncomplimentary things thins about him even to m me m. Buthe Buthe But Buthe he takes take her beautiful gifts gills and sp spends quantities of of money on hert her herand t and I suppose that is what she wants I love her in spite of at these weak nesses nerses Do you think it worth my while to make a a. a whirlwind campaign earn cam m to try to win her love and affection al af at and her consent to marry me mc or shall I drop from the picture and without fu further ther effort let her hergo hergo go her own sweet wa way I feel sure she thinks I dont don't love her very much or I would have pressed my suit uit harder and at least have asked her to go stead steady For your own satisfaction it might be a good plan for you OU to have ha a talk with the girl and explain to her the reason why you have never nc asked for her exclusive company You might at the time tell her of same ame your our ver very deep regard and s something of ot what your hopes have been concerning the two of you for the future Tell her you OU hav haven't nt wanted to act the dog in the manger part and that you tell her this now that she may keep it in mind in case she decides later t to ta i i V f v Letters questions and requests for tor advice should be addressed ed to to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S II HAVE A V E EN N TELEGRAM SALT LAKE CITY Write legibly upon only ono one side of the paper It Is necessary that you ou append append append ap ap- ap- ap pend the right name and address addres but these will be held In strict confidence con con- and antI will vili not appear in print Questions Involving In advertising adver rr Information cannot be an red It I 1 I rescind her decision concerning theother the theother theother other boy If Ii she is is- truly in love with you and love means more than material possessions possessions possessions pos pos- sessions to her she will let you yot know about it at this juncture Her acceptance accept ance of the other boys boy's bid may have been an act oct on her part to urge urse you to more definite action in her behalf But she if-she Is j the sort sore sori of or girls who as you OU say L is 13 entirely enamored of oC herself hersel to the extent that hat she has an ic icy heart for or those who pa pay her homage in the form of of wealth power fame love she is likely to Lo lose out in the long run of f life After Aller all we get nothing from life but the return of ot what we wc give ive to life lile and what possible returns are tre there for forthe forthe forthe the girl who ts herself hersell as her own true love There is Ls just a chance you may be mistaken in the girl and that her pride rather than her vanity has led her to to take the step she has taken in accepting the other boys boy's offer merely because you ou didn't make the offer Think it over o TROUSSEAU TEA Dear Miss Blair In giving a trousseau too tea docs does one display merely the linens linens' and fancywork fancy fancywork ane work or also household articles such a as chinaware glassware sil fancy pillows and bedding bed ding Who is the hostess at a trousseau t tea the bride or her mother or both boLh How should the invitations b be worded and ond what hours of the day are given over to the party What refreshments are generally served ser Also is it proper to show among her own thin things s articles bought between her and her fiance Hance Thank you so much for this much needed information on A FRIEND Everything a bride has in r hl-r trousseau trousseau trousseau trous trous- seau collection i is shown at the trousseau trousseau trous trous- sea seau tea China glassware silver even furniture if she is fortunate enough to have it as an heirloom or something she has Ius purchased herself hersel Things the bridegroom has purchased himself are not a part of the trousseau trous trous' seau but articles sh she has helped to buy may be in the collection though she he should say simply when showing them This Ls it something John and I have bought between us The elect bride-elect ma may give the trousseau trous trous- seau tea assisted by her mother or orthe orthe orthe the mother may give it with her daughter as the honor guest or both may give it tog together ther Circumstances s sometimes d determine termine just who shall shaH b be e host hostess Sometimes the announcement announce announce- ment meat tea is combined with the trousseau trousseau trous trous- s seau eau tea when time is js a l main cons consid consid- id c ration oration and the marriage is to follow v s soon cion on alter after the announcement Trousseau teas ore vcr very informal a affairs and the invitations are usually given g iven over the telephone If you are areto areo t to o write them say something like this Dear Mary I am to give a little tean leaon tea lea o oa on n Saturday between the hours of oi 2 2nd a and nd 6 or 7 and 10 10 as the rose case may maye b bf be e to show you and my other dear dea bt f friends my trousseau I hope so much t to asee see you Trousseau teas are al at- ways held only for ones one's most intimate friends and the relatives on both sides of the bridal family amily Refreshments Refreshment for a trousseau tea are arc exactly the same as those for any other tea and they may be as simple or as elaborate as a. you wish to mak make them Open face sandwiches of many varieties cakes punch coffee or tea tea tea-or or all three three party party eandi candies and salted nuts make an elaborate service You may leave out the sandwiches sand and the nuts and have only nl one beverage i if you wish wih SOUR EXPRESSION I Dear Miss Blair III A number of my friends and md my especially have remarked about my sour expression What kind of ot creams can I get et to rub on my face lace to help lift Jitt up my facial muscles so I wont won't look this way Thank you OU UGLY DUCKLING Smiling eyes and a nice dis disposition have an infinitely y more important bearing on Oct beauty and a pleasant expression ex cx than any amount of or preparations that may be rubbed on the surface Learn to think pleasant thoughts about the thc people you know instead of ot thinking of their faults and also about the situations you ire are face Remember that mere prettiness can be painted on the surface surface sur sur- face but true beauty comes from within Stop thinking about creams and lotions and think of exercising the pounds of latent beauty inside you oU that need tobe put into smiling smiting action |