Show PARENTS R A ARE INCLINE TO EXPECT TOO MUG MUC FROM YOUNG CHILDRE CHILDREN it I 11 I i oj Elders Must Set Exam in Control of 1 Emotions L There Is a I. limit to what shoal be taught the child chUd before he goto gat go gatto to school Before you ou exploit h read Mrs Eldred leaflet What 1 to Teach the P Pt Pr school Child Send a self dressed cent 3 stamped envelo with your request to Mrs 1 Myrt Myrl Meyer Eldred In Jn care of ot t tt ti Your Baby and Mine depal depa ment of this newspaper per I By Byl MYRTLE MEYER ELDRED ELDRE It is commonplace for paro par part to o demand behavior of childre i which they themselves are They Choy expect quiet orderliness C and an almost tc s senCe ce of emotional e displays The s ii of f a red faced mother screaming her er red faced screaming child to cant can't act like that around me I gLone ft gL one a hint to In order to be really effective terns of desirable conduct for C dren we we have to take our r role Ie model seriously and act as we we w w the child to act Mrs S. S E. E G. G Is perturbed by grandsons grandson's conduct She writes dear little e grandson randson Is really a pO chUd He has had his own own w way so long toot that when his parents parents' Ia company he Is wild The other evening I was wa-s there w wi several others He came u up I a a. a kicked and spat at me I was p poked pi yoked and slapped him hm His mo moth has not been bee so friendly to me mc si sin iD then Did I do the right thing Knowing little grandsons r I would woud have hwe helped hepe-d me better t to i v his conduct It is quite qUit ti tr that th the only child who gets lots of from his parents when th thare arc are alone with him goes to to get their attention when it 1 iI iii by company r Perhaps he should have been In Jn b Instead of ot romping around disturbance But Bul without knowing any more ab abO abol it t than you have told me mc there a ai two wo good reasons why you jou should have slapped him f. f One of ot them has been given Yc yO cant can't expect t emotional stability of bt small child unless you O can emotional stability in his You erred by losing osing y your ur temper a aI slapping sapping hm just as he erred in g ge ting tine so jittery and emotional of company that he could only sh sliD it t by excessive behavior kicking c a hitting or indulging in boisterous n play Secondly his mother Is the one reprimand him He should not be a lowed to show disrespect ct for h Ii grandparents and she fihe could h hay hav v shown hown her disapproval of his rea ra rea ions by sending o t the e rOO roo roon Then he would have k known own that h hi h. h had misbehaved and would have fell sorry orry When you OU slapped him your action actio were vere as reprehensible as his and the he bo boy felt none of ot th this s. s but on a dislike and disrespect for you ou Thi Tn seems cents a large price to pay poy for bra fora a hast action j il |