Show I LD AVOIDS TALKS I 1 ITH VISITORS WHEN QUIZZED CONSTANTLY Youngster From ft m When He Is Dise Dis- Dis Mgr e to Strangers tranger TLE MEYER ELDRED to Mrs Elin Ela El El- ing your our problems a in care of the Your Bab Baby Mine department of this i map per per r. r Your questions n about c general care and manage manage- t t of children will be an an- will ena ena rna en- en ed promptly if you ou a self self addressed addressed ed three cent i ped envelope with your our l let Jet t- t r ruse e most of ot adults adults' conversa- conversa with nth children is in the form of I heartily sympathize with o tires of this type of ot at at- and refuses to be a party to to an examination When she It disagreeable to a child the theand fitful and understanding adult her persecution instead of ct e g and leading to what the ther stubbornness r deems deem boys boy's stub stub- overcome my top elp me es writes Mrs biro K He is healthy normal bo boy but he acts d dof of strangers rs He will not say or Goodby and will not anwer an an- their He is fri friendly cd ler when no one asks him to tol too He used to be such a l o avable cl child now 1 I wonder what eople think of him His old 2 brother is getting act lust Just like him He is very dis dis- bedient He pretends not Inot to hear If I until I 1 threaten him with a n aHe nHe He seems to dare me too to o oft Jt I ahall ill be thankful for advice a 11 these theae problems You admit that the child acts when you leave him alone ken oen love leave him alone When visitors ad sd that toil he is disinclined to answer fir Jr Ire greetings they should ignore i. i 1 You at You do not help his timidity l him to do an unpleasant ii you jou enhance his fears and he more amore and more timid in the of ot visitors lt rs If he is really it Ii k send stad him out of the room To dish him when he 1 is socially dis- dis i u is the only penalty that td HI d be Invoked Hj a sad state of ot affairs if it the id lid Jl listens tens to your suggestions only nhe ithe he is threatened with punish- punish etl V t I am m sure ur you will vill find ind my myIe gut Act What Shall the Parent Do tad dead of ot Spank of ot help to to youat you of at you send end nd a self-addressed self ee cent ent stamped envelope with t ur request for it r tit fit It is 11 necessary to give an m order order- osny of our commands are petty I t silly and need never be uttered Hit it until you are sure he Isn't goto goito go- go ito to heed beoo it Then repeat your take Uke him by the hand and see seethe seethe the carries out the suggestion Idren always hope that by thing they can cant Can avoid it Often cin c which victory strengthens ei a IA for the next tussle But if they r that a thing must be done tely they the order f I takes no f your time and andA A Ib less leM emotional energy g than luning Act instead of talk but butte butto te to e your actions ns to the point A eking aUng has nothing to do with what i I ire re intending to get done Why your our time giving it |