Show WIFE CAN NOT INCLUDE HUSBANDS HUSBAND'S FLIRTATIONS Awkwardness i of Adolescent Boy Hinders Progress in inLove Love Making Memories of Early Love With Romantic Roman Roman- tic Glow Bars Knowledge of New Love By BETTY BLAIR BLAm Wife Wile of motor bus conductor objects to flirtations carried on onby onby onby by husband who arranges for companionship during hours of work Finds love flying out the window when respect goes out by the back door Dear Miss Blair When I read letters from women wo we- men complaining about their husbands husbands hus hus- bands I have wondered how any w woman 0 m man a n could sit sitI sitt I I down and write a aletter letter that publicly r nv t I criticizes her own owne ear I I husband yet et now e I have ve come to the c D 0 point where I too need help and there therea tI isn't a single soul I IV Ican Ican V e can come to for or I a help but you I wouldn't have his J folks or mine know for or the world what whet I am battling against My husband has been a street treet car motorman for the past years Before we wc were married he was a a. conductor on the line I 1 used to take to go to tomy tomy tomy my work It was there we met and became friendly Then he asked me to go with him and within a ayears ayears ayears years year's time after we met we were married I didn't know when I 1 married him how ho friendly he had been with other girls who rode on his car but I hadn't been married long before before be be- fore I found out I used to get on his car in the afternoons and ride with him just to pass the time away Soon I could see he didn't didn t twant want me to do this and I wondered wondered won von dered why It wasn't long however however how how- ever before I discovered the rea rca there to son He didn't want me see how much he flirted with other girls who rode with him By this time he was transferred to the bus line and several times when I 1 had to go to town shopping when he didn't expect me I would find girls sitting up by him There was one girl who rode with him several times a week and when she wasn't on the car a young widow was I felt so hurt Over ever this I was actually actually ac ac- ac II ill I knew he made appointments ap ap- ap- ap for them to ride at J certain times Friends of mine also noticed this and spoke to me of ot it but I just laughed it o off and told them yes my husband had lots Jots of girls who rode with him every trip I didn't want them to know how haw much I was hurt or Letters questions and requests requests requests re re- re- re quests for advIce should be addressed addressed ad ad- dressed to B BET BETTY E T T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is 15 necessary that you append append append ap ap- ap- ap pend the right name and address address ad ad- dress but these will be held in ia strict confidence and will not appear In print Questions Involving involving in In- advertising Information annot cannot be answered I that It could possibly be true I I have talked to m my husband about it but he only laughs and says he likes good company when he rides He has a late sh shift t but since I have seen what goes on onI onI onI I refuse to ride on his car at all He always comes home straight from rom work and I l know he doesn't spend any money on these women I but why does he want them to ride with him I cant can't be decent to him since I have found out about his flirtations flirta tuna and this makes en unhappy home Can you OU advise me what to todo todo todo do ALWAYS SAD Man Is a gregarious animal He must have companionship l if not that of his wife of other charming women But there should be he a time and a place for all things and most certainly the street car or bus is the wrong place to carry on a flirtation One way you could put a stop to this would be to inform on your husband husband hus hus- band to headquarters but we hope you ou will not be driven to do that though most assuredly i If he keeps on with this activity and other people are talking about it officials at the head will hear of it Try to persuade your our husband to stop making appointments with girls and women to ride with him because of the risk entailed of losing his job Argument on the side of discretion may affect him more than tears for tor your own happiness Tell Ten your husband hus has band of ot the gossip that Is going the rounds and impress him of the necessity necessity necessity sity of ot mending his ways for the sake of his own welfare And as for yourself try to find happiness within yourself outside of people or events Engage in activities that will vill occupy your time and thoughts and heart interests You will then have much that is of ot interest with which to entertain your husband in inis his is hours at home A well vell kept home a wife who dispenses cheer hospitality hospital hospital- ity y vital interests will find ind happiness and nd make her husband happy She may ay not succeed in reforming him but at least home will always be the best place lace for him to come to And that S s something THE TIlE AWKWARD AGE Dear Miss Blair I am a high school boy 16 years at- at otage age and in love with a junior high school girl But when I was 14 I started in to be all aU hands and arid feet and I haven't got over it yet et When I go to this girls girl's home m my feet take tip up p half hal the room and andI I 1 never know what to do with my hands I think my girl notices how I awkward I 1 am as I have seen her looking at my hands when I move them about trying to find a place for them to land where they will fit tit and the same with my feet The worst of ot It Is there is another another an an- other fellow who comes to see her too and you would never know he has any hands or feet the way he handles them Gosh what can a guy do SUNK Give yourself another year Sunk and you ou will come out of the morass all right You probably are a big boy with such big hands and feet teet and while you ou are arc in the growing period yo your r hands lands and feet will seem out of all proportion to your our body By next year you ou should have arrived at more more graceful proportions With a big heart and a magnificent brain to keep company with such bodily proportions you should be able to o any rival at a glance You Youcan Youcan Youcan can afford to sit on your hands if necessary but better than that learn learno to o clasp them around your our crossed knee or to keep them clasped and andIn andIn In n a relaxed position The main thing Is to lift your our mind off ff your our hands and feet feel It Is the extra weight of this this' that makes them seem cumbersome and that through your wn self consciousness attracts the nolice no no- lice Uce of ot others LOVES MORE THAN ONCE Dear Miss Blair Is it Impossible for a person to love more than once When I was 17 years old I had my first love affair I thought then I could never I love anybody else I lost my man through a rival but I never stopped loving him That was four years ago Now there is a man who claims to love Jove me very dearly I admire him greatly and should feel a great loss if he were to go out of my life Ufe but there Is nothing nothing noth noth- ing wildly romantic about the feeling feeling feel feel- ing I have for him hum Do you think it is love CONSTANCE I think it would be Constance if f you ou were determined to drive this other man from your thoughts An I emotion doesn't have to be wildly romantic to be love Love can be the most peaceful soul satisfying experience ence in the world with nothing wild about It And it is quite certain that one can and does love more than once There are many momy degrees of ot love varying between between between be be- tween the two goal posts of hate anc and ecstatic love The warm warm self satisfying kind minus the violence and the ecstatic costa costa- tic tie thrills usually knows the greatest happiness for the disintegrating emo are lacking in its setup Consider this quieter kind of emolion emo emo- Uon lion gravely It may be your greatest happiness lies that way |