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I Quoted s 5 S Improper Posture re N NJ J SI By BETTY BLAIR and boy romances remain In the avenues s of o surrounded by br a particular ul r aura i ra This is ut t only of the f fact t that It t is first lov love Its brightness igers gers as do memories of the first times of any anything anything- thing thing- thome first i st parties first trip S Miss Blair Jarza I am ama a high school girl and until year which Ja 15 my last I much atten- atten vent ent t paid ve very on n n. to boys bos Maybe that tha was he- he liethey they didn't think of me meas as to g so go out with though they h y yer er ere always friendly Il year e r there ther i is is 1 a boy oy at i school l who has paid pai particular at- at terJi rt n to me I liked this very I much as he was t s such c a nice I clean bo boy J ha has taken ken me to a number of parties and to shows hows so so far this year but c 2 w whenever ene he has h s i al come to my home to to to get me my father lather and mother haveS have I been very ry suit stiff and S p have just barely spoken t to him in a a. a S quick way and then v gone about what doing as if he were not they were there am old ld b but t I sin am 16 16 years they think I am am too young oung to go with toys They dont don't know this boy t or 02 his family and I think that too is what makes them act this I way 31 I know it hurts him an and f that thatis that is the reason why he hasn't t I called me for the past two weeks I now that I have a ter ter- bl crush on this boy oy and that it would make the rest of my year W very very i if I did not have his companionship I am afraid some other girl V will get him bim as there are arc plenty who like him bim Then if it he is treated kindly and end invited to come again by the I girls girl's parents he will see the difference dif di- ference and will not come to th see sea seane ne again I just couldn't bear this led aad I am afraid it would upset ce until I couldn't get my lesions les JOns ions as already the fact that he hei i hasn't called f for or r so long is mak- mak iafe me me worry Please tell me what I can do or orlay lay to my parents to make them Kt thin things things' as I see them I dont don't want waat them to know how much I think of ot this boy or they would be bed d ad set against hUn him but I do vl want nt them to consent to my in in- inviting him to our home and in bEIng pleasant to him I hesitated about writing as your sour column seems new and and I dj d nt know whether tr tr er I Iw was supposed to write all aU that comes omis before the letter letter- in the headlines or or not but I am taking tak talc ing Inga a chance of writing just as I Idid Idid Idid did a year ago though about an anS S entirely hope hope j you Ou can help me JANEVE JANE E You we right l write eur letter 1 in IlL n the usual Sual wa way The es re my particular privilege tty try are there to dress up our cozy ner tier a a bit and I hope you like ten Don't Dont let them disma dismay you It lt Is quite quIt necessary for normal that boys and girls low w each other in a friendly way far r parents will agree to this Im I'm Imre Ime vs re e. e Very well then ask for the theU v U 1 ge of inviting b both bath th boys boy and andis Ls is to your home informally and dude ude the best liked bo boy among tin S Tell fell your our parents arents that this will be good food way for them to become ac ao LCd with your friends as it isn't ways possible for you to know only sons and daughters o of people torn om your parents know If they went ent passed beyond the memories f their own youth under- under and ind that young p people ople must make a oue tse in order to be entirely them them- Break the ice ice- by introducing I Same game g mc or by turning on the radio dancing or by inviting them all to no i the kitchen to make fudge or and chocolate Your parI par- par I ItS its ts will ll soon come to like like these I If ormal l od times f g good as much as you t a WL lit it will ui help elp to bridge brIdee the gap I at at present stands st st. t between them routh th Then tn when th the young ma man maz whom whon I have e come cc to know and to like hYOU you to go co places and see seeH H there cant can't be ie the usual obi ob- ob i Jt on ft to to get t hold of yourself lid not let thoughts of this b boy y keep lau nl from your our lessons Now Is the L. L J eLor 10 or all ail good girls to show that ey are e mistress of their thoughts S Letters ques questions ors and requests re requests requests re- re quests for lor advice should be ad addressed addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append append ap ap- ap pend the right name and and address ad ad- address ad address dress but these will vilI be held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions In Involving Involving in- in advertising information cannot be answered Lett Letters rs requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes Ed and md actions And dont don't let It b be so long b before ore you chat with us again OF ARMS De Dear Miss Miss' Blair 4 Please t tell ll me which is correct for r a a girl to take a boys boy's arm when walking or for the boy to toS S take the girls girl's arm arm Thank you W 4 Nl NJ ther is correct Of course if ifa a girl Is a gran grandmother mother who Is and who needs help and direction that is another matter The boy be he graI grandfather or not offers her tier his arm But I know man many a youth youth- youthful ful tul grandmother who would scorn the pr proffered ed arm arm unless there were eze a dangerous street crossing to be navigated nav nav- gated or a high step on a street car from rom which there were danger of crooking her back when she attempted attempted attempted at at- tempted to step off oft For the latter r occasion the gentleman grasps his I companion just under the elbow and and assists her to ali alight h S IMMIGRATION DIl LAWS Dear Miss Blair Will wm you please publish for me methe methe methe the laws of immigration in the theS S U. U S. S Thank you very much J J. J J. J Jn It is impossible for me to give the entire law in hi the space allotted for Hearts Heart's Haven You may find it summarized summarized sum sum- in The World almanac for 1933 on on page This may be had hadin hadin hadn in n any library Following ving are a few facts acts about the quota S Under the quota law of 1929 there may b be admitted yearly e to the U. U S. S about alien immigrants as against under the old aid law The American consuls abroad are directed to examine the information given on questionnaires and eliminate nate applicants who are feebleminded mind feeble ed and whose prison records make hem inadmissible as well as all aU oth- oth th- th ers the ded by law ll The principal U m S. S consular officer in n each foreign country is designated as quota-control quota officer and it is his duty to see that the quota is not ex ex- The The consular service is under the department of state If It an alien obtains a a certificate and later ater changes his mind about emigratIng big Ing ng to the U. U S S. S. S his place cannot ot be beaken betaken betaken taken aken by another and he will be keepIng keep- keep jag Ing ng someone else from coming QUOTATION Dear Miss Blair I I am trying tring so hard to find a certain q quotation about s solitude bringing peace Can you roU help me Thank you MRS C. C CoIn In Lord Byrons Byron's The Bride of Abd s I find the line He makes a solitude and arid calls It peace I hope this his is what you are arc looking for EXERCISES Dear Miss Blair Will wm you please give me some exercises for reducing fat tat on the abdomen I seem to have acquired acquired acquired ac ac- ac- ac a 3 spare tire Thank you BILL Spares are usually acquired through laziness l Bill and since they hey are never to your credit it behooves behooves behooves be be- hooves you ou to get ge busy Lie down on your ba back k and Take and lower both legs together knees k S held stiff stilL Lie on ri right ht side Raise left knee to chest then thrust that leg out and upward in a sideways direction Repeat Repeat Repeat Re Re- peat with right leg while lying on left eft side Lie down on your back Double up your knees on your chest Keeping your feet together shoot your legs out sideways knees straight then swing them th m pendulum fashion to th the side and back to bent position Rotate Rotate Ro no Ro- Ro I tate your legs In this wa way ten times I to a each side Rest a minute or two I then rotate the legs legs' forward alternately alternately alter alter- as as' as though riding a bicycle alter I |
