| Show HEARTS HEAR TS HA YEN VEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters questions and requests for advice should mould be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of at tho the paper It is 15 nece necessary ary that you append tho the right name and address but these these- will be held In strict confidence and will wID not appear In print Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be an Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self-addressed self envelopes Ed GOOD WIVES AND BAD Dear Miss Blair There are ire good rood wives and bad bid am and we all have hive our faults Married life Ute b Is such lOch sucha a a puzzle I ol often n wonder If Jf we will ever strike that happy medium for which BO so man many of ofus us are striving Most Moat of us os have two natures There is one that rebels rebel at it the housework ironing and the th hundred and one that thit come come to annoy u us in the course of the days day's work This ThU rebellions rebel lions lIous nature we too often orten bottle up to allow illow to explode on our husbands when they come home borne from their work And then our other nature our best beit the one that tries to make UI us overlook the small things the one that makes make us hearted big we save for company display Now I dont don't belong to the rank and file fUe of wives who lounge around on overstuffed furniture I dont don't even own wn wn any Neither am I lone one of ot those who believe in waiting on their husbands bus hus bands hand and foot I have enough to do without doln doing that and ho he Is Ls IsM M bodied able as I. I But But I do love him and aDd try try- to be good rood to him even though I do sometimes get rd cross and bawl him out once in awhile I d do not believe men are arc something to be put pat on a pedestal nor women either for that matter I think women are entitled to the same ume privileges u La men and I expect the same respect reaped respect re re- re- re aped and consideration from m my husband hus bus band nd as I X show him If U I dont don't get Iet ItI It I am very hard hud to live with I would like to hear from other married women women wo wo- wo- wo men on this problem of ot how to get gel along alone with their husbands I think it does us UI all 11 good rood to air our oar views RACHEL It would seem that the springtime Is Js a season for internal intern as well wen as external housecleanIng I can think of no better w way y for the wife to do this than to get rid of the complexes that have been cluttering up her Interior In in- tenor for some time One way of doing doing do do- ing this Is to open the valve of confession occasionally Were We're glad you considered Hearts Heart's Haven Ha worthy of listening to yours RacheL It is quite true that one can sit down and write away all ones one's Spill them all out on paper Likely as not before you are half through you wont won't even have any They somehow begin to solve themselves when you confide them theta to paper And those that are too deep to melt with the telling can often be helped by letting unknown un un- known friends know about them Hearts Heart's Haven has a huge fam family y of ot just such friends whose timely advice ad vice to each other whose retelling of at experiences similar to those told in inthe inthe inthe the column have given courage to many Rachel wants to know why some come women are good wives and others others others oth oth- ers ers ers' not so good What dispositions ns activities circumstances make them good or bad Lets Let's hear from others others oth oth- ers just why they think themselves hard to live with or just what ItIs it itIs itis is th they y do to make the make the barque of marriage sail y S. QUOTATION Dear Miss Misi Blair Can you ou give me me the name nane author who wrote the following lines l At 30 man suspects eta himself a fool knows it at 40 and reforms his plan Thinking Thanking you HARRY Edward Young was responsible for lor the foregoing quotation This poe poet lived from 1681 to 1765 Many of his lines have been handed down to us u.s. The lines you quote arc are taken from his long poem Night The following well known adages are arc found in this same poem of more than 1600 lines Procrastination is the thief of time How v blessings brighten as they take their flight Man wants but little nor that little long MENDING TISSUE Dear Miss Blair I have have had had bad the misfortune to snag my dress It is of flat fiAt crepe I wonder wonder won won- der if you can tell me what it is that thatIs Is used by means of which one can glue a pl piece ce of the material on the wrong side so that the patch can scarcely be seen Many thanks MERVIL A mending tissue rubberized comes in packages and contains three colors colors col col- col ors for tor mending rents in clothes It may be had at the drug stores HENNA SHAMPOO Dear Miss Iss Blair My Iy hair is a very dull drab brown I would like to use henna on it in such a way that it would not effect a Po radical change but would lend sparkle and life Ufe as well weD as an almost imperceptible coloring to it Can you t tell me a formula for using henna henn to produce these results I s shall lI be very grateful to you you yon if you yon can HENNA HEART We have a formula for using henna to produce the results for which you ask but we wish to advise hair of different textures textures' and colors respond differently to exactly the same me treatment treat treat- ment Naturally therefore your our first use of the formula will be somewhat in the nature of an experiment The shampoo Is made by dissolving 1 tablespoon of powdered henna and 8 1 of ofa a teaspoon of powdered borax In n 1 pint of water When the henna and borax have dissolved strain the liquid through a double layer of cheesecloth and then add 1 bar of finey fine fine- lY lv y shaved castile soap The ingredients should be mixed ina In Ina a granite pan and then placed over a slow fire to simmer until the soap melts When melted strain again through the double layer of cheesecloth cheesecloth cheese cheese- cloth and set the mixture aside to cool and form Into Jelly To use this shampoo wet the hair thoroughly with warm water and then hen rub a liberal amount of the henna henna hen hen- na jelly through ugh the hair working it up to a full lather before rinsing it out This first rinsing need not not-be thorough thorough thor thoro ough ought but just enough to dispose of ot most of the lather A second application application cation of the henna jelly should then be brought to a full bull lather and rinsed out thoroughly After the second rinsing a third application of th the henna jelly should be ke lathered and instead of removing it t as before a toweL towe should be wrapped about the head so that thel the theather l lather ather may remain on for lor th the final final minutes At th the end of f this time rinse the hair lair as you would for the final rinse finishing off with a vinegar rinse i which is ls made by adding 1 tablespoon of vinegar to a glassful of water Pour this his over over the hair let it remain on onor for or then rinse it oft off An old towel should be used for binding about the head Repeat this shampoo once each week until your lair hair has has' gained the coloring you want then hen use it only every other shampoo Just inquire for plain powdered henna hen hen- na when making your purchase It is Js isa isa vegetable compound a DAYS OF WEEK Dear M I Us Blair S SI I should like to know on what days daYI of the week the following dates came January 30 1920 1020 August 21 24 1921 January 19 1928 January 29 1926 Thank you LION r January 30 30 1920 came on Friday August 24 1921 1021 on Wednesday January Jan Jan- uary 19 19 1928 on Thursday January Januar 29 1926 1928 on Friday PART PERSIANS FOR GIFTS Two part Persian Persian kittens may be belad lad had by calling Wasatch or call call- lot int ng directly for them at 97 South SouthWest W West Vest s Temple emple MRS ms H. H AMERICAN FORK Hearts Heart's Haven laven c cannot publish recIpes rec reo Ipes pes that are a duplicate of ot commercial commercial commer commer- cial cia recipes We cannot tell either how nearly th the recipes on file may approximate tho those e lo sold d commercially |
