Show r HEAR HEARTS HEART'S rs HA YEN VEAl VENI VEN I Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters Questions ons and requests for lor advice should be addressed to MISS MIBS B BETTY BLAIR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE LAK Write legibly upon onI one side of the paper It is ls ary that you append the tho right name and address bU butt t these will be held in strict confidence and will not appear In print prIntS Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be an an an- Letters requiring personal persona reply must be accompanied by stamped se addressed sell d envelopes Ed THINKS BOYS nOYS BRAG Dear Miss 1 Blair Can you tell dl me vie me why hy It Is ii that boys bon bra brag brar so 10 much They hey brag brae of their conquest In love They bra brag bral bout their bootlegger as If he could tarnish furnish any better poison polson than the rest red of them They brag brae about their Job jobs Jobi They brar brag about their intelligence intelli gence nce and to prove the latter they t tell ll about outwitting somebody AS ASIf a as asIf If cunning meant intelligence Ive I've been looking for a lon long time for lor a aboy aboy aboy boy who didn't toot his own horn aUthe all aU the time linie and md I haven't found him yet d If n a fellow finds out that a girl doesn't like him he Immediately gets ets his hb umbrage up and begins to tell teU the girls girl's faults aloud to make mike it appear she was wai not good rood enough for him He De Just cant can't stand It to have anybody know that the girl doesn't like him Be De thinks every girl should fall faU over herself for lor his attention and affection Dore he be thinks he be can do anything he be wants to do and get ret away with 1 It He thinks It ft sho shouldn't concern con conS cern a girl rid how many wild oats he hehu has hu sown lown and reaped All AH he he has hu to todo todo todo do Is b to call It A a. a day on the wild oats and be a fit companion for an any girl Im I'm Just one girl Irl who expects her young man to b be str strong nr enough to forego the experience of s sowing his wild oats I expect as much of him as he docs does of me I I Iwonder wonder Iwonder who these boys bors think th they y are are anyway ODYS ODY'S GAL We always suspect there has been beena a lovers lover's quarrel when one sex s sets ts out to lamb as t the other It is while one is boiling bolling over with righteous I indignation that he sees but one side of a situation or of an individual But let the quarrel be patched up and all the thc faults aults are forgiven or disappear altogether I And as for sowing the wild oats I have h heard ard married women say they wished their husbands h had d sown theirs while they were still young to o 0 they would have the desire out ot of their systems before they married It would seem from such assertions that men must at some time in their lives frolic with the wild oat and that women prefer that they did so som In m their adolescence and then learned to b be bC their age ge when they marri married d. d Other women say that their husbands forin formed d the thc habit of sowing wild oats when they were young and could never break the habit And there are women Who ho declare the husbands have never sowed any oats at all And now the bragging tendency We know men brag We have always al ale ways thought women did so so too tco It Itis Itis Its is s only the very veIjo shy or the very humble who dont And they are withheld with held front from doing so by their fears or their inferiority complexes or their just a appraisement of themselves themselves' LOVER OF OJ VERSE VERSEL L Dear Pear Miss NISS Blair I 1 am a great lover of f verse and have hiye even trl tried d. d to write rJ elome some of my Dr own Are there any women other than Edna St. St Vincent 1 Millay y who stand land out ont In the world of f verse I should like to read some other women poets I like Miss 1 1 so 0 much Thank you WOULD BE Jm Im I'm glad your taste ranks as high as Edna St. St Vincent Millay Others are re Dorothy Parker Genevive Taggart Tag Tag- gar gart Helene Mullins Norma MilIa Millay You will like Sara love verse and much that Amy Lowell wrote There here cre arc are many young writers of ot verse whose most worthy beginnings beginnings begin you you should look up Phyllis PhylUs McGinley is a Utah girl whose verse is 13 appearing in worthwhile magazines magazines maga maga If you are fond of symbolical verse do not overlook overlook- the volumes by Sister Madeleva p I BETTER HUSBANDS D Dear r Miss Blair j I 1 read some lome articles articles' In your c column lamn be better wives but I have something to say about the men being better husbands I think this applies to a ajl 1 the husbands hUban who are are fathe fathers s They hey do not Dot have enough respect for forthe forthe forthe the Instinct In their wives for the preservation of their children Here Hero are some lome examples When mother says Bobby you must come comeIn comein In D and put a sweater weater on on The wind Ind Is cold father ther says ny Ah he's hes warm warD enough W We dress the kids kid too warm warm anyway anyway The result Is that Bobby lUys out In a eold April wind In fri his shirt sleeves and comes omes down with a cold Mother thinks Bobby should wear his rubbers s or 01 that the Ice is I. to too thin for him to go 10 skating or that tha be he shouldn't drive the car until he hebon knows bon more about It IL It and that he ve s a gun cun Father pooh all aU 11 these Ideas He lie says mother I Is making mollycoddles and sissies of his boys Mother gives elves In to k keep ep peace The Ice breaks breau perhaps or Bobby orDan or orDan orDan Dan lose an n eye through not knowing eDo enough enogh ch about guns emu but the great grea male has had his way His HI chIl children ren I have bAn lave not been mollycoddled They have ha ave merely been killed or ruined THE ONE I This may be true of some fathers jut but our know knowledge edge of some others bids ds us say a a. z word in their behalf behal We Ve know sons son who will vIll bear us up D in our our contention that there arc fathers who watch with the instinct ot of I a a woman the safety of their sons in all r respects s you have mentioned NOTE TO JUST CURIOUS Write rUe or call the the broadcasting stat sta sta- t tion on n over over which you hear the tle come come- diana lans you you mention for tor their real names NOTE TO TOW WAITING Write the superintendent of the hospital l In which you wish to do training for literature on the subject and full particulars REDUCING DESSERT Dear Miss fiu Blair Will y yOu yon n please me nie a recipe for fora a dessert to be eaten nun by hy guests all aU of whom are reducing reducing- Thank you yon Sherbets are arc an inviting dessert for those lose who must count their calories Snow pudding is an excellent example of a reducing dessert The yolks of the eggs are used for the sauce which is not served to those who are arc reducing The recipe follows One and one half tablespoons granulated granulated gelatine 4 tablespoons cold coldwater coldwater water 1 cup boiling water 12 2 cup lemon juice 23 3 cup granulated sugar whites 3 egg eggs Soften gelatine in cold water for forye five ye minutes Add boiling water and stir until dissolved Add sugar and lemon emon juice Place in ina a pan of ot ice ice- water ater until mixture is cool ool and syrupy syrupy Beat with egg beater until foamy Add whites of eggs beaten until stiff and dry and continue beat beat- lag ing ng mixture until it holds Its shape Turn Into a mold and chill for several hours and serve SECOND MARRIAGE Dear ear Miss Blair I am to be married a second time My y mother thinks It would be all for me to married with the wedIng wed wed- ding Ing ring I already have han What do you rou ou think about this It s seems ems to me met It t would not be the the right thing to do o. o Thanking you O ST ELMO By all means follow your own Intuition in in- tuition in this case case It would be shocking to the Uie sensibilities e of lof most people eople to be married to the second husband with the first husbands husband's ring I feel quite sure the husband to would resent the idea |