| Show 1 1 BETTY BLAIR I Letters and nd questions for this department should be t tt to toMils t Miss Mils Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write Writ only I on on on side cf th Ui paper It Is necessary to append your name and andI address but the these are in n confidence and will not h k published I r. r Dear Miss Blair Stair This Is s the fist first time I have tried t to enter your cozy corner but I am aman 1 an awful fix About two years ago o I met a lady about 35 years old We have become great pals and go about together quite a bit My mother other however objects to this saying that as I am only a girl of 61 ri should find ether cher companions I do have loads of other friends but somehow I seem to enjoy going places with her more than I do with my other friends I know that if I stopped being with her I should miss her dreadfully because she he is such a dear and understanding understand understand- ing friend So I am asking you what to do Shall I 1 stop going with her altogether altogether alto alto- gether or just disregard mothers mother's objections when I know she d does es I not nat understand DISTRACTED j To a 8 grea great extent t. t Distracted d your our mother Is right I believe If It you ou only ony saw this woman friend Occasionally your our mother would not object and there need be no feelings hurt Cant Can't you gradually decrease the number of times you ee see her In a month Not that there slightest objection to the thenan nan herself it herself It II h in sl simply i ly that youth should be with youth Your our statement that you prefer her company com corn panY pan pany already to that of your own friends Is sufficient evidence that well your our mothers mothers mother's objections are founded Maturity of necessity is more sophisticated cleverer more ore enter enter- And most older pe people de- de watching the reactions of oC youngsters so BO so their compan company com corn pan pany asa sort of stimulus reveling reveling revel revel- ing Irig In n the freshness of oC their point of oC view vew etc On the other hand a ayoung ayoung young oung person who sees much of au ari an oId older r one I 1 mean as a pal is likely likel to become exceedingly critical of his or r her own friends impatient of their shortcomings IN COMPARISON COM COM- PARISON with one who has outgrOwn outgrown out out- grown the little crudities of oC allou all Iou ou people You will find your your- self el becoming bored with the thoughts expressed from a young oung mind because you have become ac accustomed accustomed ac- ac to the more brilliant or at I least more experienced ones of ot our r older friend You will wUl become Intolerant and andou you ou will grow older more find matured before you iho should td D D you realize this Cant you appreciate your our mothers mother's ht attitude She probably thinks a lot of or your our our woman friend herself but bt 35 is not the proper ropel asso associate ia e for 16 at least not not a pal or or churl Keep her friendship but consider it from a A. different point of C view and make h the most of oC your YOUNG friends Dear Miss Blair We have an orchestra which we Six and have named th the Rusty we are very much in need of a good goodE E Flat Fiat A AVio Ako lo saxophone player who is is' not over 14 or under 12 W We wanT a boy who could practice twice a week and one who doesn't live very far away Will you help helpas helpas' as as' Jet our sax player by putting this this letter Jn in Hearts Heart's Haven Please tell them to call Hyland 1103 With thanks from us all 4 RUSTY SIX 1 a 1 11 An fellows You rou have hay very definite Ideas about what yount yount you jj nt haven't you ou But were we're wishing hing you luck ij Dear Miss Blair I am writing to ask you you you- if you youcan youcan youcan can please tell me what is good to toU U tp r l gray hair dark or its n natural tural color again BETTY Lehi If I could tell teU you you OU that Betty Bett n and guarantee It would not be a harmful preparation Id I'd never h have lve ye to work again My fortune would be made There are a number number num nurn- ber her of preparations on the market that will do It and in many cases little harm Is done but so far unless unless un un- un less Jess you ou use a vegetable coloring colorin such as walnut or henna you'll be running the risk of skin Infections with any mineral hair restorative Wh Why not get your hair Into perfect per per- feet fett physical condition make malte it 1 losy o s sand and luxuriant Gray hairIs hair Js Is beautiful when It If t Is well cared t pr t- t tand and it softens the lines of the mature or ageing face where h oona enna or brown dye de will bring out oute e err ery hard feature Im I'm printing a number of ot letters all inquiring ll Cut ut hair so you you ou follow them through the column and you ou may maytI mayre tI some ideas re 1 Dear Miss Blair Would you please b be he 5 Co 0 kind as tp tell me what to 10 do for fallino hair I was g gassed in France F and since irH e then I have ber berm pm ber m nearly nealy bald I have massaged with olive two vo years and ad dont don't seem to get any ny results I am sire you youcan can give can give me some information as my wife has often written to you advice and we H v v Drof erl by bv your corner corne corner corner- Thal awfully f for fi r a apy aimy information yo you c can ive me G. G GM M. M Would that I might offer oHer you some suggestion that would provat prove a at SURE SUItE cure cure for falling hair have you visited a scalp specialist It Jle or she might be able to diagnose diaGnose find nose your our particular case and jest the specific difficulty HoW v Is mr r general health If that is not best your hair will show the he effects Do you ou always s wear a hat when f yI are outdoors I If so lose it or forget it it or or do something des des- At any rate get ret in the habit of going bareheaded winte ati aM summer so o that the air and ands s J V will III have an opportunity the hest best of all t to wor work cures agents Scientists say that hair was grown rown to be Tie a protection for forth forth forth th skin against the direct rays o of ot sunshine bine and cold etc Since man taken has to wearing AIRTIGHT Ij head coverings always alwa's out of of doors and sometimes even In the house Nature sees no necessity for tor supplying supplying supplying sup sup- plying him with unnecessary hair so it gradually disappears Go bareheaded If It yo you yoa dont don't want to have a hair treatment at a commercial shop every few days why not mal make e a bargain with your wife you'll you'll massage her scalp an ant and l brush her hair an hour or r so l if shell she'll do the same ame for you Id I'd almost be willing to wager that if iC you'd follow follow follow fol fol- fol- fol low these suggestions Conscientiously and if there is nothing seri serious us the matter otherwise within with with- in three months time your hair would how show a marked Improvement and within a little more time you wouldn't have so much to worry about in going bald Dear Miss Blair Since I have hove had my hair bobbed its it's terribly oily and being beins a blonde it is very unbecoming Could you tell me what to do to get rid of the oil Thanking you W. W B. B TOURIST You wash it too frequently ably abl And too dont don't you do a lot lotmore lotmore lotmore more combing and brushing and fixing generally than you did when it was long This may have caused an over secretion of oC oil Inthe in inthe inthe the cells and you must work worl toward a normal condition again Shampoo your hair not oftener than once in three weeks and In between times keep your scalp clean and I remove the oil that accumulates by rubbing all over the surface of oC the scalp with bits of cotton saturated with witch hazel or with a a. good tonic which does poes not contain oil but one which Is refreshing ing and stimulating Brush your h hair lr to remove the dust every morning and as you brush for Zor each stroke rub the brush on ona on a wet towel so that the bristles will remain remain re remain re- re main clear of oC dust and oil and will willbe willbe willbe be able to collect these from th the hair Dear Miss Blair Could you direct me to some re reliable reliable reliable re- re liable means of stopping a very bad case of an oily secretion of the hair which is causing my hair to fall out I can ca'n can wash my hair hairat at night and ina in ina a day or two it is just as oily I have tried several things as treatment treat ment but none seems to do much good Perhaps you could direct me meto meto meto to some reliable specialist on scalp diseases in Salt Lake who could correct correct correct cor cor- this trouble J. J V. V C. C Bingham There are a a. number of oC specialists here 3 J. J V. V C. C and if you will telephone telephone telephone tele tele- phone me you ou are in town Ill I'll be glad to give you the time names Nevertheless I believe that your our trouble might be largely corrected if you would follow the directions I have given W. W B. B TOURIST and and stop wearing a hat as I 1 told G. G M. M Your head has little opportunity to get light and air and how many scalps ever feel teel the sunshine Its It's a wonder we dont don't have more trouble trouble trouble trou trou- ble instead of less Give these treatments treatments treatments treat treat- ments a fair trial and dont don't put a ahat ahat ahat hat on your head for two months and then if your Our difficulties are not solved write me again Yes I know your friends are likely to ridicule you unmercifully if you ou go about carrying your hat but re remember remember remember re- re member that it is always IGNORANCE IGNORANCE IGNORANCE IGNO IGNO- RANCE that scoffs So So make your choice which choice which do you prefer hair or the conventional approval of blind custom Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell me how much I should weigh I am 5 feet fee 3 inches in height and I weigh pounds I Iam Iam Iam am 20 years old Also I have dark rings under my eyes almost always Can you tell me what causes them 1 I have plenty of sleep Thank you BUBS Tour Your weight should be approximately approximately approximately pounds Dont Don't let it slip slipup slipup slipup up on you you- You need more exercise in the fresh air and more fruit and green vegetables in your our diet Am I not correct Walk Valk three miles every everyday everyday da day take fifteen mf minutes lUtes of of- exercise exer exer- cise bending cise-bending bending stretching riding a b bicycle cycle In in the air while lying o on your back etc ald etc and eat an orange apple or grapefruit a carrot a vegetable salad and drink a glass of oC milk every day of your life not one of those ALL of them to be In Included included included in- in in the days menu and the rings will not last long Dear Waiting I have haye your our letter about getting work on Saturdays and and after after school If I have an any calls cans Ill I'll remember you but you OU would meet with more success if would register with witha a a. regular empl employment bureau bureau- WHICH HEARTS HEART HAVEN IS NOT oT |
