| Show hh I f om 1 BETTY R Ra a- a b I Letters end and questions for this department should bo be jod to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Havon Salt Lake Telegram Writs Write only on one side aide cf tho paper It is necessary to append your name and address but these ar are held In confidence and will not e published 4 f Dear Miss Blair f I I read a piece in Hearts Heart's Haven 1 Sunday that was very true at least east it was to me Now I 1 think she said she would like a friend Kindly tell her to write her little I note to me as I need help about laws Jin-laws laws In-laws or I would be very glad to hear what you have to write me about abot mother in I believe t tI writers writer's name was Want Vant to Be De fondly THINKING ALL DAY It t 1 she writes In In answer to jj q lilote Ill I'll be glad to give berit berit ber her mr it address I believe bellEve however it at t you ou u did not read her letter re lY as as' It was In answer yei ans to 0 toi i of others that had been tinted before Iv A to your query about laws In mat at do you want to hear about Jem em ln It would be very foolish to tos ress s Ideas covering covering the whole hole Weld but DUt If you have a specific i bbl m n to solve well we'll do the best 11 w we e can to help you Dear Miss Blair f Here I come coma to you with a broken J heart cart My y husband left me about two tiNo weeks week ago telling me ma that he didn't love me any more that an another another another an- an other girl had come into his life This wa was was surely a shock to me He had been g going ing out for over a year to dances but I trusted him T didn't t think he would deceive me 1 i Well dear I grieved over him for fore fora a II while then I decided I would get out and get a job For over a week l row ow I 1 have walked the streets looking lookIng looking look look- ing for work but have had no luck I have two children to support and nd unless I find work soon I dont don't Inow what will become of us I was a stenographer before I was married but with all this trouble on on n my mind I dont don't think that I could uld hold a job as a stenographer Vet er r. r And anyway I would much rather r-ather have a jo job where I could have ave my children with me j a i Another thing Miss Blair would it Bo 60 wise to get a divorce It would Just give him a chance to marry her and I dont don't believe I could live and know he was married to another I 1 s I hope this is not too long r i have read answers for a long longtime time and but this is my first venture Into nto your corner e B BROKEN HEARTE Oh Oh B. B IL Why didn't you Ito Ro o oa a long ong to those dances What 1 do two kwo people marry for fOl unless they ire tue exceedingly fond of each other otherl and nd l' l want to be together to together to have Jt rear good times together and to it up with some of the difficult t things of life Ufe together But since he has gone and things t are are as they are I suppose it does doe i r. r tery gery little good to look 1001 back at atthe r the he mistakes of the past and toe he sorry orry about them You are very wise to stop grieving and turn to he idea of work That will go a long away toward restoring your our peace of mind and at least a mea mca 4 of happiness Dont Don't be ells ells- L because you haven't found work work worl immediately You should jj l with the various employment employ employ- ment bureaus the bureaus the Relief society Bishops Bishop's building Neighborhood i House 3 38 North Seventh West Test the thc Y W. W C. C A. A Third East and Third Sou South th streets streets anti ancl you vou will J be sure to find something to au Within a short time After Atter you are on your you feet fi financially fl- fl and have decided on your you t stand In connection with your you r errant husband you should begin to 1 plan definitely just what you u Intend to malts make of your future You'll have your our two children t to o care for fOI and educate and your ors own on n development Je and happiness happiness- to think thin k of just of-just Just what are you going to d do o or I for both Didn't you rou like your you r work in the business world If you ou reel feel fee that you are not fitted for that then you rou should specialize along alone some ome other line domestic science 1 If It f you vou like Specialization is necessary sary sarv alY these days if you would take yourself out of or the work by the day class and really make malte a a. career caree for yourself I 1 am afraid that your attitude to toward toward toward to- to ward your l husband unless you and he decide decide that you can cnn adjust your our lives Ito to Ii each other again will only bring yo you u sorrow and worry Ithe If It he is not to be a part of your life from now on and it would seem that he has definitely n ade up tip his mind to that you OU should l put all thought of him in connection with yourself right out of your exist ence enee Of course he should be compelled compelled compelled com com- to help helIt you support the children children chil chil- dren and and this would probably be easier if you took legal action and got your divorce If he is the kind of a man that leaves a wife and two children Inthe in inthe inthe the manner in which you rou outline you are fortunate to have him leave now while yo you are still young enough to make male a success of your future instead of years later when you are aro are practically helpless to pick pickup up the loose en ends s of life and go goon goon I Ion on by yourself Dont Don't lose heart and dont don't get theres there's a lot of happiness in store for tor you still Dear A. A R. R C C. Will VIII you please telephone me for forthe forthe forthe the information you wish concerning concerning concerning concern concern- ing employment agencies and borrowing money All your questions are of the type that are better better- answered in person Dear Miss Blair Will you kindly inform me if there is a manufacturer of hair or other kinds of brushes in Utah I will be very grateful for the mation J J. J T. T W. W The Broom Droom company company com com- pany of Murray l Utah is the only company we know of manufacturing brooms or brushes in in Utah There I Iare are a number of manufacturers' manufacturers agents and representatives here if you OU are interested in an any but the local lo local local lo- lo cal business De Dear r Miss Blair May Flay I enter your cozy corner corner Would you pease give me the particulars particulars particulars par par- about getting a patent foran for foran an invention where invention where to write and andall andall andall I all the details concerning it Also AIso how can I J go about having somo some somo of music published that I have composed Where should I write and all about this too My friends like my music and think the I pieces are great hits for dancing I hope you do not think I am trying to make a splash all of a sudden but wouldn't it be both fun and funny if I did Ha Ha- Ha I thank you WA NA NO It would be splendid Id I'd say but to insure your getting the profits in either eHhel case Id I'd suggest that you get rill ill the information available before going ahead with either You ask mp me to give sive it to you I cant can't but I Ican Ican Ican can tell you where such information ii stay may ly he be had When you realize that volumes have been published on hoth both subjects and even then all the information has not been given understand my word cant If you vou cant can't get a copy off of the March WRITERS WRITER'S DIGEST at your ocal book counter Id I'd suggest that yoU ou send to one ane pt oft the Salt Sait Lake I stores stole and get et it also get the last WRITERS WRITER'S l IO MONTHLY Both of these con contain tain articles on verse erse and song wi writing explaining the practical practical pac end of the game and pointing ou out t suite some of the obstacles s to be he en- en C 1 1 II I should never advise a apel aper per pel on to attempt to break into any anywise wise of the writing game without f first studying some of or the trade papers explaining markets and marketing mar mar- Writing may be considered h hy by the uninitiated as purely artistic but if you write for money which I seems scenic to be the aim of most you must know the BUSINESS quite as thoroughly a as if you were a salesman salesman salesman sales sales- man in lii any other line Just as an In example how example how far fat do you think a silk salesman would get if he tried to sell silk to a grocery store or a hardware merchant Getting something patented Is also complicated and if f you really wish to make something out of it it I Id I'd advise you ron to get in touch with witha a reliable patent attorney He ces up on patents and can tel tell you about the possibilities In yours ours You Yau cant can't sa say that you have invented something new until you know what similar things are In the files In the patent office at Washington It may cost you a little to find out outa a out these things but It will wm save you a great deal In the long run It is not getting a thing patented that will make money for you but it is in getting getting- your invention before be before before be- be fore the public having it and advertised and so on and you will nill save both time and money If you get in touch with an expert DC Dear A ANXIOUS Your idea seems to be ver very practicable pr-ac- pr practicable and you are to give up one line of or work entirely until you are fully established in the theother other The two types of work worl should give you enough variety that you would enjoy both of them Just that much more Dear Miss Mica BI Blair ir Wi Will Wil you please tell me what you know of the gland operation Has Hasit it ever been a success Who performs performs performs per per- forms it and how much does it cost Or could you refer me to someone who would know Also can you give ive me the address of the author of of the Helen and Warren stories Thank you MRS H. H W. W R. R IIa Have ve you read Gertrude Atherton's Atherton's Atherton's Ather- Ather tons ton's Black Oxen If you are in interested interested in- in in the gland treatment you'd enjoy that Yes it has been successful but it takes a skilled medical man to give ghe treatment in fact one who has specialized sp cl along those lines This work Is still practically practically practically in embryo and very few rew physicians physicians physicians phy phy- and surgeons have attempted attempt attempt- ed it it A few Americans have experimented experimented experimented ex ex- but most of this work wor-k has been done abroad and the ex expense expense expense ex- ex pense is Is at present beyond the income InCome in income In- In come of the average man I say sayman sayman sayman man because many specialists claim that the gland treatment is not likely to be very successful with women Ask your local physician physician physician phy phy- to recommend you to an eastern eastern eastern east east- ern specialist You might write to the Johns Hopkins university fa famous fa- fa inous medical school of af Baltimore Md for further information Mabel label Herbert Urner Mrs Lathrop Lathrop La- La Colgate Harper is the author au author author au- au thor of The Married Life Lifo of Helen and Warren and her address Is No 1 I Gramercy Park New e York C City t N. 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