Show to b i GWit I BETTY c I Letters and questions for this department should be be addressed to I I Miss Betty Blair BIair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only I II I on one ono side aido of the paper It Is necessary to append your name and I I address but these are held in confidence and wil will not be published o c. Dear Miss Blair This is the first time I have come cometo cometo cometo to you for help and I hope I am welcome I have been going with a fellow for two months and he tells tel me that he loves me mo more moro than any girl in the world and wishes he had met me five years ago Now Miss Blair I love him dearly and would do anything to get him but he is MARRIED Shall he do this I am only 18 years old and he gets me to leave home and go with him out of town LOVESICK 0 Oh little girl If Jt I Just had bad you here bere to talk to I might be able to tomake tomake tomake make you OU see and understand a few things Dont Don't you suppose that he told his wife the same things he Is la telling you you five five years ago and ago and that five years from now or In less time timeS he will be telling some other little girl the same story What will have become of you ou by then l If you listen to him and let him him influence you to do da the things he wishes he will 1 ruin your life and you ar are far too young to look forward forward forward for for- ward to such a future There is only one thing possible for or you to do do and that Is FOR Is-FOR- FOR FORGET GET that such a person ever ex ex- ex- ex isted If this man really loved you with the right kind of love the ast last things in the world he would let you do doare are the very things he is sug- sug 0 gesting to you now Dishonesty cheating possible disgrace are not the foundations upon which to build buiLt happiness Both of you are probably probably probably ably infatuated but after a few short weeks or at the most months your dream would show Itself It Itself Itself It It- self for what it is Is-a Is a nightmare tinged with potential tragedy at least for you Look ahead Just one year with YOUR EYES OPEN and I believe you'll tell this married man that the I welcome sign is no longer visible at your home Id I'd like to say m more re but but but- Dear Betty Blair I have written to you before and was very much pleased with my answers May I come again We take The Telegram but last Sunday the Spinsterhood story did not ap api appear ap- ap i in the pear peal paper and the same was true this Sunday Are they cutting I this story out of the paper on Sunday Sun Sun- day or why is it May I ask another Someone wrote to you the other day and said that she had a dandy recipe for an egg less Christmas cake Would it be asking too much of you to print this recipe for me I will let you know if I J have good luck tuck Hoping Santa Claus is very good to you this Christmas R. R N. N M. M There are only six Instalments of Spinsterhood printed each week so Its omission on Sunday has not been a mistake Evidently you are enjoying this serial We hope so I have printed your request for this recipe and hope that our reader will send it in to us now that she knows we are anxious to have i It I. As soon as I receive it Ill I'll print the directions direction in Hearts Heart's Haven Thank you for your good wishes for Christmas The sain same to you Dear Miss Blair What is Rudolph Valentino's ad address ad ad- dress Thank you A VALENTINO FAN Just at present Rudolph Is faking a vacation but if It you wish to write him In care of ot the Famous Players- Players Lasky studio Vine street Hollywood Holly Holly- wood Cal they will be glad to forward forward for tor- ward it for you or hold it until his return Dear Miss Betty Will you please give me some in information in- in formation concerning Is it proper when a girl is engaged for her to make the dates We have been having an argument argument ment over this and wish you would settle it for Us ils B BUDGE U DG E. E Do you mean should the responsibility along those lines be shifted automatically as it were from the theman's theman's theman's mans man's shoulders to yours when you become engaged If It so the answer is decidedly IS-decIdedly not On the the other ther hand however your being engaged does simplify things to some ex ex- ex tent You may feel teel a little more privileged to suggest something you wish to do You will probably in invite invite invite in- in vite your fiance out to your home to dinners or suppers that you would not have done before the en engagement engagement engagement en- en and you may occasionally occasionally occasion occasion- ally any tell ten him him before he asks upon which evenings It will be most convenient convenient con con- for him to call callS But otherwise otherwise otherwise other other- wise I cant can't see how the situation is altered in the least before or after atter I your engagement You iou are still the same sam individuals with the same tastes a arid and d habits The only cb change has been that you have decided to let the world in on your secret that secret that each of Y you U has decided t that at you prefer the other one to any other man or girl of your acquaintance If It you had said an occasional date dater instead of ot THE dates the answer would have been very simple Dear Miss Blair Blar Will you plea please e tell me wh where re one can learn to be a Jn in Salt Lake ANXIOUS If It you ou have noticed some of ot the candy manufacturers' manufacturers windows lately lately lately late late- ly y you u will have noticed that they wanted help Id I'd suggest that you apply for work at the different fac Lac- tories and go In as an apprentice if It you have an opportunity Dear Miss Blair Biard I l m am m comi coming g to you to help me solve two difficult problems First I I sho should ld like t to know what I co could ld give my father f for r Christmas He dO does S not seem seem to appreciate anything anything any any anything thing unless I make it I should prefer not notto to give give him hi im handkerchiefs handkerchiefs handkerchiefs chiefs and I I am too young to give him a tie or or shirt He has everything everything every every- thing for his room I have thought and thought Miss Blair and I 1 cant can't think of a thing N Now ow for the tho second I have a avery a. a very large lump lumpton on the third finger of my right hand fr from m writing so much and although I do not press my pencil hard it swells up during school semester Thank hank you so much for your trouble PUZZLED Lets Let's discuss the last question first Have you tried using rub rubber er I around your pencil so th that t it will b softer on your finger Inger You might get an old penholder with a rubber section near the pen en end slip this ot off and put it on your pencil This should remove some of the pressure and friction from the hard wood It would be wise too to shift the position of ot your pencil Try writing writing writ writ- writing ing with the pencil held bet between een the second and and third fingers in instead instead instead in- in stead of between the thumb and finger and then see that the pressure pressure pressure pres pres- sure comes on the end of your f finer finger fin fin- in- in ger gez- instead of f on the side This wil J the point pf of contact and should help If Ie these suggestions do not lear clear up the swelling you should s see ace e a physician Immediately l tely because there may be something more serious the matter and It never pays to neglect a lump on on your flesh ANYWHERE How about making your our father a box of his favorite candy or stuff sturt some some dates Hed He'd appreciate your work on on either of these and they'd be delicious Does Docs he play golf It If f so make him khaki a or canvas bag in which to keep his balls You might cover a box with cretonne in which he could keep hi his ties or oi handkerchiefs in order in his drawer Why not persuade him himo to o give you a few suggestions or get get your mother to find out what he would like Dear Miss Blair Blai What would be the value of a aGerman German Reich bank note for marks issued in 1922 Thank you J. J JB B. B I believe that I answered this question before except that it concerned concerned concerned con con- a larger amount Did you miss that days day's column For a a. million mimon marks of the new issue the Hie exchange value was approximately 24 cents The old ban bank notes have no value whatsoever whatsoever and and if they did your marks would be a lIttle Ittle over 1 cent Dear Miss Blair I have made a very pretty and would like to sell it Could you please tell me where the Womans Woman's Exchange is located and also any any other place you think I might sell it t I will this very much and thank you BETTY Mrs Bennett of trie tle Art Shop and Womans Woman's Ex Exchange hange 15 East Broadway would handle handiest it for you There Is also a Womans Woman's Exchange In n Sugarhouse I believe th that t it would be better for you to c come comento me Into into nto town and bring your work with you It Is Just possible that one of the he art departments Ip In the local stores might be willing to handle It for or you but such a decision would be individual and would be only after your work had been been examined ex ex- f t f i i t |