| Show F WOMEN ar We o. o S' S 0 0 TI KAT lIEEN N K KAYE YE i for or Women omen and ten who w want to fo I i t uries ie submitted to the are limited to two es ions ons each All AU queries must be written by pen or typewriter d Carry arry the full name and address of the writer also name or iti ls by which the answer is to be identified in the column Do fiend fend stamps or self-addressed self envelopes for such ns as it is deemed necessary to answer by private letter supplies 11 Ube be provided by the Queries will be be answered n nearly arly as possible in the order received j failure to see an answer Ilbe he lie issue means that it will appear later Communications not written in compliance with the rules of Department will be ignored Oear Doan ro Miss Kaye I leave been reading your column n Telegram for fop some time I find it very helpful in many ways 1 here 1 is some very good advie ad ad- vie i it It seems you can give any- any g anyone asks for so allow tie 31 to ask for something 1 am a young man 26 yea years s of complexion and good nature I have some property property- estate state valued at about 16 J. J Now Miss Kaye I 1 am not one rf those OS young men who can an go ut a resort and butt in as they jaU II h. h it I dont don't think It proper to o I do not belong to any r orders erl or clubs of any kind where et acquainted and do not M now many young folks I would i to meet some young lady obeTt ob ob- eTt marriage Can you help me went want i. i someone to love and somene some some- ne to love me and enjoy life with ne 0 Please do what you can for forA forA A LONELY ELY BOY tere Just when hen I was ready to ex exi ex- ex with Shakespeare What a aceTo i lna im t ceTo 0 work is a man How noble reason reason How infinite in faculty t form r n and moving how express and 1 In action how like anel an anel el elt In apprehension how like ai a al l i i The he beauty of the world The ragon of animals and then come j mere to-mere mere woman with this cry rrue true l loneliness is the whip that i v yes ves many an on one to desperation But we remember that we are all li ke all 2 all created social beings then thenis is that we realize that If WE ar are ars ely so is our neighbor and since Is a thing that may be de- de oyed by certain combinations why discouraged It should be easily I when we are all agreed that at t we want and need most is each I ier should ter-should should it not Vh Sonny every woman in the i wants first of all whether all whether she I the affectionate d deJon deion de- de the not ws' ws ws it or ot not Jon ion J of some on one person That is t essential to any happy life for tor woman therefore since you ou with others are demand why despair It is only e have something for tor which r re Is no demand or want some- some ng that Is not to be had that we wed wed d feel daunted even for tor a a. mo- mo nt how fow here Is the solution first of all an you must analyze your- your fook f Jook to your own good and bad Personality is the most im- im m- m tant thing in all an the world If i rs rs is right then you ou are well on oni i Ii If t way If It It Is not rl right ht then i you must set about making it right A likable personality may be cultivated cultivated and must be if you haven't it Now when you ar are able to pass well with yourself yourself when when you can stand up and face yourself and say If I were a girl I should be attracted to this man why we are ready to present you ou To meet women one must first meet men so I suggest that you ou become a a. member of at least two clubs or lodges that you become active active so so socially daily as well as otherwise That you make the most of the friends you meet and in closing let me give you this one thought to take with you Do not flatter yourself that you can reap happiness from others without also giving it Also That you can be and have what you will that you can qualify In spite of bad crops high water or orthe orthe orthe the measles that tha you can hold on until failure turns to victory you can make your our courage to rise as difficulties difficulties difficulties thicken IK IP YOU'LL KEEP YOUR TOUR FACE TOWARD THE SETTING SETTING SETTING SET SET- TING SUN and determine it If you OU care to start a a. self Improvement improvement improvement improve Improve- ment move come coma in to see me and Ill I'll help you to a a. number of shortcuts short snort cuts Dear Miss Kaye You have told us many times to tobe tobe tobe be dignified dignified above above everything else to be dignified All well and good but please now tell us what is dignity dignity dig dig- digg and just how bow we wo are to 9 go g about cultivating it as you say Dear Miss Kaye please make this plain for us for we dont don't all have havethe havethe havethe the insight and understanding of these things that you do and even though we would be apt pupils are sometimes unable to follow you I will say though that this is one of the most wonderful things about you You do talk to us You dont don't write at us I thank you an and 1 hope you'll youl an answer an an- ewer soon ESTH ESTHER ER Thank you my dear for tor bringing up this question I mean always to be beI I helpful but of ot necessity must be more or less brief However brevity shall shan be sacrificed In the cause of clearness If If need be It lt is true that A ANY ANT Y girl can be dig dig- If she could not the would not Insist for tor to do so would uld be only cruel You Tou never found me saying that every woman should be CONSISTENT did you Well now to be serious let me see Just how I can tell you what Is dignity In a very few words so that there will willbe willbe be no doubt of its application I behove believe be- be hove lieve this should be clear enough Dignity consists in diverting vital en energy energy en- en erg ergy from your animal spirits to your brains In letting your emotions originate originate originate nate In your heads rather than your heels And aga h let me repeal repeat Men tIen LIKE amusing girls they LOVE dignified dignified dignified dig dig- girls Dear Miss Kaye a Not long ago I read in a magarine maga maga- zinc zine-I rine I dont don't know what it was now now now-a now now-a a pretty little poem I dont don't even know the name but I hope you read it too and that you'll remember better than I I. I It was about a person who was weary oh so weary and every verse ended with something about wishing wishing wish wish- ing to be your little girl tonight If you can help me to get a trace of this again I know you will I believe you have done cult things even though this does seem a lot to ask I thank you in advance and wish you the best that can come cometo cometo cometo to us in this life and the reward you deserve in the next MOTHER OS I had read the poem had liked it loo too but had not tiled filed it It so It took me some little time to locate it for I did not remember the title or the author either So I Just thumbed through till I found it and here it is WEARY By Mary Adams Stearns I am weary oh so 50 weary of f the worlds world's great noise and strife My heart healt and spirit ache dear from battling so with life My hands are weak from toiling unfitted unfitted unfitted un un- un- un fitted for the fight And I long with all my soul to be your little girl tonight No o helper friend nor comrade with Judgment good and true j Xo Noone o. o one to share the worries or cares that come to you This single night I 1 ask you from sundown sundown sundown sun sun- down to the light To kiss me me dear and let me be your little girl tonight A little girl whose heart aches whose life lite seems all an gone wrong Whose hose eyes ees are dim with teardrops whose lips have lost their song Just put your arms about me and and kiss me oer o'er and oer o'er And let me be be dear sweetheart your little girl once more I Tomorrow Ill I'll be stronger and brave to fight again Your tenderness and love dear will drive away the pain So safe sate within thy bosom Ill I'll rest till morning light And be he as you have called me your yourI tonight little girl I |
