Show Come Cornela- Cornela to to- to UFA VEN H EA EAR R 4 T S HA 1 With Betty Blair Affairs of at the heart and kindred problems ONLY will b be discussed in this department department- Letters questions and end requests for advice should b b. b addressed t to MISS BE BETTY rrY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TElEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side of ot tho the paper It Is necessary that you append tho right name anti and address addre but will be held In strict confidence and Md wit will by no m means appear In print Letters requiring personal reply must bo accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes Ed S J SEPARATION Dear DellI Miss 1 Blair I have been a a. resident of your city and state only one week and already dread am coming for or the advice so man many others receive f 4 My question Is this Does s and the making makinI of new flew friends destroy love I am a girl rid 19 years ears of age and have come 2000 miles from my native state to make my home here with my parents par par- I have left behind the most wonderful bo boy I have ever known He Is 20 years old and represents my highest Ideals I have havo gone with him six aix months and from the time I first firstI I met ct him did not daU dat other fellows r I I We had many ma good times together and from the time we first met saw each h other almost every night lie He has ha been very ery congenial not only with me but with ith my my- parents also Before I left he told me I was the only girl he had ever er lov loved d and that he was certain In his heart I was wa the only one he would ever care for He lie promised to come como and s see e me rue in the fall taU Then if we still care for each other 3 year from this fall as much as we do now we will be married There Is no doubt In m my mind as to my absolute and enduring love for him But with this distance between n us us and the months that must intervene before we can even cven sec see each other do you think he will vill begin to think more snore of some other girl than he docs does of me mc Can two young people I 10 loving lovinggood lovinggood 1 good times as we do remain steadfast steadfast steadfast stead stead- fast In their love for each other despite dc dc- spite the distance and separation TRUE BLUE Your doubt your fear Is the first firsts s seed ed sown that may germinate into the actual harvest of disloyalty should the circumstances appear conducive to the ripening of the grain With no such doubt no fear how could the temptation you to let the affections of another supplant these of ot your Ideal The same is true for him The mind that is a closed chamber sheds thoughts of disloyalty as easily as a steel vault resists breakage from the elements clements without L You might both continue to have a good time but as asfor asfor asfor for it proving anything but a good time so o far as your feeling for each I other is concerned depends entirely on whether or not you have the closed mind in this regard People believe e what they want to believe The mind open to suggestion suggestion suggestion tion is the one that most easily follows follows follows fol fol- fol- fol lows the path of least resistance fLit ut has no definite goal set for its itself ell One individual might fall for the least temptation another be Immune to whatever might assail People have loved a lifetime and had separations longer than the one you contemplate Are you two of this same caliber GARDEN HANDS Dear Miss Blair I have been terribly upset during I his this last spring because of a number of things affecting my ray family life I planted a small garden in my back backyard backyard yard ard thinking to divert my mind from trouble by working in the soil and helping helpin it ft to produce something beautiful The has worked in a away away way a but I it has left my hands in dreadful condition Can COLn you ou tell me what to do by way of prevention and cure Many thanks GRUB WORM Getting the thc hands and bare feet feeL too into the soil Is considered a great reat soother for frayed nerves Were We're glad your theory has worked Grub worm If the are scraped across a cake of at moist soap until the space under the nails is full lull just lie He- fore lore digging the thc soap will vilI keep the dirt from the nails and after the thc digging digging digging dig dig- ging is over a nail brush and water Will soon remove the soap An inexpensive hand lotion for tor softening and whitening the hands is made of lemon juice and md glycerin Use enough of the lemon juice to cut the glycerin until an fluid is achieved about two lemons to an ounce of glycerin A few lew drops of ammonia or carbolic acid added In in- creases the tho whitening properties THOSE CARELESS BOYS Dear Miss 1 Blair Blaire We e are two girls who are coming coming- to you oa for a little advice We have been going steady with two boys for quite awhile We have hav even talked of marriage and they claim they care carea s. s great deal for us It has just been recently that when wilen they make a date they haven't been particular about keeping it They come back the next night and dont don't think anything about abou It ft but we are Just coming to our senses lenses Please advise us what to doM do M lii 4 1 AND N If Let the leven continue to work am amby and by and by you will come to your full ful senses and demand an explanation You will receive exactly the thc treatment treat- treat ment from these boys that you de de- de mand 4 But remember your demands cant can't all be made in words There must be good background established in your own characters and behavior or else words making demands will wil fall lall very flat Perhaps you ou arc arc- arca area a little previous ii in discussing marriage with these boys even though you have been going steady with them Bo Boys s 's are scarce scared away when girls become too serious and want to settle down Lay of off aU aUthe the marriage theme for awhile Show interest in a few other friends yourselves yourselves yourselves your your- selves not to the extent that you break appointments with your presen present friends but man manage ge to sandwich dates In between Your appreCiative tive powers for what is really fine In others becomes whetted thereby Your You experience becomes enlarged Allow the he boy friends the same privileges as those hose which you claim for yourselves If f the boys dates be sure there is a reason for it iL Perhaps that rca rca- son on lies In yourselves ourselves Take inventory to o find out NOTE TO IN INA A Send a stamped s self addressed envelope en en- for our circular Games for Children This will help you ou solve your neighborhood playground lem em THEA TREATMENT Tl FOR BIRTHMARKS Dear Miss 4 Blair I have a a. very unsightly reddish colored colored cot col col- col ored birthmark on my neck and jaw jaw- bone one Can anything be bc done to re remove remove remove re- re move this If so I will be grateful to you fo for telling me mc about it H J. J The rather prevalent idea lidea that birthmarks are arc the result of prenatal prenatal pre pre- natal impressions is discredited by scientific men No one knows why these hese marks appear on certain Some of them have been successfully suc- suc treated by skin specialists cauterization with acids ray X-ray and radium are re among the methods used Those who vho have birthmarks should ask a ph physician to recommend a reliable specialist to treat these blemishes SIGNS OF ENCROACHING AGE Dear Miss 4 Blair I wonder If Im I'm getting middle middle- aged What arc are some of the signs from rom the beauty standpoint of the old monster creeping upon me THIRTY THIRTY Are there a few gray hairs appearing appearing appear- appear ing ng to remind you ou that you are arc neglecting neglecting neg- neg your daily dnny scalp massage and that hat you have been using the curing curling curl curl- ing ng irons too often Do you have finely finey fine fine- Ily ly y wrinkled eyelids that testify to eyestrain and loss of sleep Is there a cushion of fat appearing under your chin that threatens to obliterate the lovely ovely line of your throat Is there appearing a difference in shade and texture between face lace and neck If Ifo so o these are arc some of the evidences eVidence that hat you arc are becoming careless not necessarily that you are showing signs of encroaching a age c. c |