| Show Come COllie 10 AVEN VEN H T S HA EAR With Wit Bell Betty Blair Affairs or ot the heart and nd nd kindred problems ONLY will be discussed la Iti this department utters Letters questions and requests for tor advice should be I addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM I. SALT LA LAKE Write Write- legibly upon only one ono sido of ot the paper per It Is necessary that you ou append the rIght name and tind address but these tho will be bo held In strict confidence and will by no means appear appear In print Letters requiring personal reply must bo accompanied by Ed stamped seLf addressed ed envelopes MARITAL DETOURS Dear Miss HUss Blair I have hae been married eight years ears now flow and the marriage that I thought wa was going to be so happy seems to tobe tobe o be going on the rocks My 11 husband I and d I planned when we were first I married that we wc would do everything I in our power to keep things running smoothly mO That we would not burst out with anger at each other that we wc would talk things thIng's over calmly when there were misunderstandings or problems that needed the help of both that we would be cautious about our expenditures and try to save I think we have done all nil this to the best of oC our ability Yet something sonic some thing thing- unforeseen seems to have hap hap- My husband has lost interest in the home in our sweet little daughter daugh daugh- ter and me mc He is home for Cor his meals and late at night to sleep Other than that we never see him He lie never ne takes us any place The minute supper supper sup sup- per is over he gets get et in his car r and without a word ord ord drives awa away I y I Often on pleasant evenings I have ha suggested d that we would like to go O with him for a nice ride but he answers answers answers an an- that he has other fish to fry and that we are well enough at home He Ill has spoken of the boys on a afew afew few feu occasions wh when n I have tried to question him about where be he goes toes but but that Is all I know of what he does loes or where he goes toes He lie gives i es mc me less and md less money to get et along on mid arid Infrequently In he frequently has Ius liquor on his breath All AH this is simply heartbreaking to tome tome tome me as it is so different from anything any an- an thing thin I have ever known or can I accustom myself to I have done my best to live up to my side of the marriage marriage mar mar- contract and yet I feel fed there must be a a. great lack in me to have him turn from me like this Can you ou help hell me HEART The gang tang s system stem seems to be more binding on men on whom home life has palled than on adolescents seeking seeking seek seek- ing new thrills of gang cang life And gambling gam garn- bling which as a rule goes along with adult gang life lie gets hold of ot men like a drug and is as hard to shake o off f. f As a rule it is found impossible for member members the family to turn the head of at the family from his course COUIse All their activities in this direction arc are disregarded The conversion must come from within because of some turn in events that directly strike home to the heart of the offender It seems a dreadful thing that one has to lo wait for sickness or loss of oC fortune or some other calamity to bring a man to his senses in regard to his duty to his family Sometimes a religious conversion will do it or a n conversion to creative work or scientific scientific research If H a man is unmarried falling in love will often QUen make him want to change his ways But BuL the man will ill change chane only when he himself wants to change hanc not because because be be- cause others want him to Now i if you youcan youcan ou can figure out a scheme in some manner manner manner man man- ner related to one of these courses of action that will the more nearly suit his nature and his needs and get him involved in work connected with it you have started on the road that will vill lead to success It has been known that men have fallen in love with their wives all allover allover allover over again Plan to have this end in view with whatever else takes place in your husbands husband's activities DEEP IN LOVE LOYE Dear Miss Blair Heres Here's another girl stricken by love Ion who Just cant can't get over o it H. Wont Won't you please tell me mc some way by which I Ican Ican Ican can canIn win In his love Ion I know boys bos like neat nut girls so Im I'm neat and I know they like nice girls so I try to be nice Im I'm not cute hut but I have nice hair clear skin and pretty prett eyes But there is 10 something something- that goes ors a against men Im I'm Im I'm inclined to be fat not real fat but plump I happen to know that this particular boy docs does not like plump girls What I want to do doIs doIs doIs Is reduce make this bo boy notice me mc then win vin him by my character Will you OU please print in your our column col a a. list of the fattening foods also those that will make one slender Please help me because Im I'm nearly desperate DESPERATELY PLUMP Dont Don't you know that it isn't plumpness plumpness plump plump- ness or thinness prettiness or ot plainness plain ness that awakens love All you have to do is to look Jook at the men and women women wo wo- men who arc are married to each other to realize that When two arc are in love lovel they are arc blind to each ench others other's imper imper- The Thc plump are pleasantly plump the plain featured are Ire beautiful beau beau- and they are angels in spite of their their- manners or ways Of Or course you may get this boy to notice you ou by your our reducing ng methods He may think to himself Gee how svelte s our little friend ha has become And it is true that most boys bog do like trimness but that thought will not make him love O C you Neither will your our lovely character bring Jove love into his heart H If he hc knows you well enough h he will no doubt admire you greatly but that is not love Love is a quality that is independent of looks or behavior It is something that one may feel reel and the other not It is something that is caught like |
