| Show Come to- to A VEN H HEARTS HEART'S T S HA EAR If ith Bett Betty Blair LOVE OR RICHES Dear Dur Miss Blair I have hae a problem m that I dont don't know how to solve sol for myself and so far farmy farmy farmy my parents parent have only confused me mc meThe The boy whom i I love lo and who I am amure sure ure loves lo m me hasn't hunt had steady work for tor a 0 year now Before Delore that time he was en expert bookkeeper but because of the depression he lost his job and has only been ablo able to pick pickup pickup pickup up odd jobs now and again since that thai time He Is willing to do anything anything- but well that Is another part of the tho ator story Since he has been out of work another another an m- mother other man has drifted Into the picture He lie Is a widower with one child has hasa a business of 01 his own and mone money Inthe in inthe inthe the bank He Dc has hIlS come regularly to our house ostensibly to call on my parents but in ream reality to 5 see e me mc For Forthe Forthe Forthe the post past two tuo months he has paid steady court to me and has asked me mc meto meto to marr marry him He owns a good rood home nicely furnished My parents arc urging arcing me to accept accept ac ac- ac him I am 24 21 years e a. a r s old and v would 0 u I d like to marry and settle down but I have no desire to marr marry this man I keep saying to myself all the time Why cant can't things be different dif dlf- f t ferent e ere r c n t W Why h couldn't It be the theman theman man mm I love who had something besides love to offer me I have told th the boy I love Ilo that I Y w will marry him an anyway lOwa way but he says that I would be foolish as al he cannot keep himself let alone a 1 wife He Is ver very depressed and blue but he sa says s 's he wants ants to see me happy and has thought maybe It will be the best thing for lor me to marry the other man When I tell him I will wall wait for him it seems to make him happier but then he Ite Is immediately I depressed again thinking things may mar never be much better for J him m. m I respect the other man but somehow somehow some some- how just cant can't see him as m my hus hus- band He lie has a a. sweet little girl 7 years old who made up to me the first time I saw her He says sas she keeps asking for lor me But Im I'm sure sore I cannot give gI this roan man love as all my mylove mylove love lo belongs to the other What Is the answer ms PHOEBE The fact that all your love belongs to another man is your answer Phoebe The fact fad that he loves JouIn you Jou In return adds a double significance Houses money money in the bank a respected respected respected re re- re- re and respectable position in hi hilife life a little girl need needing inS a new mother all all this is foreign language to you In face of the Ute fact that your heart speaks the only language you will willever willever willever ever understand The husband whom you OU did not love would be a n stranger to you all allour your our life liCe His house would be just justa a place of shelter His daughter a little foreign envoy forever trying to bring you to together ether while she suffered suf suf- with you the misunderstandings that would surely cut you adrift Possessions can vanish overnight but love that is not shammed on either side has an enduring quality It may manifest itself in different phases according to the changes the years bring but it will hold you to together together together to- to gether no matter what disturbances arise You would be wronging the man who offers his love and possessions in sincerity if you were to marry marn him under the gui guise e of love love and and I 1 cannot think he would want you OU under under under un un- der any other terms Wait and labor Jabor for the m man ln who loves you and whom you love Depressions Depressions Depressions De De- have occurred before and none of them have lasted forever And even a depression cant can't be wholly bad so long as hope remains Be true to the truth that is shouting aloud within within with with- in yourself HUSBAND DRIFTS Dear Miss Blair I was happily married for lor three years now I feel leel that m my husband Is drifting away aay from Irom me lIe He goes gocs awa awain away in the enin e evenings with his gang as ashe ashe ashe he calls them and often orten he comes come home much the worse vorse for lor drink lIe He doe doesn't IDt have an any money to spend on booze boole and when I ask him where he gets Iet it ft ho he always says the fellows treat him What can I do to make him want to st stay y home We have an adorable little boy nearly two years cars old 1 I put him to bed early and this leaves me alone to spend my evenings It II surely makes me sad to have my husband husband husband hus hus- band treat me like this He lie gets er very cross when I Y say MY anything HOPING Im I'm wondering if you roU planned for interesting evenings at home before your our husband was enticed away by bythe bythe the gang An ounce of prevention is worth two pounds of or cure where husbands are arc concerned It is a waste of time to try to compete compete compete com com- pete against the gang gans Their activities activities activities ac ac- are so different in compari compari- comparison son to mt anything thing you could offer You mi might ht try having other people in for foran foran foran an evening of cards with light refreshments refreshments refreshments re re- re- re afterward But dont don't let lett it t appear that you are arc doing so by byway byway byway way of You are entertaining for the friends and need your husband to help helD you rou Of ot course you ou ca cant can't t keep this sort of ot thing up every night but suppose s a group of other married people whom he le likes were to plan to meet at each others other's homes quite and to follow a plan of action that would require some home preparation preparation tion wouldn't that help to keep him himat himat at lat home Suppose he were to have to practice with you ou as partner o 0 become an expert at contract or auction auction auction tion bridge Or suppose there were other preparation preparation books books to be read and reviewed current events to be jotted down pro progress ress in science to tobe tobe be jc noted You know best in what direction his tastes lie Yours must be the scheming to make home an inviting place to stay UP MAKE-UP PRO PROBLEM Dear Miss Blair I have dark brown almost black blackhair lair hair hair green eyes and a dark com com- Please tell me what color powder louder rouge rougo and lipstick I should use SHY Use the shade of ot brunette powder that is a tone darker than your skin If f a pale olive use a touch of olive in your powder no rouge vivid lip lip- stick If It a swarthy olive you will need a toned rich rouge and lipstick the color of the richness of the blood showing through the skin skin probably probably raspberry You must experiment with various shades of powder po and rouge to be sure that the most becoming becoming becoming becom becom- ing shade is found for your particular lar ar coloring RUDE QUESTIONS Dear Miss Blair I have a very ery nice neighbor who has hasa a a. very ery annoying habit She always alwa's asks mo me the price of anything new I Imay Imay Imay may have in the house and where I purchased it She docs does the same ume about my clothes Is there anything I can do to protect myself against these questions u without ha having haIng Ing to answer answer answer an an- them or to offend her AMAZED Al You might laugh at her questions in an amused way and sa say jokingly It would never do to tell Or say Oh that's just one of ot my pet se se- se crets Or you OU might be a little bit ruder yourself and ignore the question question question ques ques- tion which you would cover up by immediately talking about something else NOTE TO R E E. 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