Show IE COl TO HEARTS HA YEN VENi r With With BETTY BLAIR BLAIR- Affairs or of the heart berL and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed In this department Lett Letters qUe question end and r requests for should be bo ed to MISS BETTY BETrY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT BALT LAKE LAZ Write legibly upon only one side aide of or the paper that name and address but It Is 13 necessary you 1 0 append the right these wilt will be held In strict confidence end and will wUl by no meana ftC appear in print Ed FRIENDS BLAME HER BER bear Miss 1151 Blair I am a high school girl tirl and just because I X happen to have e a nice home and tind nice clothes and po ro with a certain cere tam tain aln set let a number of or other girl friends whom I like real well velI say I am om stock stuck up LIP I dress In a fashion becoming to toa a schoolgirl and not in silks and other afternoon dress materials material My y man man- piers ners are arc like those of other f girls Iris so soI soI soI I cant can't see wh why these certain girls say this about me I have been Invited to a a. few lew of the parties of these girls eirls and have gone to all aU except one I really rully couldn't CO go o to this one though I wanted w to but they didn't accept my regrets with very good grace They thought I was Just J d trying to get ret out of going with them hem because I wanted to go with a smarter crowd I lam am not a girl Irl who cares for lor mone money or style and I would just as soon live lI I In Sn a cottage as In ri a big house house In In fact lad Jath rather r. r for then I could have th the friends I wanted without all this lullS fuss and bother of having them think I am stuck tuek up just because of things that tha don don't matter at all My Iy parents have haie always YI taught me that an n excellent character was better than money and that true friends were tre not to be besought sought ought after because of their worldly possessions and It II hurts me rue so to o have hac these girls think the very ery thing of me that I have always avoided I hope you OU u have hV some advice ad for lor me mc Thank you ou MERLE l Women of every walk of life anc and every line of business are daily doing things to other people in a manner man man- ner ncr not their own because someone is going to think they are arc stuck up Re Re- a mother told me she reproved her daughter for using slang She revamped re re- vamped the girls girl's sentence in gooc good que queens queen's ns n's English If U I talked that tha Way ay the girl said the crowd would drop me They would think I was stuck up Another woman wanted to make an outdoor living room of her garden for privacy She longed for this more than anything else but bout she did not dare plant the necessary r high shrubbery shrubbery shrub shrub- bery to make it so for fear her neighbors neigh neigh- bors hors would think she was stuck up A woman who had won fame longed very much to get out of the limelight to go home and rest or drive quietly in the open air instead of accepting the Invitations to meet people at teas and balls bails and receptions that wore her out mentally and phys physically But Bhe didn't dare darc refuse the Invitations nor cancel the thc engagements her secretary sec made for her for fear the people people peo peo- pie would think she was stuck up You should be bc free to choose what friends you ou like without regard to their wealth or social standing but you will have to have the outspoken courage of your convictions if 11 you do so You may not hold your opinions opinions ions privat privately ly on the matter if you youlear fear lear being thought stuck up You must circulate them abroad and even then there will vill be some who will say it is only a pose on your part Genuine people will detect your genuineness too Merle It is for lor these you must seek seck These girls whose opinions and friendship you value so much ma may have excellent qualities for friendship and still be lacking in the fine inc sense of values in which you ou have been trained Perhaps Perhaps Per Per- haps a simple statement of how you feel teel in regard to friendships ma may clear up tip the whole matter One must be brave to be free WANTS LOVE STORIES Dear near Miss Blair I would like to get gel a few good books fr from m the library I J prefer love lo stories Will wm you ou please give me a afew afew few lew titles PINKIE Pinkie I should know something about y your ur age your grade and standing stand ing ng in school and have a list of f the thc books you have read and know something something some thing of your our tastes before attempting attempting attempt attempt- ing to give gi you a new list If 11 you are arc area arca a year old girl the list I would give sive you ou would be entirely different from rom that you should have i if you arc 17 Library Information will perform perform per per- form the same service for you that you have asked of me if you ou will give her berthe the required information Come again WANTS BOY FRIENDS pear near Miss Blair During the summer I had a steady nut hut I foolishly made a remark about him him and he abruptly discontinued my company lie He has gone away now and that's past and forgotten but I haven't any new boy friends I am 16 I am considered good looking I dont don't pet smoke moke drink or dance Please tell me how to win In some new bo boy friends Many lany thanks LOVEY LOVEr What sort of indoor sport do you take Lovcy Lovey If It you go to church you should Join young peoples people's organizations or or- and take part in the ac ae ac- ac Or you should engage in outdoor outdoor out out- door sports ice skating hockey skiing ski ski- ing ng Give a house party or two and invite your friends Dont Don't make it obvious that there is such method in your our madness that you are arc angling for a particular boy friend Girls who do this drive the nicest boys awa away r. r You must hobnob with the kind of people whose tastes are arc similar to your our own and you must go where these hese people are where they take their heir recreation in order to meet them hem under the most favorable cir cir- If IC you can engage a aboy's aboy's aboy's boys boy's interest that is all that is exacted ex cx- acted of you ou You may safely leave the he rest to him PROPRIETY OF TIPPING Dear Miss Blair Is It customary to tip lip a beauty par par- lor br or operator If so how much Appreciating Ap Appreciating the information KA KATE TE A good many people in high-class high beauty shops tip Up the operator Especially Especially Especially Espe Espe- is this true after service requirIng ing ng hours of work has been given But Butt it t is entirely optional with the indi indi- vidual whether or not a tip is given Some beauty shops discourage tip tip- ping ing Amounts ranging from 25 cents to o 1 are given by those who prefer to o tip the operator It depends entirely en en- irely on the particular service given and on the strength th of the persons person's purse as to what the amount shall be S NAMES ON CARDS Dear Miss 1 Blair We Wc are arc a newly married couple and have ha lave not our Christmas cards card en cn- graved cd In writing our names on Christmas cards to our friends shall we vc sign them Mr 11 1 and Mrs 1 Blank or use our first names Many thanks NEWLYWEDS For younger married couples the use of the senders sender's first names Instead of the formal Mr and Mrs is now sponsored Dame Grundy slightly favors favors fa fa- fa vors the form of or Mary and John Smith but the use of the husbands husband's name first is almost equally popular John and Mary Smith Either is generally accepted as good form today to da day the choice usually being governed gov go by which form best balances the he card SUB FOR SANTA DOG DOGA A good dog dor about a year ear old is seeking a new home He lie Is b well liked where he lives but his master and mistress and the little one with whom he ic is accustomed to playing cant can't keep him an any longer loner because of the hard times Thc They arc uc hoping hoping- that someone will want him for Christmas Christ Christ- mas and that thai whoever er takes him will promise to treat him well veil Call for tor him Reader at Leland avenue Thirteenth South Sixth East |