Show Come to Hearts Heart's Haven j With BETTY BETTI BLAIR LOVERS' LOVERS QUARRELS Dear Miss Blair I have been going with a young man whom I love and who says he loves lores me but somehow we just cant can't B seem em to get along together Whenever we Tc differ dUler about anything it develops Into a quarrel He believes what everyone every ery one elte says but bat doesn't believe me Although he phones me mc nearlY every everyday everyday day he hasn't asked to come down since cur last quarrel and I dont don't want to tobe be the first t to break the Uie Ice because I think he owes me mo an apology apol ogy egy for tor disbelieving what I say to him What would you yon do Many lany thanks MARIE The trouble with quarreling is that It t b becomes comes a habit and from Crom merely being a n. difference o of viewpoint deteriorates de into an ugly and dangerous practice which accomplishes no good for anyone Quarreling takes and gives gives' nothing and there is nothing that can make its participants so common as ns wrangling Quarrels like pain point to danger signals to warn that something is Lc inherently in in- wrong If they do not prove to be mere surface ripples that can be quickly smoothed over then the cause must be one of such vast difference dif dU- di- di ference in lit tastes and aud viewpoints that the only sensible thing to do is to end your youl relationships altogether For If you always get into a n good fight light whenever whenever when when- ever er you ou feel like ike it it the habit i will become so fixed that there will never be any hope for peace between you We think he concedes something when h he calls calk you u on the tel telephone phone Perhaps all aU he is waiting for Is 15 your invitation to call caU on you at your home which invitation must rightfully come from you ou in order that he shall make things right Hereafter if quarrels quarrels quare seem imminent Just veer away from them or run away from each other DOESN'T SHOW LOVE Dear Miss l Blair There is a bO boy I go with sith whom I Ilove Ilove love Jove a lot I know he c cares res for me too but please tell ten me how I can make show his love BILLIE Your friend is either bashful and doesn't know how to get started with his i lovemaking or else he Is taJ taking ng you for Cor granted If he Is bashful he needs to be drawn out of himself and away from his self It ItIs Itis Itis is you who must lend him th the helping help hell ing hand Flirt with him Be coquettish coquet tish show him b by the thousand and andone andone andone one signs every girl knows that you OU care for him a lot and wouldn't be bored If he cared as much for you jou ou Compliment him sincerely on his tie his clothes the way ay he combs his hair Boost Ut up his self Take an interest in his Job and aL also when he lie Is hungry feed him But 1 if he 1 is taking you OU for granted you need to show this same kind of interest in some other boy Be a n. trifle hard to make dates with ith Make believe it sort of slipped your memory that he still existed on earth Then when he Wakes up and wants to know what's the matter put on the baby stare and be beery very ery much surprised and from that moment on on until until he begins to take you ou for granted again be be as sweet as you know how to be WHO WIIO SPEAKS FIRST Dear Miss lUiss Blair Blah Who should speak k first when meetIng meet meet- Ing lug th the first time aft after r an introduction tion the lion the girl or the man Also whose place is it IL to write first Thanking you ADA The girl speaks first if there is 15 any doubt as to whether or not a 3 friendship friend friendS ship is to be made or an acquaintance to be continued This Is based ced on the privilege of the woman to accept acceptor or discard an acquaintanceship The Theman Theman Theman man always alwa's waits to see 1 if it she wishes to recognize him It would be presumptuous pre pre- sumptuous for him to bow o o- address her unless he was sure she wanted him to Between friends no such formality for for- mality Is expected They speak simul simul- The same ame rule holds true in correspondence correspondence correspondence corre unless the man has hu some reason for writing first such as the acknowledgement of some favor favol or hospitality for which he is Indebted to the girl TO FORM CLUB Dear Miss 1 We are tw two to girls 15 years old who want to form a club for outdoor sports with lour four boys and four lour girls How now shall shaH be go about doing this Thank you for helping us WE TWO First you jOU must decide on the boys and girls whom you wish to have in your our club Then invite them to one of or your homes for organization pur poses You will probably want to have havea a a. president vice president and secre secre- Affairs Affair of ot the heart and kinS kinI kindred kin kin- S I dred deed problems ONLY will wUl be dl- dl cussed In this thu department Lett Letters ro ra questions and requests for advice should sho be addressed to MISS IrIss BETTY BLAIR BLAm HEARTS HEART'S I U H HAVEN A V E EN N TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side aide of ot the paper It Is 15 ce-c ce necessary that you ou append the right name nam and I address but these will be held in strict conI confidence con con- 0 and will by Dr no means apin appear ap aI ap- ap I pear in print Ed J treasurer ary-treasurer of or your our club so this would be a a. good time to nominate and elect these officers Outline your our activities and plan for your fm-your your first outdoor outdoor out out- door party or whatever it is you intend in tend doing Another thing to do on one o of your our first meetings will be to consider a n name for your our club dub what your dues will be and the laws by-laws to govern jovern you joti ANCIENT FASHION Dear Miss Miss' Blair To settle an argument is It fash fash- lovable enable for tor girls to wear armlets If It so with what kind of dresses should the they be worn Om Thanking yo you yon a JESSIE The fashion for wearing armlets has hns las become a craze in the last few weeks Nearly everyone 1 Is wearing one with a tenI tennis s or sleeved short frock rock and by the th w way did you jOU know that this fashion revives one of the worlds world's most ancient ornaments In olden days circlets of gold were kept by br kings in their treasury in order that they might be available to o bestow upon those who had earned the royal favor Minstrels were generally generally gen gen- eral rewarded with a gold armlet whenever er they played before royalty |