Show I I Come to t l J Hearts Heart's Ha Haven tn i With BET BETTY BETT BLAIR 0 GIRLS GrotS AND AiD MOTHERS I OF GIRLS gt r Blair your cozy corner for anether anther an- an ether ther ar argument and call forth the embers of 01 the fair sex x and arid let them offer effer their feeble protests for lor this b thoroughly disgusted with all trL diggers cros ns rs what have you rou to toj 1 j far tor yourselves Nothing but a ack S ck of tits no Hoir come I feel leel thI this way Well rm Im a fellow of 2 20 I Started when I t was 15 IS For four lour earl I j for a a girl ItI who duld II in lean Jun terest m roe pe enough h for r me e to o desire I It t to b hate hue moie more than m two wo br or thie c dates SI with her An flY girl rl I chose chos seemed sting enough at t first But fiut this Hili f won JOon faded laded put opt of sight eight I But at last I found the one i leaned coned to be shall I say m ray y ideal l for ten Un months I dated datt-d her Not for far her but steady for or me Im I'm not ot kicking at this for or I did adraT get gel moneys money's worth In what bat I then nr raT limned a perfectly beautiful com corn I Every Enry date and party re cc e planned turned out even en beyond I ny my expectations She seemed square equate and ind on the be level le until she notified me metot HK tot hour bOUT before a date which had bad been bren cen planned for lor a a. week that she going because she had d decided 10 la p fO steady with another rellow Was flu I burned Yea but even nen more moreK 10 K when It became quite evident tt k hISS his new DW car was what turned I Ibe be ibe deal I I vb Why such audi an uproar over one W 1 perhaps you say Well SelI if It it ad sd been only ONE girl there here would Rould arc fe ce been ten no uproar I could ha e one In fact I was making I real resl attempt when I met another te the he first It was only a matter matterI f I time until she gave Ve a friend of oC nine line a 11 date on the same night for I had already made mad arrange arrange- Well enough Is 15 enough b Ive I've med a lesson In fact I think I IWI nil hail remain a bachelor for the he rest if f f my days Yes Ye maam ma'am from that ime me on I have been a professed woun wo wo- un hater I hate the he air they hey reathe rathe the he ground they hey walk on he be ie minded feeble critters them- them Women bah what a sour ord rord Perhaps your readers will say Let Lei aeh leh a narrow minded old fo fogy go it'll en never bo be missed But Dut dont don't you women omen Im I'm only 20 20 good GOd If If a full date book from hiM I could call any number of lie he Imbeciles is any judge and I would fOuld be considered a oed ocd catch ratch The date book gives gics me mc an Id Idea 1 J Here neTe Ill I'll call can up every cry name there thero nd ruI make a date with them all for forbe forbe foroe be oe same fame night and ceI every date I would prefer to to have bave noth- noth ir 11 Ito to do with an any of them FOOLED We think It would IouI be a terrible for you ou to ever consider bei be- be i 19 friends with any girl again Two t f them have C tooled fooled you ou You would lher ither h have ve had them love you than thanie ie other fellows' fellows cars but they But But- think you should hould be fling happy and gay about it It not id ld nor bitter for Just see ec of ot what ju u have O rid yourself Bat But Fooled perhaps they found lIt A that you were measuring a per beautiful companionship In In tins ims of dollars and cents and that hen you Ou had had your moneys money's it was TIME to quit Per- Per ps when their interest for you did fade out you didn't do a single nt about It What had you been DIng Jing til this to make things for them Above all things Id I'd ad- ad se you to remain a bachelor for forie 1 le ie who takes things BO so much tout to art ut could never ne weather the storms matrimony But its it's a wicked lame when you come to think thin about for your mother who also aho must ive re been ten a woman will have to see JU u across the breakfast table all the thet st t of her life unless you OU take up quarters In fact I think you should make Independent of ot this cruel crocI arid orId altogether turn your back on and become a a. hermit For I really nt tot know what would become of ofU HI U were ere you ou to forget your two dl- dl long enough to fall for girl and then be fooled by bye e ST ST. too But goodness Fooled hy did you write to me Did you momentarily that I too an ane am ama a tle e of ot th those poor things woin wo Ian in S S I Attain Affairs ct Gt the Heart and Kin Kin- 0 deed problems ms ONLY will be dl S cussed in this department 0 I 0 Letters qu questions question and reque requests t 0 for tor advice sho should be addre td to 0 MISS MIBS ry BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S I H It A V E EN N H TELEGRAM SALT 0 LAKE Writ legibly upon only s 0 one side aIde of the pa paper r 0 It j Is that you ap append nd 0 tn the right name oam and address but 0 0 these the will be held in Ic strict con cen 0 and will oy 07 no na means ap appear ap ap- 0 pear In print Ed S T THE TUE E GE GENTLEMAN'S TLE CARD Dear Miss Blair Please tell me mc how a acard gentleman's card differs from a ladys lady's calling card Thank you B n n. n The shape of ot a n. mans man's card Is somewhat somewhat some rome what different from either a ladys lady's or ora ora a a. girls girl It Is 15 long and narrow nano from 2 8 7 to 3 4 1 Inches wide and from 1 4 1 to 1 8 6 5 inches high LIKES EM f OLD FASHIONED De Dear Miss Blair I am the youngest In a family amily ol of seven girls My Iy eldest sister Is old enough to be my own mother and believe me I have hac a hard time of or it il My Iy elder cIder sisters ra think I should be brought up as they were and they convert my mother to their way fay of thinking Their way Is old old-fash- They dont don't think I should have bave lave any liberties at all They say saT to mother You never nefer did let us do thIs thU or that It has got so I cant can't even enn go out with a boy friend In his hiscar hiscar hiscar car that they dont don't make a yell about It Of Ot course they didn't do the same things when they were young that I want to do The TIle world was not that far tar advanced ad and the they would like Uke to keep me rue In la the same dark ages In which they lived U I hate this kind kindor of or tyranny Two or three times Umes Ive I've planned to Just leave leao home bome anti and go gomy gomy goray my ray own way But this would hurt my m mother J a a I dont don't want to do that If my sisters would mind mint their own business mother and I could get ret along fine to together ether Four of my sisters are married and they are arc the ones who kick up the biggest big fuss Please Pleas tell me what to do I am 18 years old LITTLE NELL Its It's a a. long IonS long Iong way that the new fashioned female has traveled from the old-fashioned old conceptions of DC thought and behavior The freedom free free- dom dorn and simplicity of or her dress are only an outward symbol of oC the freedo freedo freedo free- free do her actions As we wen well expect to dress a young girl of today in crinolines as to expect her to adopt the manner of living and the code of activities that t belonged to those days And if it we do say so 50 we think the ways of the modern generation are as far in advance of their elder eJder I sisters as their simple frocks are ahead of ot bustles and trains They have a way of oC looking at truth of ridding themselves of oC hokum of ot knowing how to take tak care care of themselves themselves themselves them them- selves that their elders never dreamed of The old old- old fashioned f 1 t girl was sheltered sheltered shel shel- and suppressed guided and guarded timid and tyrannized over The modern girl 1 Is brave instead of at fearful tearful intelligent Instead of ot sentimental sentimental sentimental senti senti- mental active Instead of ot passive She regulates her personal habits and tastes to suit herself She doesn't spend her time striving perpetually to live up to some mans man's Idea of or what she should be She travels about and unguarded she votes and holds public office She thinks her own thoughts and manages manages manages man man- ages her own life lIle She does most of the Jie things a man mar can do and docs does them hem well Stand on your our own 0 two feet teet Little Nell and tell your elder sisters to set their own houses in order and leave cave you to work out yot your own salva- salva Uon ion Confide in your mother mather Let Lether Lether Lether her meet your young friends When she sees ces what whole hearted wholesome wholesome whole whole- some loving fun generous creatures they hey are she will feel like apologizing for Cor thinking them theta something less or worse WHAT TO SAY Dear Miss 1155 BI Blair r What t should guests at a church wedding who are not very well ac acquainted ae- ae with the bride and groom oom say by W way y of offering felicitations Thanking you OLLIE If you are arc not known to either cither bride or groom you may merely shake hands hancL with the groom and say Congratulations Congratulations Con Shake hands with the bride and say I r wish you the best of good fortune 1 Or I X wish you every happiness and then pass on Under no circumstances should one say Congratulations to the bride or anything that might be construed construed con con- I as an Implication that the bride is lucky S |