Show 0 0 Come Cometo to Hearts Heart's Hta I s a Haven With BETTY BETlY BLAIR 4 I FRIENDS ESTRANGED Dear Miss lIss Blair As people do In the end I am coming coming- to you for help For about a 3 year ear now I have been in love Jove with a man When I was first introduced to him through some of m my friends he isa was very nice and act acted d as though I were the only person In the world for him But through some Idle gossip or some such thing he is isnow Isnow now flow very much changed When I meet him each day he be seems to look at me in such a z vague puzzled sort sod of way and not a IL word does he speak My ly friends tell me mc he likes me very cry much but that doesn't help I have T sf I tried to forget him but each day I Isee IN 11 a i see something to remind me inc more and fro frore re re of or him the him the way someone c I the thc hat hal thc they r wear the thc color 1 t. t eyes Whenever any anything thing I tr said about him I have al- al Bended ended him but when he turns away from me so hurt and queer I haven't the thc heart to speak to him What shall I do If only tongues wouldn't wag Just because people interest In someone Wouldn't It then be a wonderful world I have done nothing that he could not riot know or even see ee so 50 I am sure the gossip is simply some unkind way of putting the thc whole affair up to him GIGOLO Thank you The solution of your our problem wh hr r for or against you ou depends on which of you Is the stronger in his will to hold out or in his love to win In Are you strong enough to make him like you ou more than you like him regardless r of anything that may have been said aId about you In case you really do like Uke him more than he does you ou are you strong enough to conceal con con- teal ceal that liking In Irs other words so 50 far as liking is concerned you must always be ahead of the thc game You must always like lUe or appear to like him a little less than he does oes' oes you ou And you must make him want you ou But you give Men are al always al- al ways wanting women to give but they dont don't want them to WANT to give They want to take or at nt any rate to compel the giving Men are natural born hunters The quarry that trat is too easy is never considered of value alue r Affairs of or the heart and kindred kin S dred problems ONLY will wilt be discussed dis dia- I cussed In la this department Letters questions question and requests ts 0 for advice should be addressed to toS S MISS bETTY BLAIR m. HEARTS HEART'S 0 U HA HAVEN t V C EN N. N TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write I legibly upon only 0 one side of the paper g 0 It Is 15 nece ry that you append 0 the right name nam and address but s S these will be held In strict conS confidence con con- conS S S and will win oy Dy no co m means ap appear appear ap- ap 0 pear In print priaL-Ed priaL Ed 0 It Is a game and the hardest game In the world for a a. woman for to her love ove is her whole existence while of mans man's life Ufe it is a n thing apart A woman will spend hours and day and weeks agonizing over what is for forman forman forman man a mere passing thought to be shunted off If it causes annoyance It is 15 so hard to strike a happy medium medium me me- to be cheerful and nonchalant when your our heart is being twisted Into a a Chinese e puzzle You have to be careful not to withhold too much and yet et to give very little If It we dont don't give jive enough we lose them It If we jive give too much we lose ourselves In your our own 11 case you dont don't seem to really know wha fit is Is' that has caused the estrangement But 1 if ii you fear lear malicious gossip wh why do you not make the opportunity to tell him all about the matter Dont Don't tell it as if you feared it had been misconstrued but jut quite frankly as you would to any friend It is your our fear and not what he actually thinks of you that is your greatest enemy Get rid of your fears and love will find a way SEEKS POPULARITY Dear Miss Blair Th These se are the good points about i m me I swim fairly well dance and enjoy all nil outdoor sports and Im I'm not bad looking How can I become popular r Also what beauty type am I I hue have fair skin blue eyes and yellow hair What colors should I wear Thank you ONLY ONLY ME Girls who forget themselves who arc are not worried about what other people think or say about them who know enow what they want and in which direction they are traveling who are concerned in helping others t to have hare a good time too who banish all self- self consciousness are as a 0 rule happy and md popular Popularity sought after Just for forthe forthe forthe the sake of being popular is a cheap sort of bargaining When one seeks rather to enjoy ones one's friends tomake tomake to tomake make her friends enjoy her to In- In erest others in her activities and be Interested in them in return one has found a place 11 in hearts of other peole people peo- peo pIe le and that is the kind of popularity popularly popular popular- ity ly that is worth while When you youcan youcan youcan can be so good a 0 friend to others that you are indispensable to their good times then you are arc popular But the the effort must come from you ou In Inthe inthe inthe the first place If you ou lU like e outdoor sports see t to It that others both boys and girls whom you like enjoy them with you Let the invitation come from you ou Dont Don't wait for them to do all the inviting Then show an enthusiasm for life about you jou Such enthusiasm is contagious and is a bre breeder er of popularity You are the Esther Ralston type of beauty Greens blues and neutral shades such as sand taupe mauve and grays will HI best high light your our beauty Natural powder cherry rouge and lipstick is your proper makeup I DISAGREEMENT Dear Miss Mis Blair I Will viII you please help to settle an argument After members of a card club have finished playing added their scores received ed their prizes and returned home horrie is it proper prop prop- er that one of the members should call up and say there was a mistake made in adding her score which when correctly added Is higher than the one winning the prize This his reaU really happened and the woman who found out after returning home that her score was highest now V thinks she should have the prize I do not think so but arc arc there any rules regarding an adjustment of this kind Thanking Thanking Thank Thank- ing lug you rou SHOCKED There are no rules governing the giving of prizes at card parties The courtesy of the host or hostess alone governs the giving If a mistake was made it was done unintentionally and no prize is worth orth all the fuss luss and bother and readjustment necessary to give it to one who rightfully won The rightful winner shows herself much bigger t to let the matter drop than to insist on an adjustment be beIng being be- be ing trig made at so late an art hour And no hostess would be willing to offend her other guest by asking for a prize back to be given to another person ANKLE CALF EXERCISES Dear Miss Blair My ly ankles and calves are too thin What shall shaU I do to make them fatter Thanks a lot BOBBY BOnBY I Dancing on tiptoe and going up and down stairs on tiptoe are arc both excellent exercises for developing the calves and ankles Also try this one Stand with heels together toes pointed slightly outward Rise on the balls baUs of the thc feet bend your our knees I slightly and raise both arms Take a short hop forward landing on your I toes with knees deep deeply flexed swing I your arms out in front as you do so Spring up quickly and nd repeat the hop DEFINITION OF OF LOVE I Tear ear Miss Blair To an argument will Mill you I please give Jhc us a definition of love lo Many thanks TIM AND TOM We Wc doubt if a definition of love was ever written that could adequately describe all that It is or can do to a person Here is one that won a prize of that we think you ou may like Love is a a. season pass on the shuttle between heaven and hell |