| Show BETTY Affairs of the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed dis db- I cussed in this thU department nt Letters questions an and anC requests st for advice should be addre addressed ed I t to MISS 1 BETTY DETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S IIA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT ALT LAKE Write legibly upon oni one side of the paper It is Ls necessary that you yon an pend the r right name and address p but bat these will be held in strict confidence and will by no means I a appear i in print n- n Ed d 0 t p. p 4 1 A DAYTIME DATE Dear Drar Miss 1 Blair What should a a girl rid do under these circumstances Boys Doys who will no not even en notice mo mc In the daytime daUme try to toma tomake tomake ma make e dates with me at night Im I'm all right in the dark but bat Im I'm no good for forthe the daylight ht or in Iii public B n F F. F As s a rule boys make their dates dales for evening If It these dates are to take you Ou to the movies to dances and parties and to call c. on you at your our own wn invitation at your home they are the usual thing B F. F Some boys bos are too bashful to make much over overa a girl in the presence of or others And most of or them because of school or work do donot not e have the opportunity to todo todo todo do so 50 However if It you feel fecI that there Is something disrespectful attached to their feeling toward you if at nt parties or in public gatherings of or young oung people people peo peo- pie of or your own age these same boys mako nako it a point to ignore you OU if their dates with you are not to functions functions that would add to your pleasure but resolve themselves into necking parties you are cheapening yourself ito to o allow them to continue and you OU are placing yourself in a position never to be anything else but that kind of or a date Set your own price on your companionship and you will wUl add not only to your own self-respect self but jut to the respect others will have for you ADVICE FOR D R. R Dear Miss s Blair Just a few words on D RV Rs Ices lem cm It seems to me D R. R you are wasting your precious time on this married man You know in your own mind what the end will be It will willbe willbe be either to break up the home of some ome dear little woman or to forget him Wm Which shall it be I hope the latter As its far as his presents arc are concerned they are not tol tokens ns of love and each one that you ou take is 15 just taking that much from his wife As for your jour our mother saying Thais all that counts anyway I differ with her Love and happiness is what count The love loe words word he pours Into nto your ear are Just his line Une Ills kind all have the same Remember If f he be will s step p out on one woman oman he will on another There is only one nc conclusion to be arrived at when a married man goes with a single girl Dont Don't let the thc thought of your our poverty pov- pov erty hold you down kid Character and nd honor are arc all that count its it's not lot mone money Plan Flan a future and climb to o he the t top p of or tb the ladder In choosing a man take one who is single and not a second hand fellow lellow and he will wilt help you up instead of ot giving ci you ou a push down the ladder Good Goodluck Gooduck luck lack to you jou OUt D R. R ALWAYS A FRIEND FRIED It is a friend Indeed who will take time to write a a. letter to encourage encourage encourage en en- courage another entirely unknown to him or her That's one of the nice things about Hearts Heart's Haven Its It's the house by the side of the road that keeps open door for all needing friendship And after all those en entering entering entering en- en its portals are not unknown to each other for it is sympathy and understanding interests interest and problems problems problems lems that have the common touch that draw people together Were We're sure D R. R will appi appreciate tet this friendly gesture on your part A A A. F. F Come again MEASUREMENTS CREAMS IS Dear Miss 1 Blair Would you 00 please give me mc all the correct measurements for a girl 5 S feet led 1 inch tall tail and 19 years of age Also should a girl of my age use all aU kinds of creams to help her skin or will the skin do better if nothing is used Which will make for lor a softer skin with fewer wrinkles about 20 years from now If I should use creams and lotions will you yon OU please advise me nie how when and What to use nse 19 Women between 18 and 35 who are 5 feet 1 inch and 5 feet 2 Inches tall have approximately approximate the following measurements Neck 12 2 2 1 chest 32 bust I 31 31 waist 26 abdomen 32 hips 34 34 thigh 18 calf cal 12 ankle 8 2 1 upper arm 10 lower arm 9 chin from carto car ear carto to ear 8 81 1 2 It depends entirely upon the texture texture texture tex tex- tex tex- ture of the skin as to whether It benefits benefits benefits bene bene- fits greatly by the use of creams and end lotions lotions' though as a matter of fact that skin Is ery scry rare that docs does not If IC your TOUT skin is the oily type it will require a n cream made with a greaseless grease- grease greaseless greaseless less base if it it Is inclined to be dry a cream made base some base on a fatty some something thing that will add to the skin the food it lacks lacks should should be used If your skin needs no treatments at present leave It alone The skin is not like the surface of a table that thatIs Is always Improved by the Uon tion of furniture polish It is a live thing that needs to be studied and treatments must be adapted to its changing moods The skin must function correctly to be beautiful Good general health underlies a good complexion and no external treatment can overcome the telltale signs of unwise diet lack of or sleep am and exercise poor elimination Health diet the balance between activity and relaxation mental state all af affect at- at feet the condition of the whole body including its external covering Let Le your beauty specialist suggest th the particular br brands of creams and lo lotions lo- lo lions you may need 1 if an any |