Show v Letters and questions for the tho department should be bo addressed to Miss Mill Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram nt Write only on one 1 tide side of ot the tha paper It is necessary to append your name and address but l these are held In confidence and will not be bo published Lost and found notices or words word to songs and poems cannot be published in the tha column J l I WOMEN WANT THE TRUTH f r Dear Miss Blair He told me his wife was Vias dead j ho he told me mc ho he had lost his only i child he told mo me he had steady stead employment he ho told mo me ho had hac money in the tho bank He took me to tc toone on ono one automobile shop after alter another f to look at cars and to help him decide which kind we would like He asked mo me to set act the tho date I fell for fer all of it and not one word of anything ho ever said sad wa wu true No I take that back Ho He told that I Will wae wa me mo ho was wu lonely and nd l I the tho kind of woman he had been looking for And that much was wu true for I dont don't think there thero was another woman in in this neck of of the woods who would have havo believed him and given the sympathy and love he craved craved and and got Well I accidentally stumbled on one cne truth after another nother Can you tell mo why any man in in the world think a woman didn't want tho the truth 1 Ho was a U very entrancing entrancing ing ng man The truth of him might havo have been just as entrancing had hadI I known what the truth was ws Now Im I'm all at sea wondering whether tho tio man lives whom I J can canever ever behove boo bo- Hove Hove- again STUNG Certainly women want vant tho truth Any man mart who thinks a 3 woman such mch a weakling that sho aJio cant can't stand the tho truth better than a lb lo any my day ha has another guess coming comins- But ablo of oC giving thero ar aro men incapable tho the truth The They aro four-flushers four but bUl to themselves themselves themselves them them- not nol only to tho world selves as DS well They The livo 11 In a 1 dream dreamworld dreamworld world WorM to compensate them for what they lack and lb Ho when tho truth would servo them better This man has 5 probably been boen Indulging In da day daydreams daydreams dreams his Ills early earh bo boyhood hood days that lie made no attempt to tout put ut Into action Well etl that's thata been a n. wco bit of or ex experIence experience ex- ex for you OU Stung But dont don't let It make you ou sour for thero are aro men who cannot tell a 1 lie He men who ho tell It so BO straight from front the thc shoulder that coming cominS' a as M it il docs does all nn unadorned makes It almost stag stag- Especially is this so 1 If Ie It ItIs ItIs itIs Is an unlovely truth And there are nrc still other men who will tell tho the truths you ou love to hear So cheer up Stung stunS Tho The year ear has lias just begun Im I'm wondering which of ot you Is suffering most most tim tho man who cannot tell tho truth or the woman who believed beHoved all she ehe heard 1 ON SHAKING HANDS Dear Cear Mi Miss Mis s Blair Will you please tell me what i is is a good rule to go by in regard to shaking hands When should people peo peo- pie 10 shake hands and when should they not If introduced to people at dinner should one lean across the tho table to shake hands Should you ever reach by a I second person to shako shake hands hand with a third I WONDER Hero Mere is a rulo about shaking hands that should govern Sovern all occasions occasions occa occa- Never shako shake hands when It ItIs ItIs Is 15 awkward to do so no Never lean across tho the to shako hands handu- unless someone reaches his or her hand to you rou One Ono should not reach by a a. second person to shake hands with a third Gentlemen shake hands when introduced to each other as is a 1 rub rulo latHes ladies do not nol shake hands with each cach other othel or with gentlemen gen ben when introduced if H a lady js is meeting meeting- someone of or whom she has lon long heard or who has been a 1 particular friend o of ot a n member of ot her family or of or an another another another an- an other friend she sometimes offers her hand to increase tho the warmth of or ortho tho the introduction Sometimes wom women n shako ishako hands on leave GRANT WITH WITHERS ERS Dear Miss Blair Please tell me mo who played with Saturdays SaturdaY Corinno Griffith in Child Children n. n Thank you M Grant Grunt Withers lla played ed opposite Corinne Griffith in fn Saturdays I Children SIX SIX POINT POINT COSTUME Dear Cear Miss Blair Will you please advise mo mc re regarding re re- garding j the number of costumes and what they should be for the remainder l der of the winter to be spent in northern California I need not stint on my dresses though I may not have a too expensive coat unless unless un un- un less I cut down elsewhere Very gratefully ASTRID Six costumes will amply cover your our necessities Astrid Ruth Chatterton who whoso whose o wardrobe is al always nl- nl ways wn's ays simple yet chosen with excellent excellent ex ex- taste suggests that un anyone one can get set along with tho the following drobe Ono lon long coat of or lightweight furor fur fut furor futor or or of or cloth trimmed l with Ion long or 01 flat fur should bo be tho first consider consider- SIn co black blaek i is Its unobtrusively el important this season on a u. cloth coat in ln this color trimmed with black gal ak o or blue blue- fox ocr offers a a. a kel 1 likely suggestion Uon f. f A A street suit not too severo sc in its b effects but bul of ot dark tones is an nn indispensable item of ot tho Urn wardrobe Wool fool crepes and feath featherweight tweeds ds aro are the tho safe safe- sel selection cUon for or r suit uit materials short abort belted coatS coata an and blues should receive consideration A t ono one co sports ports froCk or a u. sweater and skirt outfit in bright contrasting shades will cover corer many flany events o thus doing double double doule dou- dou ble le duty i Since fashion decrees that after after- noon clothes aro essential e ever ovary every t should include a a. complete costume for tor such occasions VelI VelVets Vel- Vel I vets metal cloths and hea heavy heay y crepes form torm the nucleus for such costumes i A dinner frock of or lace Ince or Oi chiffon nay may select its ita color scheme from such uch tones as dark red rell pale blue deell blue green T cn or black The Tho In In In- evening e frock and its ac ac- ac Ii companying wrap dap wrap should bo be deftly planned so 10 that both will be suitable for or all events of oC formality during the tho entire season White satin or represents a n. clever cr choice wraps of aquamarine blue ant and black velvet vel blend into tho fashionable fashion fashion- able ablo scheme of oC tho the six point ward ward- robe BEAUTY PROBLEMS Dear Miss Blair Does a vinegar rin rinse e ruin rutn or harm harma a permanent w wave ve Also what is good to use to correct a 1 dry skin CU CURLY RL Y Unless the texture of or tho hair is such that at nt any time whether the thc hair lair has had a permanent or Ot not flot vinegar is too harsh to uso in the final rinse it il should not provo prove to tobe tobe tobo be bo so after the permanent Beauty operators uso use vinegar on dark hair hall right along alons- after permanents have bave been given I en Premature wrinkles Tinkles as 03 a rulo rub appear ap zip- pear peat with tho skin of tho dry type Most so soaps ps disagree with the naturally naturally nat nat- dry skin and should be avoided avoid- avoid ed d. d Substitute bags bass of almond meal or oatmeal In tho the water instead Tho The regular uso usa of faco powder lowder and dry rougo also tends to make ho tho skin dry and flaky laky unless ape ape- cial ial care is taken to remove all aU makeup with cold coId cream at fit the close of or the tho da day A A. thin film of cold cream ream should hould bo be used as a powder b base ase sc and tho pasto form of ot rouge substituted for tho tim dry dO Local tip tip- of or oil or cream will be helpful in lubricating tho skin akin After Atter the face has been cleansed at t bedtime muscle oil may be paled patted pat pal ted ed on tho wrinkles and loft on over over- night ight There Thele is no iio danger danser as many suppo suppoSe c of incurring growths of oC su superfluous superfluous su- su hair by this tr treatment Always use uso the tips of or tho fingers to pat pal tho tim cream into tho the skin Never Nover over rub it In as this stretches the delicate delicato tissues and causes more marc wrinkles rho Tho tapping e exercises with the fingers must always bo Inan Inan in inan an upward direction COIN VALUES Dear Miss Blair Will you please toll me if there i is any premium value on the following coins Five cent piece picco of 1872 half-dollar half of 1874 arrow on each side of date large cent of 1841 large cent of 1871 CO COLLECTOR L LE R. R The 5 cent picco leco of or 1872 bears a premium from P D to 10 cents the half-dollar half of oC 1874 t boars bears no rio premium pre mum tho the premium on tho large cent of ot 1841 ISH is from 1 to 20 O cents tho largo large cent of oC 1871 has no no premium premium pre pre- value alue PIMPLES AND BLACKHEADS Dear Miss Blair Wil Wi you please tell toll me how to get rid of pimples and blackheads I have havo them o on my rny face and they arc very embarrassing Thank you MAGGI MAGGIE S. S Kindly send a 1 stamped self self- envelope for tho the return of our circular on tho treatment of pimples and blackheads COLORS WARM AND COOL Dear Miss Blair what colors col cot Will you please tell mc me ors aro arc classed a as warm and what others as cold Thank you SLUE BLUE E. E Tho The warm colors aro red brown pink rose rose-belgo o and all of or tho rose- rose toned tans also other colors with which red is blended Orchid which Is a lL mixture of oC black whito and red Is a a. warm color is also warm Green yellow ello white gray and aro cold colors |