Show J I fI I f SHAVEN BETTY I 4 r Letter Letter and question for th department should fa tJI addressed s d t to Miss Mis Deity Betty Blair Hearts Heart Haven Hven Salt Lake Telegram one C the paper It it Ia necessary to append y your ur name and dd address but F these ire are held hed In hi confidence and nd will not be published L Lost and found notices V u 0 or words word to songs lIong and nd cannot be published In the column j 1 I n PROPRIETIES S WITH BOY IDoY FRIEND J I Dear Miss Miu Blair I Like Uki so r many many others Other I I 1 am corn com ing ina to you yoU fo for the tha flood advice thai thi thiL I L am am sure ure has helped them M My 1 questions questIon are Is II it wrong to let lit i t frie friend d. d wl whom om I have ve met for fOI the firs 4 tm time park his car on a a lonely den dark I road and indulge n in this thi called so-called f necking Is' Is it proper prop for a young youg girl te te tc accompany her boy friend frind to his idi I apartment without th their ir parents parents' consent conent I e I Did Jack Oakie pl pl play y in the same ume I picture with Betty in il inThe The Street Girl Hoping to b be t wele welcomed med FAIRY What is It in III mind mind s your ow own that constitutes a. a right or a n. wrong 1 ill When yOudon ou io at certain lri thIn thing g that Infringes on on your our sense of oC so good l taste late that th violates tw every r principle oC of your tour own training and background that t sties Issues s a a warrant gah t your jour our o own n inherent In fineness I 1 think you OU may mar safely a call it wrong s It ItIs Jt Is not only the fact f in ln itself but the immediate following follow follow- ln ing up the reaction n. n the fact tact that cine one act calls calls' for tor another that matters mat mat- t r so so ril much ch Think thIn thip thin thing 0 over 1 F F bJ I You must be the judge and Jury jur of or yc YOUr yo ir own actions You have t to live with all ll thc the rest rout of ot your you lUc life Yo You must decide t what Hl ort t of ot eC ou arc ure going oln to choose hoo e to b be your our most constant companion And r remember lT this that th real wrongs i do not happen without small beginnings s upon which thc they ar ni are nourished into sized full-sized appall appall- tl ti ns If rr the the e apar apartment ment Is s maintained by br the oung man himself and not In connection with bl his hb fainn family you ou hould b by no by-no no means gov iO there othere either with Ith or or rIth without ut your Our parents parents parents' consent consent con con- 1 sent ent unless it happens to be with witha I a suitably chaperoned J parly h To Todo d do doto to 60 o would OU b. b be beavery a avery aery ery grave rave br breach ach t of the proprieties Yes Jack Oakie Oakle pl played nd in hi Street Girl with w ith Betty ett son TOU are w welcome COMMENTS ON BIRTH CONTROL COt Dear Doar- Miss Blair Blar I w would like to make a few cOmments comments com ments ment o on the ori the th birth control i question Alth Although I am ani only 19 a and d a bride of seven months j have my ni ideas on on thi this question qU r I t h. h heartily r ily ag agree ee that birth control should be I dont don't think it is it fair to any woman to let he her hu have have- ten or or twelve children My mother is is' an example example exam exam- exam exam- pie of what it dots does to the woman Mot Mother er had tw twelve lve children only three of whom hom lived She is now at 47 in very ill health sick health sick in inbody inbody inbody body and nd mind She has worked and slaved all aWner her Ii life e and nd h is worn worn out completely On the other hand my husbands husband's mother has had iad three three- children All Air lived to adulthood and then the eld eldest st died through illness ss At 53 she is Itron strong as s can can be bee a and d she he looks about 40 Theres There's the differ differ- ence I I want children and so does dOH my husband but not until we we can give them the best but advantages of life We first want wAnt proper surroundings and environment in which we cAn can bring them up I do not think an apartment a proper pOpe place e in which to rear a baby and anda as Jas soon soon as ai we can afford ford to get in ina a house I am willing to have a family I really want at least two children a as I do donot donot donot not believe in rearing o one e alone And if possible and circumstances ances permit I would like four our I know we will be b. better off giving a a few the tha best advantages of life than having so many none of them having hav hay ing opportunities I dont don't think any w woman man should consider living livina her married life without children if she is able to h have ve them My sister has be been n sending lending me clippings from kom a paper out of the tate state on a birth control argument One ne woman who has been r married arri d three or or four r years said h. h Why t should I h have ve children I wouldn't be able to to go to parties and dances and shows I I wouldn't have time for my husband as a's I have hay now I would lose my figure and my husband husband hus hut band would 50 go t to another r woman with a I neater shape Every time we go to anyone's place and find it all mussed up and th the wife coming to the door deor with her hair all straggly straggly gly ply making excuse for forthe th the appearance appearance appear appear appear- ance ance of herself and the house with Im sorry but Ive I've been busy with the tha baby Dick says say when we ge get gel home Thank God youre you're not like that If I had children I wouldn't be bo able to work and arid have nice nic clothes or or anything I wonder if she he thinks think dancing parties and shows shows' everything in life I say ny shame on the theman man who would th think Ie less of his wife as a. the mother of f his hi child than he h. did be before be fore when her shape was wasso so per per per- f t. t Any man who d doesn't think his his' wife wife the most beautiful creature on she has gone through agonies to bring a a baby into the world Isn't worth his weight in dust Another woman woman wrote in the same pap paper r I I agree that w we shouldn't have children Why inflict life on ona ona ona a baby who wouldn't be here if he could speak for himself It is wrong It is cruel to bring ring children world We have them only as a II res result lt of our lOUr own own selfish emo mo- How can can any woman think that way Wh What t kind of woman woman is she anyway How any woman oman can keep from getting a thrill from holding holding holding hold- hold ing a soft warm warm wee body close cloae to her whether r it Is her own or or r belongs be be- longs longto to somebody else is more more than I can can see The w women men who dont don't know such a thrill are c certainly missing lifes life's most wonderful gift I hope this sift gift will not be denied to me because I await a more op opportuna opportune op op- time for receiving it it Thank y you u Miss Blair for the space and may you OU always have success In I. I your wor work B HAPPY It kinds to Wake make a world orl doesn't it Tho The woman who thinks any measures whatever er for birth control a a sin against hol holy commandments commandments com corn would look with horror upon you OU because you are frustrating frustrating frustrating frus frus- tho plans of ot nature nature- now und arc are waiting Until tho tim economic environment la is more more suitable You look askance upon the woman who chooses the sa gay society life in preference to motherhood and anti she no nn I doubt pities you 1 0 that you even contemplate contemplate con con- template having ha a 3 family And the skeptic who thinks we err rr to brine forth life lire at all w would L be commiserated by all alt of r you And so the thing to do after all la 18 s to govern o ern our own lives by tho the amount of oC light given ghe for our direction We Ve sincerely hope hop your dreams of motherhood may come true and that your our plans plana I Ifor for offering your children golden opportunities may not go so straying Come Com again TO RID HAIR OF DYES Dear Dur Betty Bla Blair r I am coming to to you with a question ques tion ton because I know you will help me if possible A friend of mineI mine would like to know how to rid her I hair of dyes On account of dyeing and hennaing her hair it looks looka rather streaked She wishes to know if it itis itis itis is possible to wash out these dyes by some means or do something to get the hair an even color The hallwas hair hall was originally dark brown Thanking Thanking Thank Thank- 1 ing you for any information BILLIE A series o of hot oil treatments Is fa Isone one Oe ne of or the best hEst things s to relieve this Con condition of or streaked hair hall about b by the u use c of dyes des and h henna treatments may be DC had hud at nt the beauty shops shop or or you ou may do your our own at home b by following in instructions In- In to be in our lar har Treatment of oC Dr Dry and Oily I lair You must not riot expect im immediate immediate Im- Im mediate results fh The oil treatment and subsequent washing and ma- ma has the effect of or aiding na nn na- na I ture turo in the growth ro lI ot of the hair and andIn andIn andin In slow plow but ut sure removal of or the un undesirable undesirable un- un desirable condition Send a stumped stamped self addressed envelope for the cir cir cir- cular ular EXERCISES Dear Betty Blair Tho The question has been asked many times the same as I am asking you Why have the up sitting exercises on the radio been discontinued ed of a morning Many frany girls girs like my myself elf who have to work find these exercises beneficial beneficial bene bene- in keeping their girlish figurea figures fig fig- urea ures and the way in which they were conducted on the radio of a morning when one is prone to be sleepy net alone aids In m the exercise exer cise ciu but arouses one ono ready for their work One who does not wish to get fat M H. H Tho setting up exercises were discontinued dis ills continued because at that hour a national broadcast came cane in The station is ia hop hoping Ins in the near future to find an m hour when the exercises ma may be resumed d. d I DAY OF BIRTH Dear Miss Blair I was born March 21 1901 and have never known on what day of the week my birthday came Both my mother and father hove have forgotten forgot forgot- ten ten Will Wilt you please tell m me me I E G. G S. S was wab le H luck lucky da day E Gf Gr S. S Conio Conic again |