Show t. t BETTY S c v 9 lett Letters and questions for the department should be addressed to Miss Betty Detty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven S Silt Salt Lake Telegram Write only onty on one side I of the paper It is necessary to append your name and address but these are held In confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices cannot be published in the column A TO LE LEARN RN STATE OF MIND Dear Miss Blair I am coming to you for help holp as asso asso so 10 many do I have been corresponding corro- corro with a boy for a year now Before he went away I wont went with him hm for six months I liko like this boy real well better than any other boy with whom I h have ve ever gone but butI I havo have no reason to bel believe evo that he likes me as much as I do him I know lie he is going out with other girls just as as I am going with other other- boys He is always prompt about answering letters yet they are just jurt friendly letters without any indication of real love He Ho talks about wanting to see see mo me again ha has hinted about me going where ho he is isto isto isto to spend my vac vacation but nothing warmer armer Can you tell mo how I Ican Ican Ican can find out whether or not he really cares care for fop me Would you advise me mo to go to California where he is now living with his aunt to spend pend my vacation I know no on one there and he would expect mo me to toBO togo togo go BO to his aunts aunt's to stay Thanking you kindly for any help you C can give AT SEA I have an idea that your our friend den Is as much at sea about the state of or mind as aro ato you ou lb IIo lIo is Aviso not riot notto notto to commit himself until he ho is perfectly per per- suro Buro of or himself You will bo 00 boi i wl Io i if ir you OU do not riot rush him into I making up his mind Bo content with the friendly letters They nrc arb tHe trie finest st background you OU can have for lovo later on if ir lovo 10 Is to come at Jt all They will prove provo to bo a n. I of at friendship if H love 10 does doesn xi n rol 5 l follow folio tl II think you will not bo hio able to tomake make up Ul your minds minds no no I dont don't mah that at all for lovo 10 is not a matter of OC making up p onos ones mind I think y you QU u will not know whether you U are in lovo hove with Ith each other u until or unIe unless s you OU do seo seG each other again If ho docs do-cs more than hint about your spending your our vacation with him at his aunts aunt's i if l he Invites 10 yOU you to do so I so-I I am of the tha o opinion it would bo a a. deciding issue for or you OU to accept Perhaps you Q ou have havo given him hint no encouragement encouragement encourage encourage- ment to rc really lly invite In you He lie may have ha b been en ca trying trinS to ascertain your in in delivering the hint hinL If Ir you OU can can without dragging it in b by bytho tho cars eais renew rene the tho question of or where you OU shall spend your vacation vacation vaca vaca- tion Lion I I should advIse you to do so You might do o so 60 by asking him if he couldn't como come here to spend his Either IUler wa way that w would uld put you in personal touch with each ach other again should d help to settle tho question ques tion one wa way or another And that thatis I 1 is what you oU want isn't it That is 1 providing ro either cither of or you OU are old oId enough to be sure suro of at yourselves es One must be able to make decisions when tho timo for deciding decIding- comes conies But Butone one should learn to mako malo haste ti IY In matters of oC love and friendship BATHING REVUE Dear Dur Miss Blair I do appreciate your help as Im I'm sure we all do Could you please tell lell eIl me mo when tho the next bathing revue isto to s be held at Saltair and also who ho the judges will be Or where could J find out if my question cannot cannot cannot can can- not be answered now Thank you kindly I The Saltair Beach company 22 2 Ew Last Buit t First South street has not yet et begun to think about plans for tho the thon n bathing revue Write them thein or w watch new newspaper paper announcements ments In Itt tho summer r when tho the weather and water 1 aro alO conducive to such tl ns You aro arc very cr welcome TREATMENT FOR STIES STIES' Dear Miss Blair Would you be so kind a as to anSwer anwer an- an r my question I have havn been b bothered with sties tics or bo upon p the tho t eyelids eld for a long time and I Ili li should uld like ike t to know the C cause of them and how to cure them Thanking Thank Thank- in ing you in advance H H. H One who i is much tr uble with sties should bo be sure re to consult a Physician The Tho sty may havo have been caused by bi tho the presence of or some somo foreign for for- eign substance at tho the root of or Iho tho eyelash and tind the fr frequency q ency with which tho sties appear shows that the substance should be removed by tl the th hand of ot a a. doctor The Tho oc occasional sty may be bo treated at hO home e. e Pull out the e eyelash nearest the tho 1110 sore pot Apply Appl several ever hot of ot boric a acid ld solution also o bathe tho yes tyes and lids in ii the tame eam solution Apply s. s little yellow oxide odd of mercury on the lid and massage gently with perfectly clean lingers fingers My advice to you u is that you ow see a n. doctor You aro are welcome TO CLEAN WINDOW BLINDS TULIP BED De Dear r Miss Blair May I ask you two questions What could I use to clean tho the plain green oreen or red sv wl blinds without wetting them so much Also I have it a large round tulip bed The tulips will ill be be gone gone before ummer summer Will you tell tel me what I 1 could plant there instead Shall I leave the tul tulip p bulbs In th the ground Thanking you very much TOO MANY QUESTIONS Clean y your Ur window blinds bUnds with wall aJI paper cleaner which roa may bo be ought bought at the paint shops at your grocers or at the drug diug store Lay Iy the blinds out flat lat on a clean floor tho the kitchen preferably and proceed to clean them with wads of r the cleaner Just JURt as the wall wal wallpaper paper is cl cleaned Turn thorn them over Y r and clean both sides It If there are are areS S finger marks that will not come off come ort off with the cleanser try Thoro or on them Plain naphtha also may rilay remove remo them Be sure suro not to use the naphtha in a room where there Is 13 u a flame as ls it I is very In Inflammable Inflammable In- In flammable and serious burns may be had b by carelessness in this re regard re- re gardt gard j L Leave Lave ave your our tulip bulbs In th the Ule after they havo have stopped ut off ot o t. t the stems a and L i 5 plant beds of or geraniums which can Iner Inel bo be taken talen up for the winter or nasturtiums which are arc annuals and nd will not interfere with tho the tulips or an any other annual DUTCH REFORMED CHURCH Dear Miss Blair Will you tell me what is the tho meaning of the Dutch Reformed Church Is it a religion of its own or a a branch of some sonic other religion Thanking you in advance OOGIE 00 G IE Lutheranism was intro introduced uc d into America b by the Dutch colonl colonists 18 who settled on Manhattan Island in 16 1623 3 In adapting Itself to the tho political and civIc lo conditions o of tho country it has sustained changes chang in doctrine government go and liturgy although the fundamental policy remains unaltered un un- un- un altered It Is distinguished from the Danish Swedish and other bodies of reformed Lutherans by being called the tho Dutch Reformed church Welcome FROST OPENS PINE CONES Dear Miss Blair I I I read your answer to Pinecone about gathering pine nuts and wh what you said about watching the season for them is true Out here in Nevada Nevada Ne Ne- vada vad we live the frost comes earlier and it is s important that the nuts aro are gathered before the frost comes or the cones will be opened and all the nuts lost In somo some seasons seasons sea sea- sons SOIlS tho the frost comes e early and in others late Wo We havo have never been able to gather them here as late as October although they may be bo gathered that late lato in lower altitudes Hope you do not mind my adding this thi warning about the frost to what I you said to P Pinecone I enjoy your column so much LETHE LETH E Very glad lad that that you ou came Lethe with the tho word of or warning about gathering gatherIng- tho nuts before tho the frost comes to waste them Let us repay your kindness I EXERCISES FOR FLAT CHEST Dear Miss BI Blair You have havo helped so many others I know you can help me I am terribly terribly terribly ter ter- ter- ter flat so much so that I cannot look well in my clothes al although although although al- al though I havo have some nice ones Is there anything I can do to remedy this If so what is it Also can you tell me mc how to get plump and shapely shape Iy ly legs Wishing you luck and happiness happiness hap hap- I Deep breathing exercises before an open window arc are excellent in helping to develop the chest muscles Stand erect upper arms at shoulder level elbows bent hands touching touching- shoulders Keeping the hands In position raise ralso both elbows above o head bead lower elbows to chest then swing them back as far as I possible Fold Itol 1 arms over chest raise elbows to shoulder level le clench fists Now pull the arms apart and out straight with a slow low motion keepIng keep keep- lag Ing muscles tense all Ute the time tinie Ite- Ite verse motion and repeat Exercises to develop shapely legs lebS follow Sit on a a. low chair or Ho lio down on your our back Raise Ralso rl right ht knee as hl high h as possible Point the thc toes and the lower part of 01 tho the le leg In wl wide circles from the knee Repeat with left leg Now put both feet together and both legs leg's at al the same samo time Stand on rl right ht foot Coot rise on toes and extend left eft leg leS' out behind Slow Slowly bend right lIght knee then straighten it slow slow- I hy y Repeat with left leg Evidently your our entire hod body needs ill up Drink plenty of ot milk tako cod coil liver oil and massage the legs leg's with olive oil after bathing bathing- each night Ight in warm water lh Thank you for forthe forthe the ho wish S |