Show I V 4 i I pam fn s- s sT TTO T- T TO BETTY 1 A u p Y Lett Letters ra and questions for foi th the department should be addressed to Miss Betty B tty Blan Blaip Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on on one sid side of f the pap paper r It t Is necessary to append your name and address l but these are held In confidence and will not be published d. d Lost and nd found notices published In Inthe the column J i Deal Mi Miss Dear Blair I I am Jam moved to write to you because because be be- be cause cause of ofa a a cert certain in fn attitude de I find expressed in n some sonie of the column I 1 litters tt e s- s the the employment of of of n- n narried women For For- For myself Ido not think there are many married women women w working who do rIOt not need to work One reason or another Most Most- men meo men still cling to the ide ideth idea th that t i it is is isa a stigma cast cast against against their own own integrity integrity for their wives to work and and for reason reason- corn campara- campara para para- f l w men who have husbands hus hus- ba bands bands to t support rt them do w rk And of f the few who do there i is usually a good reason for their so doing doig I am upholding my myown own case case when 1 I say say- so 1 am a great l lover ver of my home and of of the duties required to keep up-a up a home and family It al- al l. l w to fo o me that hat my special caree lay career in mothering a large fam farn- ily But fate would woul J have it it that I should have ye only two children and of of these on one was was' cruelly snatch snatched from d from me mo in an accident of that accident preyed my mind till there there- were days th I sho should ld go goma ma mad I could thinK of the many things I pi e Jjr have jave done grear r vigilance on m part that the accident might h have vo been prevented My son was Il In high school my husband huband in the fI e al aI day and left thus to myself my my- self my thoughts for comp company com corn p pany I would work myself into al almost al al- mo most t a frenzy of thought over what over what ve been o was sufficient tc to tod thoughts I I. I w was was s a woman with abundant he health had always b ben been en in the keeping keeping things up up up to the last milu mute minute e in housekeeping and by 9 o'clock each r fc y the bulk of my housekeeping wa was done ilone I th then n had an alternative tive tie of trying to occupy occupy m myself self with r reading ading or until til time to get to-get get lunch The afternoons ns were spent much h in in the same way until time to get dinner D Day y after aftel day of this this- palled paled on me terribly As long was alive there thele was always something to be bedone done done- making her hep- clo clothes hes adding addina a new ney t touch uch to t the e old to alter r its appearance appear ance arice planning with her hep oh on her hel life problems and suddenly to be bereft of all this this this-it it seemed there was nothing else to take its place I couldn't bear beal to go out much f homes of in my friends were su such ry i poignant reminders reminders most rs- rs most of then i. had sons or d daughters the age of mine now gone gone I couldn't even bear beal togo go to church the church the m mu- mu sic de l hie te 1 lose er emotional 1 tic nal control control- I was I-was- w was s' s like tik like like-a a a lost soul in no mans man's land and seemed to have lost e en ell ell- my emotional balance So o much so so in n fact that my husband and friends friend began tor tu fear feal for my sanity 1 I 1 began to fear fea for myself and when hen the idea suggested itself to my mind f that I should get out each day in some kind of work that would aman among amond people even less jes fort fortunate nate than I I grasped at atthe atthe the thought as as a drowning man man does at at a. a straw Fortunately an op openIng open n Ing ng came just at that time i took ti rh ncr Miss Blair it is is' is the one thing th that t. t has restored me mind and body My work carries me daily among people eople Mo who ho need my y help lp and whose help I 1 need To relieve phys phys' teal ical distress the distress the like of wh which h I never felt relieves felt relieves my mental dis dis- tress tres the like of which perl perhaps aps they never felt elt unless placed in the same circumstances My contact with wih th has broadened my viewpoint viewpoint viewpoint view view- point And Arid when I h have ve left my cases most of whom I call my friends in a a happier state of mind and body I feel that their v viewpoint viewpoint view view- ew p point int has also been chang changed d for th the better Miss Blair I am not a braggart but I 1 do not think any y young ung and inexperienced girl could do my work as w welt lt as I can cando d do it I think that my y experience has fitted me especially especially es es- for the work and arid I would not willingly give it up to one one not fitted as wen weir to perform what seems to o r me to be my lif lifes life's s 's work I COULD GOULD manage without the salary receive but I I. I COULD NOT man man- to ge-to ge to 9 get t along lona without the work And Andi I hope there will be be no fool legislation passed discriminating against married w men working out out- de the house VETOE j It to to note j just st hoy man many arguments can be be- bead advanced ad ad- on this m. m You know easy 1 Jt U is is for or mind to fol- fol oJ- oJ jw Jp-jw oT an of reasoning presented pres and nd to conclude at the end Sou Sounds ds till nIl night Jt It Itis is ls just so gO that false falE prophets with a a. kernel of truth by many sophistries and a. a great persuasiveness per may lead ead thousands in their wake The thIng for lor us to do dois is t to search tp-search s and that diligently for or th that t small kernel of truth W We doubt not that yours ours b Jias s it Vetoe and that the sophistries if It an any are few Dear Miss riss Blair I t hav questions to ask you you Is Ta there any place in Salt Lake where girls are are taught salesmanship to work in department stores To whom in the Ogden chamber of commerce could I write to locate a y friend Where Wherein in Salt Lake lake can a person go to have his or op or her lier fortune told We all enjoy Heart Hearty Hearts Haven and ad wish you the seasons season's greetings i F. F S SA S. S A letter dir ted tedo o Information lion Hon of C Commerce enclosing a stamped self addressed envelope may nia bring you yi u the the- thein In- In Information in information formation you you seek seek but but V y gO o to toll all ll that trouble when you ou ni may y c con con- n- n suit an Ogden del city directory at P Folks Folk's lk Us U's Directory ory P publishers Q i Salt in L Lake ke Polk's is 15 located in the Dooly build building InS InS' Experience is th the school that I teaches girls sale salesmanship for tor or department de dc e. e ent stores T I The ci commercIal 11 departments departments' in ilithe the high schools schools' and at the tho university would also prepare one in in of or th the proper pl method d' d dof of address and andai ai ap approach ap- ap for tor general salesmanship Section 1622 of l laws ws of Utah 1 1920 20 stales saltos very cn cry specifically specifically specific specific- ally that it f ig is unlawful for a a fortune for for- tune tun teller tell to tell tell fod fortunes nes f for l hire for I Tins includes fortunes told by cards palmistry clairvoyance oance caIr etc A A phrenologist Ir may obtain a U license ense b by being himself himself first cd this 1 1 SI Sf cannot t tc tI l 3 you U where you may fInd finda a fortune J teller May spent your YOu own yuletide be h happily piH Dear Deal Mss Miss Mis' Mis Blair We have haye taken The some sometime time and iid I would it if if you would answer answer my Iv Ive I've been told t I head ac pennies pen pen- ennies en nies flies have a premium Is this so and how much y W worth Also where can carl Or one redeem old coins and where can ca'n can can 1 send for fol a co coin n catalog catalog catalog cata cata- log I have collected qu quite te anum n mbel m- m ber bel of pennies and I know of no other pl place ce where I i may y get get the information ask asked d. d Thanking Thanking you in advance MR MRS MFt A. A Tho h lan large e Indian n head pen penny penn l is not listed is d as bc e ri g a ll premium em emul ul I It sometimes ne happens r that h t private collectors bUy buy buy up tip p as many of or the issue of ot a coin coth a as a. aro ae available available avail avail- able when tho larger large co companies do donot not list them There is' is small In IndI Indian indian in- in dI dian n h head penny 0 8 25 to 50 cents er bronze Indian valued aled from frOl 5 S cents The Forth Wort Worth Numismatic Numis Numis- maW matic company compan Fort Fott Tex Ter e bu buys bus s and will and wi for oi send you ou ou a a catalog E Entirely trey we- we wel wel- come t Dear Miss Blair This i is m my first attempt to write to you and my perhaps a a poor attempt I am hurt very very much so Lady I walked down dow Stat street with my hubby and was terribly embarrassed by seeing obscene ne pictures in a small smal novelty stand sand There Thee were three fellows there standing ing at them asking sli g h 0 other 1 if th the p pictures ct res didn't m make K them J unnecessary Now Miss Blair do you think it itis is right for fos such things to be e put put on display and laughed at When are they going to put pictures out of the for us opposites opposites x fo for us to laugh at If such p pictures ar are are considered art I guess gues I I. I dont don't know what what- art is Hoping this this letter leter will will- wil willbe be De an an- a and anci d think thank you you Very luch much nuch 1 I wish you a merry MRS 19 Wo Yo feel e t e extremely sorry f for h shock i it must hav our n nci tb ka-b l b looked ked at nt t those Y b s 's j. j is 19 and fd we think crit must exist has no place on-a on ori a ofa public We hope you turned y your r hedd d the otier t way way- as soon as you ou had hd tle slightest Idea of or what wha ti the i pictures pictures' c ures' ures and the thO laughing laughing- men were all al about abouL There are ae th all ai bout about us S. S every every d day which j ft we d chose to lok i chose tomake tomake room for in our c consciousness could wear vear weara a ver very d deep cp gr gre e ip in oi our oU gray matter And that And it Is is that very thing Sa rabid that makes malies people who ho turn reformers reformers' become lik like the thing they most d despise s st C consciousness con con- con of anything thing leav leaves s its ifs is ismark mark mark- markon on on tho the character of the the- theone one oue who entertains such uchi suel c uS es Therefore U iC tA a a- matter m t el which tI h. h cannot be e i r the best good o of all all al er d thing the 1 ig t tp I do 10 is to it as t it as soon sible Hearl no ItO eVil etril evl speak no k- k kno no 10 evil s 's see e no Is a very cr f fine e philosophy for one to A J right merry Christmas to you ou I 19 I Dear Miss Blair l I lam am am going to buy new some new w evening evening evening eve eve- ning slippers and would like to know whether or 01 not it is good style to have a slipper r with stone buckles Thank you so much the DOUBTFUL for help es D l and anding iI r hari hari- harn- harn harning r ing is the i present resent vogue voge for or buckles formed of large e effective stones to match the he y act net with Wih the tw same same stones stones' fE E Epe- Epe pe- pe Je- Je cial daily is this true of the thio rhInestone buckle and buckes buckles set with ncr el-ncr- aIds and diamonds imitation of course for o- o us us us You ou will wi not make a a. a mistake in choosing such a buckland buCk buckl and with wih the the- filmy gown the e et etis is Js Yer very chic Very Ver welcome r |