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I ij 9 S 'S 0 l d BETTY BLAIR S Letters Letter and questions for the department should be addressed to Miss S Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one id side lids I of the It is I. paper necessary to append your name and nd address II but these I are held In confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices notice cannot be published in the column Dear Miss Blair Yo You mentioned that we married folks might be able to give hints hint on How to Stay Happy Though Married Married Mar ned ried ried so here is my general rule Dont Don't both get peeved at t the same sameS S time Dont Don't buy anything unless you have the cash to pay right down clown for debt is one of the most moat insidious and terrifying poisons poisons'S S 'S there is in married life This is ex experience ex- ex speaking I am one of these unlucky persons who has to learn everything by experience Play up t dress for him be neat for him make makeS S him comfy read and talk to him If 5 you must bawl him out flavor it with a bit of flattery flattery it it is a mans man's mansS S weakness Tell him im you love him and ask him to tell you the same if it is necessary Play youre you're not married marred and pet with him park and play play play-no no one can say you haven't a legal right Make yourself li like e his sports and enjoy them Nine years ago I thought hunting and fishing Were the most things in inthe inthe the world I was afraid of bugs S and could hardly sit on the ground groundS S to eat an outdoor supper Now I Ilove Ilove Ilove love it it Im I'm at home in overalls on his faults or anyone S else's You have them too and so have 1 J. If he hurts your feelings dont don't let those black brooding thoughts creep in Laugh it off and say to yourself I love him and he loves me Oh I am happy Make a little song about it t Think big dream big and you will always be happy It Its It's all in the state of mind and who wants waita to be blues andI and I abused bused Hoping I haven't taken S much space and than thanking ing you S for your help Bett Betty B B. B Youve You've as assisted as s Sr isted me in jn forming a new philosophy phil philI I of life life on on two occasions occasions S' S 5 M MRS RS A A. A D. D S If It it was as an any assistance of ot ours that helped you form th the enviable attitude of ot mind that your our letter letterS S Indicates is yo yours rs we Icel teel very happy 1 and somehow compensated for our efforts We Ve are happy to to toS to'S S 'S pass on n your jour own happy philosophy to Little Bride who was so anxious ious ous lor for or the of others to toS how to be happy appy forever t. t S S Come again Mrs D. D S 'S j 4 De Dear r Miss Blair 1 S t I 1 surely realize how terrible some 0 5 5 of these hubbies are because I have S one of them But let these women read what this fellow wants in a wife and they'll feel pretty lucky and satisfied with theirs This was wasS S in a magazine and Ill I'll write just what he says S My ideal woman must be good natured understanding old old-fash lonec and a 01 good cook She will stay tay at home and let ME do the running around She will wilt not mind mindS if I use tobacco and keep late hours S She will realize her duties are caring caring car car- car cari i ing irig f for for- forthe the children and the house houseS housend S and nd NOT playing bridge and dane ing ing She will be the kind of a woman wo woo wooman wo- wo S man whose husband can bring home li his friends friends' for dinner and over overT overt t T night She will love him NO MATTER MATTER MAT MAT- TER WHAT HE DOES His S mother mother was this thia type so he says S and nd he believes all women should be like this Now Miss Blair Im I'm thinking this fellow should have b ben been en on earth euf years ago He might have found such a woman What say rou ou 0 1 EUNICE S With t womans Oman's emancipation spreading east as well as west such suchS S M t woman woman will soon be a rarity even Jn m Turkey or Arabia Yet this kind kindS S f roan is a a. species that may be found In surprising numbers the Wor over Dear friiss f Blair S I am sending in two pieces of of'S S 'S poetry The one a matrimonial dialogue dialogue dialogue dia dia- logue I I. I think is quite appropriate appropriateS S for the discussion now on I think it hit hits the mark for its it's the little things that get on a persons person's nerves till they could scream The other hits the mark I think for all this fuss about the younger gen gen- If they arent aren't too long will willS you print them as my opinion pinion S A READER r t S T Toma imay may not not print poems Reader Read Bead er r it is is' against column rules for poetry to be prInted In the col col- col- col nun But ButI Buty I am going to paraphrase para pam phrase hrasc tl the e first and print the see see- orid ond in prose form since are so much to the point in column discussions discussions dis dis- dis- dis The Husband with emphasIs emphasis em em- tells his wife if It he should ever throttle her it would not be for infidelity or because he had discovered dis covered her in a plot to prison Ison him Though these things would break his heart he lie could still forgive and take her back again But if It he ie EVER EYER SHOULD THROTTLE HER it would be bo because she had dusted oft off his writing desk and SET T IT STRAIGHT AGAIN or b because cause She sho says to him Why cant can't you dress Ilk like and look decent anyway V The wife wICe retorts that j if ever she sh should uld be tempted to ab abdomen omen with a a. gat it would be I because of her lack of patience e witha with witha a face that needs a a. shave and be because because because be- be cause he lie tells the same old story for the seven hundredth time and not because he might go on a and wild carouse or that he might beat her or even that he might threaten to elope with SOm someone one else's lady friend or someone else's wife wICe The conclusion Is If It we should slay each other this his is mat mar mai itally Hally true true true-It It will not be for tor major sins that either of us do but just some silly little thing leads up to the crime Some little thing repeated for the seven hundredth time The second verse Is entitled Going to the Dogs and reads reads' as as follows My grandpa notes the worlds world's worn worn cogs and says sars were we're going to the dogs His Ilis grandpa in ii inthe the Flemish bogs said things thing's were going to the dogs Ills grandpa in his hairy togs said things were go- go the dogs But this is what I wish to state THE DOGS DOG HAVE HAD AN A AWFUL WAIT Thank you for the contribution Reader Dear Miss Blair I Can you tell me the answer to this this question question What is the size and height for a a hundred horsepower boiler necessary to give 25 inch draft over th the fire at Salt Lake City BOB Bob since this thi Is one ne of ot the the q questions put by the he city ItY smoke Inspector to Applicants for positions as city smoke engineers It it would not be quite cuite fair fail for me to answer it for you ou Tho question is is' one given to test the fitness o of applicants applicants cants for the position But Hut Bob if iC you rou will get Kents Kent's mechanical handbook Heat lo Heat lo CI Engineering Engineer Engineer- ing n by Hirshfield aid Bar Earned 1 rd arid ana study it and assim ate the contents contents contents con con- tents you rou will be e to answer this question for rul c will willin in addition be better eq equipped for forthe the job for which you OU may make application S S SI Dear Miss Blair I am 10 years yearS yearS' old and wish to know if there is a cub scout organization organization in my neighborhood oj or anywhere anywhere any any- where in the city which I could Join join Will you also please tell me meto meto meto to whom I should write write- t to inquire about the c cost st st. of uniform etc I I will be awfully glad T Thanking you S E. E ER R. R There is no TIO regular cub scout organization or- or ori i i in Salt Lake L ike City E E. R R. I I IThe I IThe The organization approximating it I am Informed at at sc scout ut headquarters headquarters is a trail builders class of bo boys boys' s ranging in age age from S to 11 years the purpose of ot which is to teach the principles of ot scout work The class Is Is conducted under the auspIce auspices aus aus- pIce of the Primary association of the L. L D. D S. S church with headquarters in the Bishops Bishop's building in the offices of ot General Primary as as- as If It you are interested E E. R. R you might call an them for Cor par par- ticul rs I understand that religion Is not taught to th these e activity classes Dear Miss Blair I read in your Saturdays Saturday's column the letter of f J J. J E. E D. D who is is tr trou u. u bled with asthma I should like to tell J. J E E. E D. D that I have been a sufferer sufferer sufferer suf suf- ferer from asthma for 17 years and that the serum treatments administered administered ad ad- administered ministered by a competent physician cian eian have given me e great relief I I had tried many other remedies unsuccessfully un un- unsuccessfully i successfully I 1 had also tried Jav having hav having i ing an incompetent doctor inject the I serum with the result that he hi al almost al most killed me I should be very I happy to tell J. J E. E D. D of my doctor and nd also give h her r advice that I am sure will help her if she will get In in touch with me through you She is isso isso isso so young I think there will be permanent permanent per per- manent relief given her if she he doesn't delay too l long ng Thank you Miss Blair H. H B. B J. J E. E D. D if jr you wish to take advantage advantage advantage ad ad- vantage of ot H. H Bs B.'s kind ofte and write Tite a a note stating that fact to together together to- to gether with your full fuU name and ad address address address ad- ad dress in a a. stamped self self- envelope We shall forward he will all nfl it to H. H B B. and tell you about the relief reUel he has found and also gh give gin e you the name of or the competent corn com doctor who has so greatly helped him Thank you II If B. B Dear Madam S SI I would like to get to get some information informs informs- tion regarding civil service employment employment employ employ- ment merit particularly that of railway mail clerk Also the thc name name of some correspondence school that gives preparatory courses for the same I thank you for the answer CURIOUS Call at the federal building post postoffice office and make inquiry at the In Information Information information In- In formation window for sample examination exam exam- papers ot of tests already given given given en for railway mail clerks Ask also for additional Information concerning con can corning books etc to be read on the subject The Franklin Un Institute Is a a. reliable school Write rite them for courses of ot study covering the subject subject sub sub- you OU require Write also the International Sch School QI ot or Correspond Correspondence ence enee scranton cranton Pa and nd the the- American American Ameri Amen can School ot Of Correspondence Chicago Chicago Chicago Chi Chi- cago Ill for catalogs or e. e explanatory explanatory plana- plana tory pamphlets covering your sub aub feet Very welcome I |