Show t Ii I i lo f 2 f. f t BETTY BLAIR BLAR Letters Letter and questions question for th the department should hould be addressed to Miss MI l deIty Betty Blair flair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on en one side Ide of the paper It Is I. necessary to append your our name and address but these thue are held in confidence and will not be published Lost ind found notices I cannot be published In the column o- o oDear Dear Dur Miss Miss- Blair Blairr I have enjoyed your column and think you are doing a wonderful work However this is it my first question and I hope hop I am welcome fn In Hearts Heart's Haven Havn I am on one of the tho crop of summer lummer brides and am very very ery happy and very very much in In love Now the question is it HOW CAN I BE HAPPY FOREVER FOREVER FOR FOR- EVER AND FOREVER How can canI I always keep my husband loving me as he ho does docs now I have heard ft tt said Mid that women learn lurn by ex experience ex cx- how they could have been happy The only trouble is il a that they cannot make use of that ex experience ex- ex prience except to pass PUI it on to someone else So come on all you women who have been married a lon long time who have hae had that experience and pass pus It t tonto on to me I do so 10 much want tostat to tolay ta stat lay happy happy- I have no mother oftAy of ot tAy own anc and to 10 so of course cour cannot o GO co f fo her I know vou you will help me e. e LITTLE E BRIDE t. t n BE HA PI t EU AND D EVER Goodness isn't that a large ord oriter ord Bride nake nak of life lite ana nel eternity Seems a shame to spoil fovea young Joung dream down t it To ve h to tell ten nor hoe that life Just justI i mX lanOt in the trie very nature of things i S on that WILY WIY That It Is ts Just w. w impossible for tor her husband to continuo con con- to love her In EXACTLY the tame pam way ho he does doea now as isa It la Ia that roan rusi hull ball continue to bloom the 1 i year tal sOund round th that t the mountains and anduS erosion thi uS tend land shall withstand shall ahall remain reman Abet t at we little tJ through II all this world of change Chan Change change IANa is one of ot otles otle's life's lifes Changes for the better nI o Changa for tor the wora pU 1 who At l leut it the married women tn j experience can cun do O this had hod ve tj buI Ch tos' tos ou They can COn n tell you tso u Co 0 just your yourself elf to the dt tt that are bound to CO come E so 0 o shall have hac your me measure sure that t t. t you Jt dt hap They can tell you tS conduct when this hoW to yourself ecstatic t wonder of ot love lo has ad anti else eith either cither r of r Oti o less tells degree shall have nave They can tell you ou taken Its p PW c numerous rou mistakes to avoid AN Wilt M this plea married women women wo wo- wo- wo you OU answer men nten Dear Mi Miss 1 in Blair I have been want wanting nB to write for forA had the the theEr A long tana time but I haven't to do 0 o. o But this has been on nerve mind for such a Er long tine time my I that now I am coming to you as have Ilave known a raws soldier for over a year yer and we were pl to set get et mar mar- ried this coming spring I know h he loves me with all hi his bin heart and andI I love him just as much much- But peo till soldiers soldier are not a avery avery that tell me Cery p pIe good type to go with I have very un Un- with him long enough to up- up gone Bone his hil ways He is very and fascinating Now handsome certain girl whom we met meta is there thero a and with whom he h. month month ago has a become friends friend We W. love to it U is right for a aboy aboy aboy dance and I think boy to dance with his hi first But dance the went to tp the other night we with this other A girl he danced lId sd him bV first firt three dances I told he couldn't dance with her any anymore attention atten- atten more rore but he didn't pay any ton tion just went on dancing danina with her He said I was jealous but I really not a jealous girl Well all maybe am what to tod todo wilt will tell me but you I was acted d do if ii I am m I have never t that at before and lots of girls way have hive flirted fitted with him before What did I do right in tell tell- I cin can I do or him not to dance with her lg BERTHA I And nd what pray pra were Vere you yoo doing first ligat while he ho was wall dancing these everal e dances dance with the other girl jUst J sit sitting Un there waiting our lour ch chance n e to deal lent him hint the first wr wrathful tul blow In delivering the Unwelcome un- un welcome wE news that he must not dance danee with her an any more V Well Veil ell Im I'm 1 m not to say whether hether you au weI werd jealous or not but if U you ou oue with righteous wet weren't e t consumed then you should have been and maybe that's Just what was wa as the matter with you ou lint Hut child you ou did wrong In tellIng telling tell tell- ing he be must not dance with her any Rny more In fact you should have ha ione all in in your our power to make it U Impossible for him to dan dance with y I Anyone c else for lor the tho entire At I len least nt t 50 so far a nil as you ou were re con on rn d For Kor If It I hail nor never n or don such an u unseemly ml thin thing It in my life lite before before- tort I certainly at that particular lar time would have bent every e ef effort ci- ci fort tort to lure another man to m my aid hI to Into Interest t him to the point of asking auk ask ing me to dance done to make me lH- lH with some Home of or Isis hili friends frIend and find myself no so engaged that there the would woul l be no dunces dances left for foi hi him hlin In for the evening Also he liked to dance danee with her hr so no well I he would surely aurely like to take her hel home and I should arrange that last he also Ilbo be free tree to db that And a as for nn any explanations that thu he ht might tr try tr- to make I think there could coul be none to which I 1 should care to listen Usten Now If It the ot other girl hal had been your our guest and aDd you had arranged between n you OU that he dance with her first and ami that you OU either alt elt out the dance ance or that he hetry hetry tr try t to provide pro you ou with another partner that would be a different matter entirely But from a mere amere matter of st choice to dance with the theether theether theether ether girl everal tint before he lie danced with you who were wee hi hit his partner either Ither such lackor lack I of or good breed breeding InK or ot suck such willful disregard disregard dis dis- dis r regard ard of breeding as ns to warrant I your refusal refuEl ever eer aKa again In to go to a dance with him or even to continue the relations that have hae existed between between be be- tween you I. I Iwon wonder Just that sort of thing thins that has made people sa say to you ou Soldiers are a poor type for girls to go SO with We think the fault lies with the Individual and not with soldiers as aa a a. chase clas Its It's decidedly de de- de- de unfair to speak In generalities generali ties that wu va about soldiers Dear Betty Blair We are your admirers and thi this is our first question Will you please tell us which Is ri right ht A says President goes noes out of office forty-eight forty hours before the new president comes in and that the secretary of state holds tho of office of of- fice fit for forty forty eight eight hours B says that one president holds the office until the other is inaugurated i ANXIOUS I The new president of the to United State States Mr Ir Hoover Hoover s assumes office and the outgoing pt pf president Ident relinquishes relinquishes relin relin- office office- when the former takes his oath of If office on Inauguration ration day dar which occurs curs after this election on March larch 4 4 1939 i Dear Miss Blair My parents are foreigners who have been here for twenty twenty four four years They have taken their first citizenship papers but have hav never taken out their final papers M My mother wants to get hers but my father does not Could my mother get her papers without my fathers father's consent ANXIOUS YOUr You I mother has a a. right to petition petition peti peti- tion for her second papers but whether or not sl ase she receive es them depends upon the nature of or her husbands husband's objection The CaSe cas should be referred to the naturalization tion bureau for tor settlement Write to It at the Federal build building Ins or call en them Wasatch 1479 1473 and state the entire case including the the reasons asto as a's asto to why your our father objects to taking tak tak- ing lug the final papers of citizenship for himself and wife FLOWERS Murray Nothing Murray Nothing in inthe inthe inthe the nature of that which you ask is at present scheduled either on the railroads or bus lines JUST A MOTHER MOTHER Kindly Kindly watch the column for kitt kittens ns to be given away There hav have been numerous such uch gifts recently Dear Miss Blair I Seeing that you have helped so many perhaps you can help me Mine isn't an sa affair of the heart however Do you advise me to buy buya a transparent velvet dress I think they are Very lov lovely ly but amin amin am amin in doubt as to their wearing ties I am of limited means so so so 1 I Ican I Ican can afford only one best dress between now and April What color shall I get I I lam Iam am a avery aI avery I very light Nordic blon blond I l have blue gray blue gray eyes and a fair skin I wear black very viry well but have so soman many man many v black dresses that Im I'm be beginning beginning beginning be- be ginning to tg tire of the color My second question is it Do y you you u I think I should learn to dance Im I'm not cuch Euch a slender thing thing 5 feet 6 61 2 12 inches tall tail and weigh weighing ng pounds pounds and and have the impression impression sion on that bi big biJ j girls girls' are re too clumsy to dance Mv My friends fiends have hav tried to cure me of this impression impressio but they haven't succeeded very very verr well Im I'm dreadfully self Perhaps Perhaps Perhaps Per Per- haps you could give me the name of a book which teaches teaches' beginners something about the art artof of dancing dane dane- ing Thanking you ever so so so- much MISS OHM I We think ou ourselves ln that th the transparent vel et would be very eh lo el lovely in the combination shades shade of green or blue pre predominating But flut t b one can but iUt on one bet best I I I dress between now nor and April we doubt the practicability ot of such a a. purchase Velvet begins to look took a little Ittle warm toward the latter part of February of-February and In March Marels We are of or the opinion and that opinion is backed b by other authority than our own that a a. satin in one ane of ot the rich golden browns in hunters hunters' green or one of the love lovely shades of blue would serve your our purpose better The velvets even the tho highest priced grades are not guaranteed by the the- dealers though so far as ax has been known they have han given satis satis- faction But velvet is of cou course coure e a always alwa's harder to keep In condition than Is satin And nd this Is especially especial especial- I ly true of one who wh her clothes well since wrinkles are arc the more I apt to appear and satin is so much easier to keep pressed than Is vel vel- vel elet vet et On the whole we think for lor practical purposes the satin will wm serve sene you rou better and give ghe as mud mud- I satisfaction so far fat as as appearances I go And we think by all aU means you OU i iI should learn to dance even een though you ma may not fin fine find a a. howling howl I ing success on the tile ballroom floor And nd your our size will not prohibit I Ind you ou from tram being heln for man many plump women have ha a body elasticity that makes snakes them themer er very ery light on their feet And for tor exercise there is nothing better than dancing Write Write- an any of oC tho the dancing schools in Salt tatt Lake for Cor or printed instructions of the popular popular popular pop pop- ular dances dance These the they will furnish fur nl nish h for h somewhere e In the neighborhood neigh neigh- 1 of 1 Jl per dance T Then en there are the Elizabeth books of or folk dances dance that you ou should get an and 1 practice to the music of your OUr phonograph But of course cours the best va way to learn rn to dance lance Isby is isby iB I b by actually dancing Ae Accept pt your I friends at their word and let them theft i help to teach you OU the th art The Manual of or Dancing Steps tep With Compiled List of Technique St Steps cc published by A A. A F. F Barnes and company com corn pany pallY should help you In accomplishing grace and rhythm o of bod body Your book store win wilt orde order the books for you ou And nd we think In Inthe Inthe inthe the cn end the pleasure derived from having haUng te learned arned will wm more than com corn pen ute for the agony you OU may experience ex ex- J pet pet-lence In the learning |