Show BETTY BLAIR 4 r rt t Letters and questions for tire the department should be addressed to Miss MissI I Betty Blair Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Telegram Write only on one side I o of the paper It ta It-ta is necessary to append your name and address but these I are held in confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices cannot be published In the column C Dear Miss Blair t You are the only one who seems t to beable be able to answer our many questions so I am coming to you once m snOre more re I I r Iam am in love with a married marred man nian and it it seems that I Ica Ica Ica ca ca' not forget him Please tell me me something to do do for I am with him every da day and I know I love him himi but must forget He tells me how hown n much ch he loves me but h he has two small mali children and they must come i fir first t Please do not tell tellS me I am I foolish for caring aring for him as he was Vas the one who started the affair JuSt Jutt one more please A sa says s that a girl can get married in this state after she has reached her eighteenth birthday without her parents consent B says she can Which his i is right Th Thanking you fop the answer you will wilt give me LOVESICK You You speak spik Sp k o of this married mans man's mansso iwo t so children who must conic come first firstin firstIn in hi his affections but you say not a word about his wife What of her Lovesick Has lias she been relocated rele- rele gazed s so so far to the background of both of ot our minds that she doesn't eten e deserve mention Is it because of the children only that you must I forget Well Veil these are things that you have not told tol me me so I must go ahead trying to advise you jou ou on strength of your own statement state state- ment only that t you must forget Lovesick this matter of forgetting forgetting forget forget- ting tins when it is absolutely nieces nieces- sary lary that one orie one must must forget and I agree with yo you that Sours yours jours i IS such sucha a 2 case must be made purely a matter of business And the sooner sooner Jou 3 bu ou go about it with this thought in mind th tho quicker will vill your own wounds be healed If you foresight en enough you will begin begin be be- gin sn today to to learn this very able lesson And how Well if it you had made up your our mind to go to business college college col col- col- col lege ege to become an exp expert rt stenographer stenographer you would wo begin hammering away for dear life lICe on n the type- type TIter TIler you would put put put-in in time d dur thir- r ing the tho regular ular session of school hu but butr huou i you ou would work at at l home Oln tak tik leg ing hours only for rest and which i might al alt also o include a change of of work such as helping pou sout th the ho house se You might long lg to tl be bo a second Ruth Elder I instead t to pend all th these se valuable hours hours' that sh should uld be spent in study in l the getting the emotional thrill that flying g among the clouds would in X Ima imagination I atlon bring but is Uty-is d that demanding m you yon O be become onic of stenographer si i i Suppose then that U at instead of spending your our time on pur as assigned as- as signed lessons you ou sat about with your your b book ok before before- your eyes but ith mind in the clouds JIow How imagine it it would tike t you lu tt al at that tha rat rate to your lr Cb and bp on the actual s of earning your our bread and b better l 1 i And ju just t as IS' IS s it ft would b he utter 1 ly to mix th the hu business ln ss of learn- learn ing with that of con con- tl u in our im imagination mt m- m t In in Inthe the air so BO would It If be beaste waste S-waste aste of time timeto to mix the business ss ot Cl 1 forgetting w with that of b b TI OU C have llave arrived at an are age where i a is il absolutely necessary that von tJ make decisions for y yourself ursel that thai ru rut pItt t Et be final else do you vou weaken T ur own character to the tIle point of b ver hei bein being able to make maIm up UTI your yourI I ird for any certain course course in you cant can't say sav to yourself T I will forget and leave it at that any any more ii r you can a say y 1 will wil willbe willbo 1 be bo a stenographer and expect that hat the mere saying raying will nuke mke on one 3 ot of you You must replace replace- the old old Yo XO You l mus must say to this n man an Nothing Is good that Is not good in the Ion long longrun longrun run and therefore you must nomore no more moie speak to me the of love nor nOl inn inti intimate mate to me in any way that the old still exist If you are re associated with him daily in a a. business business busi busl- ness f way let your contact with hImlie him himbe himlie lie be in purely business relations Oh it will h hurt rt at first but there Willbe will vili willbe be compensation for yo you in the I thought that you are nrc master o of your I own emotions and that you are livIng living livIng liv liv- ing up to your your Ideals And you need not think that the hurt will last forever for Time rime is a wonderful physician whose expert touch can an heal most wounds wounds' so that even the scar is Invisible In this state a a girl has reached the age ago of decision at IS 18 18 so that thatA's thatA's thatA's As A's contention Is right Always w welcome I Dear Everybody's dys dy's Friend I have been trying to locate a aMiss aMiss aMiss Miss or Mrs who is a niece of Miss Smith the adopted daughter daugh daugh- ter tel of Joseph Smith the founder of the Mormon church but have been unsuccessful so far Am wondering wondering wondering wonder wonder- ing if through your column there would be any possibility of coming in contact with her My telephone number is Hyland Thanking you for previous favors IGNORAMUS Will you jou ou call Hyland Ignoramus Ignoramus amus ask to speak to the lady orthe of or the house at this residence and you jou ou will wilI be speaking with the women who sho is Mrs l V of f wh whom you have been in search You jou are very welcome I Tc Te TROUBLED If you will call C. C B. B Ihland she will tell you You the name of a a private private id i'd- vate Individual living in the Big lipe district who will give vou you th the tho information jou OU require But Troubled there thero are arc a number of oil concerns drilling there You must therefore make malte It quite definite efi- efi nite which one of these it is c concerning con concerning con con- n- n which you seek the Infer Infer- I mation I II I Dear Miss Blair I This is my first visit to Hearts Heart's Hav Haven n but I need a little help from you and hope that Ill I'll be welcome I am trying to find the address of Mr and Mrs M M. M G. G Lea of Salt Lake whose former address was 41 Jeremy street Hope I can receive this this' soon soon and many thanks in adI ad ad- adVance I vance VISITOR M. M G. G Lea is not listed either at Jeremy Jeremy- street or with a t corrected coi address in hi the city directory Sorry Sorry Sorry Sor Sor- ry ry that I have haye not this information for you Am m. hoping that perhaps some of our readers may be able to help hell us out Dear Miss Miss' Blair I J have hav a 1902 dime with an an S Son S-on Sont on it t and would like to know if there is Is a premium for it it If If so to whom can I send for the premium Wishing Wishing Wishing Wish Wish- ing you lots of success in in the fu future fu- fu ture GOLD GOLDIE I E. E There i is n no premium on your jour our I dime le Goldie The S indicates merely merely merely mere mere- ly that it was minted in the San Francisco mint Thank you for the wish and come again I Dear Miss Blair Could you please tell me the latest address of Helen Homes movie actor ictor I once wrote to her hern jn n Fort Worth Texas by the name of Helen l H. H Sanders but the letter was returned uncalled for i I will wiil appreciate this information very much as it is of great importance to me Thank you M MRS RS E E. E D D. D H H. H I l From rom all account that we have been able to make male of Helen Holmes s she he married and retired from tile trie stage at least five years ago She l last ast made pictures for Pahe company com con j pany any but the tile local distributors distributors distribute s know nothing of where where- a outs It is barely possible that even the Pathe studio Su Sunset boulevard Hollywood may be able to give you the bit tt at least you might write then them to make Inquiry I Dear Miss Blair It is with a great deal of interest interest inter inter- est cst that I read your answers to inquiries found in your most popular popular pop pop- ular column of The Telegram I too come with hope that you yoUcan can answer my question I am very de desirous dc cleo sirous of going to to South America to work I am a graduate of the tIme theU U U. U of U. U where I took out my degree de de' degree gree from the school of commerce and finance last year Will you beso beso be beso so kind as to tell tall me to whom I could write to make application for employment any place in South America I I sincerely thank you J. J C. C A A. A |