Show BETTY Letters and questions for the department should be addressed to Miss Betty Blair Hearts Haven Salt Lake Telegram on one side of the pape It ItIs Is necessary to append your name and address but these are n confidence anc will not be published Lost and found notices ano b published in the column y Dear Mr s BI ir May I bother you you My time first and hope Im I'm welcome You surely Now Miss Blair Im I'm a girl of pf 18 disgusted with life ife Nothing to live for sifter after all My mother best friend a girl will vill ever have lave died ched some time ago leaving me me to roam the world kicked from fro one place to another Oh if I c could uld go to her how happy I IdT id be Now Miss Blair Blair- I have a boy friend whom I think a great deal of H He seems to think a a. a lot o of me e as long longas as my girl friend isn't around Peo People pie say she isn't a decent girl She is is going gorig with a wonderful boy but bul yet she cuts up and fools with my friend Now weve we've had a a falling out on account of her He co couldn't really care cars for me could he Y t people say he does Gee its it's ter terrible not to care what becomes of r you That's the way I feel I just i believe I will go a away aay ay from fron everybody every every- body Oh if I I Ionly only orly had a mothers mother s love No one knows how I feel to to day Please answer soon as I dont don't know how long I will ilI be here Wishing you loads of success JUST LONELY ME Son eho Tr Lonely nel In Iii spite spite- oC of or alt all these troubles that to be seem sni heap- heap lug Ins themselves on your head at it itO i O once ce I have a feeling that every thing is going gOinS' to turn out well for you To every everyone one of ot us come the dark and lonely hours but in most of us us there Is th the fighting spirit that says I will not gi give in And for each battle that we win over battling baffling circum circumstances stances comes conies added strength to meet the next on on- on slaught Th The loss df Cf V l' l Is In indeed Ined eed a poign poignant nt l loss ss that that time alone c C can n iI mitigate but suffering I Ia Isa Is hi hia a crucible burns lurns to white white- heat yet jet ef the tle burning riTs us of I h dro dross dros s. s and and emerge emerge finer fine in every way ray for l having agonized and conquered An And that I feel sure is what you vou are going to do do conquer r ro rover o over or r the tr troubles that V 10 a assail o ou l o ou l of Tn this a. a affair affair- 31 with ith y jour our ur boy hoo fl friend end be go so far fr above e j h ng in th the criticism of your Jour girl gir fr fi- nd e even even een en though you tire are re the one who suffers most that others will stop th their thIr ir criticism also arso 1 fhe tho h et ef- ef to laugh gh at ther ither her quips with ith your our frIend and and f i if the break came through your om showing a spirit of jealousy je acknowledge dge your ur own mistake In this In-this this regard It is always to t be put at ata a disadvantage to show yoUr sho your w weakness knes li 01 Triumph over o l. l And Anti with y tr trust st and respect from your oi r friend friend you h have vr gone g a a. a long way way toward vard regal regaining his Ills love which perhaps has only been routed because of our your disinclination tow toward rd seeing him have a a good time with ar another other nother The more you ou can laugh at this yourself the themore themore more steadfast your sour own o looting footing will vIlI be f And while jou ou ll are are going going tho the fire e remember that there are many others whose whose- sufferings ar are areas areas as great and greater than you our UJ own For every e heart m. m n n. n nEed timers there there aie many willing to radiate love and and helpfulness toward to you you you- youcan can do most for tor yourself y It I f B ii z i. i lb v lO lOt to t the l storms storms- i ims jut A i I iThe The e beam that n t smiles the clouds douds i away away- n tomorrow with ia i in your our 1 jour ozy own r the clouds will disappear C fram V viv low kies Ikles skies Do col f nd ef 1 l talk talk- lk this Iwai azat t. t o I f f i iff ff f. Deac Dei Miss iss Blair fair I Im I'm sure you YOI know how much we appreciate your column mn so that ha needn't enter into the main mam part o of this letter I have have just finished reading Rights for Mens letter and Im I'm pot ot going to to criticize any any- one C It seems seems seems' to m me Rights for Men hardly appreciates tho favor his wife is doing him by giving him himI the companionship of his lila children No doubt doubt- it is trying b but t some day I in the future when they grow grow up to be big fine men men and women ant And come come to mother with everything father is going to fe feel l n neglected Its It's up to him to get his now I would s suggest that pu put down a list of all th the t tasks that cone come come in just one ordinary ordinary- d day y am and th that t Rights for Men do the same and then compare Perhaps Perhaps' he doesn't realize realize- the number of little ittle interruptions that the mother of children childen chil cant can't av avoid id Im I'm Snot not tr trying ing to judge since I k know kow ow neither one ne b but t I hope hoP its it's just a standing I thank you Miss Mis's Br Blair BEir ir for reading this and if you you think it will help I would appreciate it it if you ou woud would print jt it it MRS C. C F F. F P. P I It 1 I our e experience cx that married marrie people eople are are are- more more apt tf to 19 profit bythe by bythe the he experiences s of oJ others than are e eth th the unmarried unmarried- We W therefore welcome wel wei- come your suggestion tion Mrs P P. and trust trust that it will IL-will TV ill form fon form on on oaie oth stepping g son stones to toward ird a a reli rehabilitation tation tati n. n of of- the o. o o both con con- Th Thank you jou I De Miss Blair Brair Will yo you please e. e print the recipe for sweet pickles that was in your column some time ago a as as- 5 the amount of pints of sugar was was' rubbed out out- and 1 I have ave my my pickles in iq the brine Also w would uld you tell tell me how to bottle red beets so they w wont won't nt spoil o. o Dont Don't like to ask too n much but but v would ld like ike these recipes as soon as possible Thanking you in advance advance advance ad ad- vance ANXIOUS Soak Soak 25 c cucumbers rs dill ize in brine brine strong eno enough gh to float an egg for 2 2 weeks Take ake out and Wash cut In 1 cesor It if sm small lJ leave Put lu utIn In cold old water over to which hhas has been added rock alum the size of C s. s a walnut wa l f. f T To one ii q quart art of vinegar add 3 a pints Ints' Ints of sugar sugar suar 1 ta I cloves l ves 1 Vi package mixed ng spice Boil and arid pour over v vr r pickles pickle F consecutive morn mornings reheat the liquid arid and p pour pourover ur over ver pickles At the end of the lo fourth day s seal al in sterilized Jars or keepin keep keepIn In crock in cool dark place To bottle red beets use small uni uniform upi upi- form beets Wash carefully are leave leav the roots and stems long Boll until half halt done plunge Into cold water rem remove ve the skins and pack into sterilized Jars Add dd h teaspoon n salt and arid teaspoon sugar to each ach qu quart rt Fill with boiling water and process In boiling w water t r In ln b boiler bler ler 2 i hours or if in press pressure ie cooker booker 10 O Oto to to 1 13 15 pounds pounds' pressure for 40 min mhz ute utes Leave lids lids' slightly loose and screw tight when ta taken from boiler boier or cooker Hope we ve have the recipes recipE's for you in time time and very wel welcome j I Dear MISS Blair Here Her you ou are Mr Mrs Fa Fays Fayo Brent Brent- linger inger formerly Miss Faye T Taylor rO route rouLe I 1 box 1 OA A Merced Cal Hope Inquisitive will be plea pleased ed edwith with the information on M MRS RS EB M. M M. M And And s since j JP a 1 former girl friend very er desirous of getting in touch with Faye a T i Bi entlinger Brentlinger no do doubt bt slip h wIlt w Hi be pleased so accept thanks from flom u ug u for your jour kindness in sending ending along llong the w word Vord rd both as to her change chang of oC I name and her whereabouts May we we do do something tor for vou ou wiil Will PROVO WOMAN IAN who wrote u us' us s some dome time ago asking for tor a list st of second hand hand nd clothing stores in inS S Salt lt Lake kindly lindh send us her full name and address address' We Ve have Information mation that tha t may Interest her Dear Dear Miss Blair Election is coming soon and and an argument has arisen as to how the name pam candidate came to be attached at to persons persons seeking office Will you kindly explain this through your excellent column Gratefully r t f II POLITIC In In ancient Rome men who wished to be b chosen f for dr r an office dressed themselves in white to signify the purity o oh of their motives and their Intention to deal justly if it elected From this custom comes conies our word candidate meaning literally as it did in those days a man clothed In white but in some cases departing de de- de- de p parting g far ar from its meaning m ning Glad to ha have ve you you ask Dear Miss Mis Blair Biair Willi Will Wil you please pleass tell me how the name Tommy Atkins came to be applied to all English soldiers SOLDIER BOY Gladly Soldier Boy The fictitious I name of Thomas Atkins was U used d by Ui the th English gov- gov to how the tIme privates private enlistIng en- en listIng just how they were to sign names to documents and amid army forms The Illustration grew familia all and afterward the popular term erm Tommy Atkins came me to ap- ap aply apply pry ply ly to tI tl e e soldiers of the English arm army Dear Mi Miss s Bla Blair r I I have received so so much help elp from your corner that that I an am coming now with a helpful hint to show my appreciation and hoping that others ma may benefit by it also I never never us use screens ns on on my windows and yet my friends say say they never I see a a fly fly- in my house They have often me what I I. I Idid did to k keep ep he the flies away I dislike screens screens as s I think they keep out much of the he fresh air that should come come in through th the open windows and in winter they get so so clogged with with-i smoke a and d grime grime- M My remedy is isone isone one that I learned from my grand mother mothr years ago and though fly fy sea season on is nearly over over now I am am s sanding the remedy an anyway way Mv r. r used to put bunches of lavender avender flowers around around wi window dow casements and arid doors to keep the flies lies away but m my mim method thod is sim- sim pIer ler I b buy y a small bottle of oil of lavender avender from the drug store and mix it jt with the same amount of wat water r Th Then nl 1 I put it in a common n glass atomizer and spray it around the he rooms wherever flies s are apt to toc o c congregate especially specially i in the room where I It plentifully over over the table linen The Theodor Theod Theodor odor od r is e disagreeable to flies lies and antI will never venture in its ts neighborhood od though to most people it has a fresh good smell May I come coe again SWEET LA LAVENDER Indeed j ou nay may Sweet Laven Laven- der ler and we hope that next time it t will be in order that we Va may do something for you jou Thank you fo for the he suggestion Even screens fan fall to keep out all tle the Qi s and the lavender water might be used with I. I success by those people who vh i are re loath oath to part with th their ir screens screen |